After hearing Li Yuxin's words, ye Lingtian was silent again, then shook his head and said, "Yuxin, I can't accept this."
"Why?"
"I can do this life and no longer have any contact with Fang Yiyi, but I can't completely when the child doesn't exist. If, if I don't know the existence of this child, I can have no relationship, but now that I know it, I can't treat it as if I don't know it. No matter right or wrong, he has a relationship with me, and I am responsible for him. If I really ignore him all my life, I can't feel at ease all my life. I... I can't do it. " Ye Lingtian light tunnel.
Li Yuxin sneered and then said, "yes, since you can't do it, why do you ask me to make this choice? Then why do you say that no matter what I do, you will accept it? I made two choices, but you didn't want to accept them. Ye Lingtian, your character is still like this. Every time you encounter emotional problems, you never want to solve them. What you think of is escape. What you think of is procrastination. Because your mind is still like that, you would rather others make this choice to hurt you than you do this choice to hurt others. You would rather be the one who is hurt than the one who hurts others. Therefore, every time you encounter such a problem, you just procrastinate, perfunctory and dodge, It's the same as your refusal to know. "
"No, Yuxin, I don't want to escape, but I really don't know how to deal with it." Ye Lingtian shook his head.
"What about me? If you leave this problem to me, how can I deal with it? I want to divorce. Fang Yiyi didn't tell me all this today. Before you explained to me, my attitude is very firm, that is divorce. I've already thought about it. If we divorce, I don't want anything. I just want this house and my children. My son and daughter are my life. I must follow you, and you may not be able to take care of them. This house is because I want to give them a home. I don't want the rest. I can go out to work and support them by myself. Although children are the ones who suffer the most from the choice of divorce, a derailed man is not worthy to be a husband or a father at all. I believe that children would rather not have a father than want to have an derailed father. As you said, I don't know if you've ever had a relationship with other women. Now I know, I can't let myself choose to live with a man who betrays me, so divorce is the only choice. Today, I've been thinking about the details of divorce Li Yuxin said slowly.
"But today that woman found me and told me all this. In fact, I don't want her to tell me all this. I'd rather not know. In that way, at least my heart is firm. But now, ye Lingtian, you tell me, I mean you betrayed me or you didn't betray me? " Li Yuxin asked ye Lingtian.
Ye Lingtian is silent. Maybe as Li Yuxin said, ye Lingtian doesn't know whether it is betrayal or not? Is it cheating or not? He did the fact of cheating, but he didn't volunteer. He was drugged and his heart didn't cheat.
"Should I forgive you or not?" Li Yuxin asked again.
Ye Lingtian is still silent.
"Should I divorce or not?" Li Yuxin asked again.
"No divorce, Yuxin, what you said is all right. In fact, it's not just you. I've been thinking about these problems all these days. I'm also looking for my own problems. After I told you that day, you said you didn't want to see me. I stayed in a hotel. In the middle of the night, I was sitting alone in a barbecue shop by the side of the road drinking and eating barbecue, and I thought about it myself, Why does this happen. I seriously thought about this problem myself. At last, I also understood that it seemed that I was innocent and accidental, but in fact, it was inevitable. I also know where I'm wrong, and I know my own personality defects very well. Yuxin, please give me another chance to correct my mistake. I promise this is the last time. You know, I love you. You are the only woman I have ever loved in my life. You are the only one. I have never loved another woman in my life. You are the only one from the beginning to the end. As long as I can, I am willing to do anything for you, including life. I don't want to divorce, not only because of us, but also because of the children. I know I am not a responsible father, but the children need a complete family, which is too important for the healthy growth of the children. Give me a chance, I promise, and I'll make it up to you twice in the future. " Ye Lingtian said seriously.
Li Yuxin looks at ye Lingtian. If he changes to another man, these words sound disgusting, because these words are perfunctory. But Li Yuxin knows that ye Lingtian is not. He either doesn't say anything. Once he says it, it means that it's what he said after careful consideration and serious decision. He's the kind of person who spits and nails his character.
"Divorce, who wants to divorce? I'm in my forties. Who wants to get divorced? Now I have both children, a husband and a happy home. Once I get divorced, my life will become another dilapidated one. If I have a choice, who will choose to divorce? Who wants a divorce? Ye Lingtian, I ask you, what should I do if I don't divorce? If I don't divorce you, what will you do with that woman? What should you do with that woman's child? No matter how much I love and tolerate you, I can't tolerate the existence of that woman, can I? I can't tolerate you and that woman's child in my life, can I? Even if I love you again, I can't love to such a humble level. No woman can tolerate it. " Li Yuxin asked with a sneer.
Ye Lingtian was silent. After a long time, he said: "Yuxin, i... there is no relationship between me and Fang Yiyi. I have no idea about her, no matter before, now or in the future."
"I know and I believe that, otherwise, I would not tell you all this. Yes, you won't have any connection with Fang Yiyi, but what about the child? If you want to recognize the child, you must recognize the child's mother. In addition, I can't tolerate that my husband has an illegitimate child. I don't want to be a laughing stock in the world, and I can't pass the test in my heart. " Li Yuxin said coldly.