Chapter 227：

In the dormitory, only Sun Min and Qin Lingling were married. Sun Min's child was born early. Qin Lingling always said that she was busy with school and outside work, and discussed with her husband that the child didn't need to be so early, so she never got pregnant.

They discussed before when they were in the dormitory that if Qin Lingling became pregnant and had a child in the future, Shen Manman and Li Zhi would be godmothers.

Although distressed for their expenses, Qin Lingling did not refuse the kindness anymore.

"Then you guys will have dinner at our house tonight." She glanced at the clock, "A Zheng will be back later, and then call him to buy vegetables and cook."

"Brother-in-law buys vegetables to cook? Sister Lingling, didn't you do all the cooking before?" Li Zhi asked.

Qin Lingling's craftsmanship is obvious to all three of you, and she doesn't eat less.

Qin Lingling nodded, "He said, oil fume after pregnancy is not good for me, he will do the cooking at home in the future."

"Really? Brother-in-law loves you too much, right?"

For Li Zhi, she was a girl from a small village. The women around her were pregnant, and even on the day of her birth, she had to work in the fields, not to mention the lighter tasks of cooking.

Women live like Qin Lingling, which is envious of everyone.

Everyone talked about meeting children at home, and it didn't take long for Gu Zheng to come back. This time the vegetables were all in his hands. It seemed that when he went home, he stopped by the vegetable market and strolled around.

When he opened the door, he saw a few women sitting in the room, and Gu Zheng was still stunned, thinking he had gone wrong.

Qin Lingling reminded: "You did not go wrong."

Everyone was amused by Gu Zheng's reaction.

Gu Zheng smiled and said, "I know, but I didn't expect so many people to come to my house suddenly."

After greeting each other, Gu Zheng said, "I'll take the vegetables in first."

Qin Lingling: "Good."

Seeing his Gu family's appearance, the other three are very envious.

Li Zhi muttered: "Sister Lingling, why did you find such a good man? I really envy you!"

Qin Lingling smiled and said: "Good men are everywhere, and he is not the only one. In the final analysis, we have to find someone who is suitable for us. In all aspects of personality, we must be suitable for ourselves. Personal life is different, and it won’t work."

In life, there are so many good and bad things, but they are all suitable, tolerant and believe in each other.

Everyone sees how beautiful others are, but they never think about how much effort they have put in for this result to reach this state.

Of course, there are also people who can't get along well, and life is all sorts of things anyway.

Gu Zheng entered the kitchen, but did not come out right away. Qin Lingling asked the three of them to sit for a meeting, then went into the kitchen and told Gu Zheng that some of his classmates would stay at home for dinner and let him do more.

Gu Zheng responded without hesitation, "Okay."

"Then you have to work hard, let them see how delicious my man cooks."

Gu Zheng thought about it, nodded and said, "I will try my best."

In fact, Gu Zheng should be very good at cooking. This man is faster than Qin Lingling in many aspects of learning. Although he did not go to college, he has been studying since he came to the city. Cooking also makes sense. .

At the meal last night, Qin Lingling could feel Gu Zheng's skills.

Gu Zheng glanced outside and asked, "I don't buy a lot of vegetables. Would you like to buy something else before I wait? Let your classmates have a good meal?"

There are three people in my family. The market is not far away from home, so I rarely stock food at home, so I buy it one day and make it a day. Even if it is sometimes cheap, it will not buy more than two days. There are only some peas and melons. , I will buy a little more.

Qin Lingling nodded, "That's okay, anyway, it's still early, I'll chat with them, you go buy it!"

"Um."

Gu Zheng put the vegetables in the water basin, talked to Qin Lingling's three classmates, took the basket, and went out again.

Behind them, the three of them kept complimenting Gu Zheng for not being able to stand up. They were very conscious of the family, and they would not feel that they would be embarrassed by doing these things.

Qin Lingling smiled and said: "What's the shame of this? He is not doing moral depravity? Washing, cooking, and cleaning up the housework is not something women can do. Now that gender equality is emphasized, women can hold up half the sky, except for women. In pregnancy, a man cannot have children. In fact, there is little difference between the two parties. Housework is family work, and men do the same for women. In the past, they would share housework with women, and that was because men protected their women from doing it outside. It’s just harder and more tiring work, coupled with the influence of women with children, now it’s different. Anyone can work when they are idle, and they can do laundry, cooking, and children.”

Qin Lingling's remarks were unanimously agreed by the three. Even for a woman with a more traditional view of Sun Min, she felt that Qin Lingling's words made sense.

Yeah, why should these be women's work? In the past, the social environment was different, that was impossible, but now it is different.

Because I remember that there is still a pregnant woman at home, Uncle Li came back early today.

Similarly, when I arrived home and found a room at home, I was also taken aback, knowing that it was Qin Lingling's classmate, and quickly greeted her warmly.

When Gu Zheng came back, Uncle Li had already asked Qin Lingling's classmates and asked them. After Qin Lingling is in school, I hope they can help. He thanked them first.

The last dinner was made by Uncle Li and Gu Zheng and his son. Uncle Li took the hand and Gu Zheng took the charge.

The four of them originally wanted to help choose a dish, peel a garlic or something, but Uncle Li didn't let him, so he asked some of their classmates to chat and set up a table to eat.

"Lingling, it seems that your family gets along pretty well." Sun Min said enviously.

Uncle Li is Gu Zheng's own father, and several classmates have also heard about it. In their opinion, people who have never lived together suddenly live together, in fact, there will be a lot of contradictions. Even family members who have always lived together have their lives bumped and bumped, but they look at Qin Lingling and Uncle Li’s Getting along is like a father and a daughter. Uncle Li loves Qin Lingling very much. It can be seen that they usually live a very warm and happy life.

Qin Lingling nodded, "Well, my father-in-law is very concerned about me, maybe because he feels guilty to Gu Zheng, he has always wanted to make up for the two of us. But he has always had a good temper. He used to be a hard-hearted man. People, now they are people with a softer mouth and a softer heart."

"It's really good. You have a good life. As your classmates, we are also happy for you."

Li Zhi was even more envious: "I hope I can meet such a good in-law when I marry in the future, then I will be worth it in my life."

"There will be."

Speaking of her in-laws, Qin Lingling's eyes fell on the two unmarried people, Shen Manman and Li Zhi.

"By the way, when are you two going to get married? When can I drink your wedding wine?"

Li Zhi covered his face and said, "I'm still young. I have to study to make money, but I have no time to think about these things. I'll talk about it when I graduate!"

Li Zhi was clamoring for someone every day, but many schoolmates pursued her, but she refused. Firstly, because she didn't like those classmates, secondly, in her opinion, she was still young and could work harder.

Her family conditions are not good enough to be admitted to such a good university. She hopes that through her own efforts, she can improve her life step by step and realize greater value.

"Yes, you are still young anyway, look for it slowly, and when you meet a classmate you like, you can find a partner. It is okay to get married after graduation," Qin Lingling said.

After speaking, she looked at Shen Manman again.

Shen Manman was stared at by her, and quickly said: "Don't look at me, I'm early too."

Shen Manman is about the same age as Qin Lingling. At this age, marriage is suitable, but not marriage is also suitable.

But as far as Qin Lingling knew, Shen Manman had an object. Although the third brother's friend wanted to pursue Shen Manman, Shen Manman already had someone else in his heart, and he refused to pursue the other party's pursuit.

However, Shen Manman's love relationship is much more low-key. She is a person who is not keen on telling others about her own thoughts and life. Even if she talks about the object, it is just a sentence, I will talk about the object, next time Let's take you to meet up when you have time, and have a meal together!

But this time I was free for a long time when I was free, and Qin Lingling only glanced at the other person closely, and didn't say a word.

Shen Manman's love conversation is more mysterious. As a good friend, she doesn't say it, and it's hard for them to keep asking.

When it comes to their feelings, Qin Lingling asks, "Manman, how are you and your partner now?"

"Still the same." Shen Manman said with a casual face.

"Then what are you going to bring out for us to see?" Li Zhi asked curiously.

As before, Shen Manman still said, "Wait for him to be free, he has been busy lately, and I will meet you officially when he is free."

Except for Shen Manman himself, the other three people in their dormitory are not clear about Shen Manman’s objects. They only heard Shen Manman say that it was the grandson of her grandfather’s old friend. NS.

The other party is one year older than her and is now in college. Because the two universities are a little far apart and there are a lot of school work, the two can only meet in their spare time.

The three people are not clear about the other extras.

Seeing that Shen Manman said so, the three of them could only wait.

However, Qin Lingling keenly caught that when Shen Manman was talking about the other party, he was not as excited as before, and his eyes were full of excitement, and it was more unspeakable exhaustion.

Shen Manman is a person who is reluctant to expose her emotions, so it is difficult for ordinary people to see that her emotions have changed. Qin Lingling has known her for a long time, and she can see something from it.

As if feeling the strangeness of Qin Lingling, Shen Man hurriedly smiled and said, "What are you staring at me for? What do you say about you? What do you say about me? Where do I need you to worry about it? Or worry about you. Do it yourself!"

Qin Lingling retorted with a smile: "Why can I worry about it?"

"This child is less than three months old. Pay more attention to all things. This is what you have to worry about. You are different from before. You can't do many things and you have to make way for the child."

What Shen Manman said is not wrong. Although pregnancy is something that most women will experience in this life, it should be regarded as a normal phenomenon, but women after pregnancy are different from those who are not pregnant. Pay attention to eating and drinking, and exercise moderately. , There are many things to pay attention to.

Li Zhi and Sun Min also agreed. Especially Sun Min who came here has more experience to teach.

Qin Lingling said with relief: "Don't worry, I will pay attention to it."

No one cares more about the belly of the child than she.

After dinner, the three did not stay long. They planned to go back to school early in the morning.

"I'll give it to you!" Qin Lingling stood up and said.

"No, no, you can rest at home!" The three refused.

Qin Lingling smiled helplessly: "You guys were glass just when I was pregnant, and it shattered when I touched it? Just because we are full, Ah Zheng and I are going to turn around and digest it, just to give it to you."

Gu Zheng also responded: "Let's give it to you!"

When the three people left, the couple walked back slowly around the street.

The streets in early spring were also very lively. Many people walked out after dinner, met people they knew, nodded and chatted with each other.

Because there were a lot of people, Gu Zheng hurriedly held her daughter-in-law's hand when thinking that his wife was pregnant, for fear of accidentally hitting someone.

With the warmth of the palm, Qin Lingling turned her head and looked at him, just to meet Gu Zheng's affectionate eyes, and her heart melted instantly.

She laughed, "Why look at me like this?"

"Because you look good."

As he was talking, a person hurried past Qin Lingling, Gu Zheng's eyesight was quick and his hands were quick, and he hurriedly took the person into his arms, "Be careful..."

Qin Lingling was startled by the sound, but when Gu Zheng grabbed her with both hands, she didn't panic at all. She knew that Gu Zheng would hug herself firmly and prevent her from being injured.

When the people walked away, Gu Zheng pulled out the person in his arms, "Are you okay?"

Qin Lingling smiled and shook her head, "It's okay, I'm fine."

"It's fine."

He said lightly, but Gu Zheng was still worried.

On the way back, he often asked Qin Lingling to be careful when walking alone on the road in the future, so that no one would bump into it.

"You are pregnant with a child now, so you have to be careful about everything, it won't be good if you hurt yourself."

When Qin Lingling heard this, she asked directly: "Do you care about me so much if you have a child?"

Gu Zheng was taken aback and explained: "No, I have always cared about you. The child’s health is okay, which means you are safe. Besides, it’s because you are different now. I heard that pregnant women are more vulnerable. You need to be careful about taboos. I can't be by your side 24 hours a day, so when you are not there, you should protect yourself from getting hurt."

Although it was because of having children that he paid more attention to danger, the root of everything was still because Gu Zheng cared about his wife.

With Gu Zheng's remarks, Qin Lingling had only one thought in her mind, that is, there is nothing wrong with marrying this man.

Although she didn't marry by herself at the beginning, she was willing to be with him.

After Qin Lingling became pregnant, in addition to paying more attention to her diet, she also had to rest.

The two of them went home to rest after a turn. Qin Lingling didn't take a long nap at noon. In addition, it was possible that the pregnancy affected her body. She fell asleep after touching the bed. The next day was still awakened by the noise outside.

Over the weekend, the two of them will go to the hospital for an examination today.

Although the pulse was taken by the old Chinese doctor, they still have to go to the hospital for an examination before making sure.

Now, unlike the future generations, checking pregnancy is not as convenient as that of the future generations. The pregnancy test sticks can be used for any test. Most of them are accurate. Of course, there are exceptions. You need to go to the hospital for further examination.

One morning, Uncle Li was more anxious than them.

Not sure what to check, so Qin Lingling can't eat anything in the morning. After going to the hospital, she decides to have breakfast.

Gu Zheng has been working here for a while, but he has met some people and told him that he needs to be checked in advance. So when the two arrived, although there was no special way to jump in, they saved a lot of unnecessary things. Steps, check directly.

The veteran doctor was very experienced and quickly judged that Qin Lingling was pregnant. As for further examinations, she would have to wait another two days.

After coming out of the hospital, Gu Zheng was the first to buy breakfast for Qin Lingling.

The two of them came to the hospital for an examination, and did not dare to drink water or eat. They could only eat after the examination.

"Get hungry, eat more." In a restaurant, Gu Zheng hurriedly put the rice noodles brought by the proprietress in front of Qin Lingling, "Hurry up first."

"Um."

For Gu Zheng, being able to hear his wife's pregnancy from the doctor is different and affirmative.

Another bowl of rice noodles was slow. During the process, Gu Zheng kept staring at Qin Lingling.

Qin Lingling had been watching him for a long time and couldn't help but vomit: "Don't keep staring at me. People who don't know think I robbed you to eat?" She took a chopstick and asked Gu Zheng, "You Do you want to taste me first?"

Gu Zheng shook his head, "No, I won't fight your stomach for food."

Now Qin Lingling has an extra child in her belly, and she must eat more than usual.

But Qin Lingling said that, but Qin Lingling was coming into his mouth with a pitiful face and said: "You eat it quickly, my hands are sore." So, he couldn't stand it either.

Seeing that there was no one, Gu Zheng opened his mouth and took a bite of the food she offered.

But Gu Zheng didn't think that the lady boss was walking behind him with her face facing up. The moment Yu Guang saw it, Gu Zheng was startled and choked on herself, her face flushed from coughing.

But the lady boss seemed to be surprised, and smiled: "Why is this young couple afraid of being looked at? See how I scared you?"

Gu Zheng lowered his head and did not speak, his face flushed from coughing had not disappeared.

Qin Lingling was beside him, unable to laugh herself. If it weren't for worrying about laughing too hard and hurting the child, she might have rolled around on the spot.

The lady boss put down the dishes and left, and Gu Zheng also recovered her calm.

Looking at the smiling happily daughter-in-law, Gu Zheng couldn't help asking: "Is it that funny?"

Qin Lingling patted the table and nodded hurriedly, "Funny, funny, were you shy just now? Your face flushed."

Gu Zheng refused to admit it, "No, it's just choking."

"Oh?"

"Will I lie to you?"

"Don't you want to lie to me? It's hard to get embarrassed when you look at you in a serious manner. Can you be embarrassed and shy?"

Gu Zheng didn't speak, and bowed his head to eat rice noodles seriously, "Eat first, and I will go home later."

Two days later, the results of Qin Lingling's examination came out. According to the doctor's conclusion after asking Qin Lingling, when did she probably get pregnant?

Although the current instruments are not as advanced as later generations, and the medical skills are not as advanced in some aspects, Qin Lingling still draws a special picture of her husband and wife life, so combining the diagnosis given by the hospital, she can also calculate one. Second, it can also be calculated based on the pregnancy laws of later generations, when is one's own childbirth?

The only shortcoming is that Qin Lingling has never been married or pregnant in her previous life. Although there are children around her, she doesn't know how the child grows during pregnancy or even after giving birth. In this way, she has more to learn.

For this reason, Qin Lingling also took Gu Zheng to the bookstore, planning to buy some books on the precautions for pregnancy and childbirth.

The two of them looked for a few bookstores before they found a few better ones.

Qin Lingling plans to find books that are not comprehensive enough, and then go to the school library to find them. The library has a lot of books, and there will be more books about pregnancy and childcare.

"It's not just me who wants to watch, you also want to learn!" Qin Lingling said to Gu Zheng when she returned.

Gu Zheng listened carefully, "Okay."

In fact, even if Qin Lingling didn't say it, Gu Zheng would do it.

The child is not only the mother's business, but also his new father's business.

Therefore, in the following evening, Gu Zheng would accompany Qin Lingling to read pregnancy and parenting books every day. Some of them were bought, and some were borrowed by Qin Lingling from the library.

Knowing that she was pregnant, she was also looking for books, and the three good roommates were also helping her find more books.

Sun Min said, "It doesn't need to be so complicated. Everyone is pregnant and born in the same way. Just pay attention to some precautions. You don't need to be so careful, right?"

In Sun Min's view, these are not problems with the help of the older generation.

For her, when she was pregnant, she had the help of her own mother and mother-in-law, but she didn't have much to worry about.

But Qin Lingling waved her hand and said: "That's different. The living environment of the older generation is different from ours now, and although they have also given birth to and brought up children, they do not know some precautions. It is passed down from the older generations and may not be correct. These books can enable pregnant women to raise their children more accurately."

The living environment of the previous generation and this generation are different, and the impacts are different. Just like later generations, there are always conflicts between modern women’s daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. It is because each other holds the right view of each other, which leads to the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It's getting worse.

Qin Lingling can understand that those mothers-in-laws are good for their daughters-in-law and children, but the times are advancing, and they have been taking the essence and removing the dross. Many phenomena that have been gradually improved through the accumulation of predecessors are not understood by the older generation. Yes, and the younger generation should pay attention to it.