Li Yuxin widened his eyes: "which one is he? Who is it? " She didn't react for a moment. Xu Xiaoqing glared at her: "how many of them are there? My ex husband. I told Ling Tian about this before, but it's not a big deal. "
"You're not going to get back together with him, are you?" Li Yuxin immediately frowned and said solemnly, "Xiaoqing, it's your freedom who you are with. I also hope someone can take good care of you and take good care of you. No matter where you go, I can rest assured. But the person who has hurt you can't insist on it, not to mention what he did at that time? Hurt you, hurt your family, there is no principle and bottom line, not to mention conscience, where are your feelings? Now that he's out of prison and has nothing left, he thinks that you want to go back, so he comes to you. What does he take you for? Garbage collection station
Li Yuxin was more and more excited: "Xiaoqing, you are the party. You experienced the things at that time. You know how painful it is, so you can't get rid of the scar. You with any other person, I will not object, will not say anything, as long as you feel happy, I believe you deserve the best, but only he, he hurt you so deeply, not a simple sorry and forgive can erase, can be together again? I understand that there was a marriage and children between you, but the more so, the more intolerable and forgivable the mistakes he made at the beginning... "
Looking at Li Yuxin's eagerness, Xu Xiaoqing suddenly laughed, drank coffee with a smile, and then said leisurely, "you still have conscience, and you know how to care about me."
"Don't worry, I'm not at that time. The only setback in my feelings is that I fell in love with ye Lingtian. Instead of falling in love with me, he fell in love with you. Now I've been married and divorced for a long time, or that kind of marriage change can be regarded as seeing through people's hearts, so do you think I can easily get into the trap of marriage again? "
"It's not like that. It mainly depends on what kind of people they are. If marriage is a trap, everyone should be single." Li Yuxin retorted to her discontentedly, "besides, you just met such a rotten person after a marriage failure. If you want to talk about the trap, it's also the trap he dug for you, so you can't jump in twice. "
When Li Yuxin thought about the grievances Xu Xiaoqing suffered in those years, she felt distressed and more angry. Fortunately, ye Lingtian helped to deal with it from the beginning to the end. Although ye Lingtian and Xu Xiaoqing were afraid of her worry and kept a lot of things from her, she knew later and felt more and more distressed, including her efforts to make up Chen Jun and Xu Xiaoqing. In fact, she hoped that someone could take care of Xu Xiaoqing and warm her so that she could forget her past pain.
"You see you are in a hurry. When did I say I would get back together with him?" Xu Xiaoqing teased Li Yuxin, "I'm just telling you about it, so that you won't tell me anything. In fact, I'm not young anymore. I'm not the little girl who was full of love at the beginning. I've experienced so many things now, and my ideas are gradually mature. I've experienced marriage, divorce and children. I've experienced all the stages that normal people should or shouldn't go through. For the rest of the time, I just want to live for myself, just like you. "
Li Yuxin stares at her with wide eyes, but she can't say a word. To live in a different way and according to her own ideas is to hide from Xu Xiaoqing. In fact, the life she wants is just that ye Lingtian comes back and the whole family is safe. It doesn't matter where she goes or what she does. She didn't expect to be told by Xu Xiaoqing who doesn't know, It turns out that I can't refute it.
"Do you know? In fact, Ling Tian also advised me. That's what you meant at that time, right? You asked him to be a lobbyist and advised me to be with Chen Jun, because in your eyes, it's a kind of happiness to be with Chen Jun and to be taken care of by Chen Jun. But I've made it clear to him that I may not get married again, because that's not what I want
Looking at Li Yuxin's surprised eyes, she said leisurely: "Chen Junjun is very good, but I don't have the feeling of love for him. It's not fair for him to be together, and I won't be happy. In addition, it's not because that scum once hurt me so deeply that I can't forgive him. In fact, I can see what he's doing now. I can also see that he is really repenting, whether it's for the sake of his children or because he has nothing now. What do you want from me, At least he's trying to reform. But all this, at most, can only make me feel gratified or moved, but it is impossible for me to fall in love with him and remarry with him again. "
"For me, in this life, I have had love, although it is only my one-sided, I have also had a marriage, although it ended in failure, but I have already experienced what I should have experienced, and I don't think I still lack anything. You don't have to own and possess anything in your life. You should see it more thoroughly than I do. After all, you can even let the veteran group go. Of course, I also know that the most precious thing a person can have is feelings, but the problem is that I can't afford to pay for any man's feelings. Once I have paid for the strong feelings in my life is enough, so now I live alone, as you said, I have everything and I don't need anything. Men and marriage are really unnecessary for me, I have the ability to take care of myself. If you really introduce a man to me, I wonder if he is greedy for my beauty or property. "
Li Yuxin was so amused by Xu Xiaoqing's jokes that she couldn't laugh. Looking at Xu Xiaoqing's flowery dimple, she could only pray, hoping that Xu Xiaoqing would be as free and happy as she said.
Li Yuxin and Xu Xiaoqing talked for a long time, but in the end, they were all trivial and unimportant topics. After all, they are best friends. They often talk about trivial things together, just like they usually get together to go shopping and chat. In fact, it is also in this way to deliberately ignore the sadness of parting.
They finished dinner together again, and then they said goodbye and went back. Xu Xiaoqing had already left, and then turned around and looked at Li Yuxin seriously: "I can not care what kind of life you want to choose and where you want to go, but I can not care about our relationship and your happiness. Remember, no matter when and how long we are apart, we will always be friends, and you must be happy forever. "