Chapter 230： Serve the confinement

"It sounds like you are pitiful." Ning Xi rolled her eyes at Lu Nan. In fact, she knew that he gave his salary card to his mother. This man didn't want a cent of his salary and didn't know how he lived, so he just talked about eating. There is no charge to eat in the cafeteria.

What about smoking?

There are also bus tickets home and buying toiletries and so on. Are these all free?

These are the things she wanted to ask, and she also thought about getting money for him, and even wanted to ask her mother to return his salary card to him.

But even though she was worried, she didn't do anything like that. She had lived two lives and had never eaten pork but had seen pigs run away. She didn't know that men are creatures with strong self-esteem.

Marrying a woman who is more profitable than himself will make a man uncomfortable. In turn, raising a man will only make him more disgusted. No matter how much love he had in the past, this love will turn into disgust, disgust and even love. hatred.

Ning Xi used to only think about changing their current lives, making their lives better, so that their children would not have to endure hardships with them in the future, but she forgot that her man was a man with a lot of honors, but his salary did not count. Tall soldier.

By the time she discovered this, it was already too late. It was impossible for her to make money without making money, and it was impossible for everyone to suffer hardships with her, so she could only carefully maintain the relationship between her and Lu Nan.

If he wants to raise her, then let him raise her. If he thinks the child is his responsibility, then let him raise the child. As for other things at home, she is still responsible for it.

In the afternoon, Ning Xi took a nap and was woken up by the crying of her child. The little ones were hungry again. Ning Xi sat up and picked up Jin Bao and was about to feed her.

“Little guy, are you hungry again?” Lu Nan pushed the door in from the outside wearing an apron.

“What do you want to do?” Ning Xi looked at Lu Nan warily. Could this man want to be like noon again?

"What do you think I'm doing?" Lu Nan came over and picked up Nian Bao. Seeing that she hadn't untied her clothes yet, Jin Bao was crying and cuddling in her arms. He was not polite at all and started to help her untie her clothes. .

“Lu Nan, do you still want to be embarrassed?” Ning Xi glared at him. She was so angry that she even called him by his first name.

He ignored her and continued what he was doing until both children started to have a full meal, then he raised his head and kissed her pouted mouth with a smile, "Daughter-in-law, do you know why the twins wore the same clothes when they were young? "

She was still a little angry and snorted, "I don't know."

"That's because if they don't wear the same clothes, they will compare whose clothes are better. If one of them thinks that the other's clothes are better, they will be angry. If they are angry, they may lose their temper. So, sir Whenever I buy something for the twins, I always buy the same thing.”

"Look, if you let one child eat first every time, and one child cries when she is hungry, if she is more thoughtful, will she feel that her mother is partial, will she be angry, and will she possibly put herself at risk? Give…"

"Don't talk nonsense." Ning Xi held the child with both hands and couldn't free her hands. She was so anxious that she blocked his mouth with her mouth.

The smile on Lu Nan's face became even brighter. After a while, he stepped back a little and licked his lips with a smile. "Daughter-in-law, this is the first time you take the initiative to kiss me."

"I didn't kiss you. I just wanted to block your mouth and not allow you to talk nonsense."

"Well! I know you are making excuses for yourself, don't worry I won't laugh at you."

“Get out.” “Okay! I’ll get out as soon as the child is full.”

This man had no temper at all, he just coaxed her to finish feeding the baby, put the baby down, covered her with a quilt, and walked out in a hurry.

Seeing that he was about to run away, Ning Xi immediately felt aggrieved, "Can't you just talk to me for a while? Didn't you promise to review with me before?"

"It was you who told me to get out. I got out of here and you were wronged." Lu Nan could only walk back, lowered his head and kissed her again, "Good boy, don't be angry, I'm making soup for you, by the way." , Mom asked me to ask if you are hungry and if you want to boil two poached eggs."

Knowing that he was busy making food for her, her mood immediately improved and her stomach immediately became hungry. "You cook."

“Okay, I’ll cook for you. Don’t lose your temper. I’m a doctor myself. I should know how terrible postpartum depression is. If I don’t do something well, tell me and I will definitely change it.”

He himself put the words to his mouth, and she immediately seized the opportunity and muttered, "You are just doing something wrong. You treat me as a cow. When your son or daughter cries, you immediately ask me to breastfeed them."

“I don’t think of you as a cow, I just feel sorry for the child and keep crying.” Lu Nan sat down next to her

He looked down at her and said with a serious face, "Daughter-in-law, my love for my two children is based on the fact that you gave birth to them for me. I can't bear to see them cry because you gave birth to them with all your life, but no matter No one is as important as you.”

Lu Nan helped her put her hair behind her ears and said in a consultative tone, "You have to mind feeding the two children together, otherwise let's buy some milk powder. If the child cries, feed one with milk powder and the other with breast milk. Change it every time. If you I don’t want to breastfeed my child, but both children need formula. Anyway, everything depends on you. I just hope you can be happy.”

"I'm hungry."

“Go and cook immediately.” Lu Nan quickly stood up and walked out.

Looking at his leaving figure, Ning Xi frowned.

Postpartum depression exists no matter what era, especially in rural areas, it is okay to give birth to a son, but if you give birth to a daughter, you will not get good care, and you will have to be scolded and humiliated by your mother-in-law and husband all day long. If you are not depressed, That's weird.

But in this backward era, in this backward town, there is no psychiatrist, let alone anyone who knows what depression is. Therefore, some women who have drastic changes in temperament after giving birth will not be diagnosed. Family values ​​it.

  In some cases that are not serious, the ability to self-regulate will not be obvious. At most, the mind is heavy and you will have random thoughts from time to time. In serious cases, you will one day be driven crazy by yourself and your family.

In her previous life, Ning Xi suffered from severe depression. She had thoughts of suicide countless times. Each time, her thoughts of suicide were interrupted either by the cries of her children or by their playfulness.

At that time, she didn’t know what depression was, let alone that she had depression. She didn’t know about it until she met a very powerful psychiatrist later.

Ning Xi didn't know if her psychological problems would accompany her back to this body after resurrecting her life. Even if it did, she didn't have to worry too much, because the two children were her medicine, and they were there to keep her alive. power.

When Lu Nan mentioned postpartum depression, what she cared about was not her own psychological problems. What she cared about was how did he know about postpartum depression?

Many images flashed through Ning Xi's mind, including Lu Nan's various changes from her rebirth to now.