"Isn't that incredible to you?" Li Yuxin asks Fang Yiyi.
"This woman is too stupid and too spineless." Fang Yiyi replied that she was evaluating this matter with the mentality of a spectator listening to the story.
"No, in fact, this woman is not stupid and has no backbone. She has no way. She has no choice." Li Yuxin shook her head and then said: "because she is a mother of two children, the older is more than three years old, and the younger is only more than one year old. The reason why she chose to forgive him and intercede for him is because of her children. She chose to believe that he would change his mind and return the prodigal son, because she wanted to give the children a complete and flawless home and a healthy growth environment. You think she is stupid and she has no backbone because you look at her from a woman's perspective. If you look at her from a different perspective and from the perspective of mother's role, you will feel her greatness and understand her helplessness and sadness. "
Fang Yiyi was silent, nodded after a long time, and then said: "yes, before I had a baby, I must not understand, but now, I can understand her feelings."
"In fact, I sympathize with her experience, because I've met similar situations with her. After what happened between you and Lingtian, I was in the same position with her. In the end, I chose to forgive Lingtian, not only because I love him, but also because I am the mother of two children." Li Yuxin continued.
"I'm sorry." Li Yuxin talked about it again, which made Fang Yiyi feel embarrassed.
"I didn't mean to embarrass you by mentioning it. I just wanted to make it clear why she chose this way? Why should I choose like this? Because it's too hard for a woman to live alone with her children. When she said these words to me, tears had been flowing in her eyes, and the pain of life was full of her tears that had not yet come down. It's so hard and sad for a family composed of a woman without a husband and a child without a father that ordinary people can't understand. " Li Yuxin said that she was looking at Fang Yiyi.
"Fang Yiyi, after her business, when I got on the bus and was ready to leave today, I suddenly thought of you and your children. I suddenly thought that compared with her, your life is more bitter than hers."
"She can also vent her reasons and emotions to another person, but you don't even have an object to vent. Even, no matter what, they have a husband, a child and a father, but you, suffering from the same pain, can't even say, can only be buried in your own heart. Fang Yiyi, although you asked for all this, and although I hate you very much in my heart, I sympathize with you and understand that you are not easy. "
"After I knew about you and Ling Tian, I once thought about divorce, and I firmly wanted to divorce, so I thought about my life after divorce day and night. Although I finally decided to divorce, but I can understand through imagination, after the divorce, there is no man alone with no father's children's family life is very difficult. This kind of difficulty is not only in life, but also in psychology. In fact, it has something to do with economic conditions, but it doesn't matter much. And you suffer even more
"I have to admit that I am the one who should not sympathize with you, but I still sympathize with you in the end. I'm a soft hearted person who can't see others, sad person who can't see others. The reason why I called you here today is that I want to show my attitude to you here. " Li Yuxin said that and looked at Fang Yiyi seriously.
"You said Fang Yiyi's eyes, which Li Yuxin said, were moist, but she didn't cry. She still pretended to smile easily and said to Li Yuxin that she didn't want to be weak in front of Li Yuxin, let alone let Li Yuxin see her sadness and hardship.
"My husband is mine, but your family and children are yours. That's my attitude." Li Yuxin said slowly.
After Fang Yiyi heard Li Yuxin's words, he looked at Li Yuxin in astonishment.
"I can understand how difficult it is for a single woman to have a family without a man, and how cruel it is for a child to grow up in a family without a father. No matter whether you are innocent or not, but the child is innocent. Fang Yiyi, I am willing to give you back this man and the father of the child, but I have a bottom line. My bottom line is that my husband is mine. " Li Yuxin once again expressed his attitude.
Fang Yiyi sat there and said calmly after half a sound: "thank you, Li Yuxin. Your magnanimity really moved me. Compared with your magnanimity and kindness, I look very small and naive. In front of you, I really feel embarrassed when I think about what I have done in the past."
"However, you are kind-hearted. First of all, ye Lingtian is an individual and a man with personality. Not me, even you have never really controlled this man. His actions will never be transferred by other people's will, including you. Therefore, even if you are kind-hearted, let him do his duty to my family and my son, But would he really do that? He has never been a person who likes to listen to others. He is a man with personality and overbearing. He doesn't like me and hates me. Therefore, he will never get close to me, even if you agree, even if there is his son, even if I don't think too much of him. His heart always belongs to you, so it doesn't mean what you say. " Fang Yiyi shook his head and said with a smile.
"Besides, I don't need men. Children may need a father, which I admit, but I don't need men, and my family doesn't need men." Fang Yiyi continued.
When Fang Yiyi said this, he stopped for a moment and then said, "Li Yuxin, I know what you mean and I know what you are thinking. I'm here today to show my attitude. My husband is yours and will always be yours. No one can take it away, and no one will want to take it. A child has no father. He has a godfather. A godfather is a father. A father is a godfather. Children also have a godmother, godmother is his mother's good sister, true sister. The two sisters have a good relationship. They get along very closely and help each other. Their children are like brothers and sisters
After Fang Yiyi finished, she looked at Li Yuxin. She was waiting for Li Yuxin to make a statement. She knew that Li Yuxin could understand her meaning.