Lin Hai said, and Wang Yu's eyes have been a little red. She has been arguing with her parents these days. She's both soft and hard. In fact, she's a sensible girl, and she doesn't want to make her parents sad.
"However, you should understand that no matter how much experience and lessons others have, they can't replace you to live your own life. Moreover, the experience and lessons of others may not be suitable for you. For example, someone love to eat sweets and feel happy to eat sweets. That's right, but if another person has diabetes, can he do that? "
"The reason why your parents worry about you is that they don't want you to bear hardships, because they think entrepreneurship is a very difficult thing, full of risks and failures. But for you, it's not hard to pay for your dream, and even it's worth paying more. The biggest pain is that you don't live the life you want, It's when you can choose what you want most but give up. "
"What's more, you are still a child in their minds, and you have never done anything successful to boast about, so they don't believe you can succeed. If you don't fulfill your dreams and prove yourself to them, you can only live in their worries and let them live in their worries for your whole life. For you, It's going to be persistent, permanent pain. "
Wang Yu is stunned, stupidly hair Leng, is obviously thinking about what Lin Hai said.
Lin Hai poured a glass of water for her and handed it to her. "If you say you are in your forties, old and young, then I will definitely advise you to consider the reality and family burden. But you are young now, and you haven't graduated from university yet. Don't you try your dream while you are in a desperate situation now, do you have to wait until you get married and start a business?"
"What you have to face now is only the opposition of your parents, but in the future, it is very likely that you will have to take care of your children, work and face the burden and pressure of life. By that time, if you want to work hard, you may have more than your heart and less than your strength."
"And if you really give up, think about this life is not really what you want to live, will you be reconciled?"
Lin Hai doesn't know the real situation of Wang Yu. He can only analyze Wang Yu from what Wang Yu said, but these are enough for Wang Yu.
"So, if I were you, I would have a try. Anyway, you said that with your strength, I would not starve to death. Even if it is true that there is no strength, it will really starve to death, and there is still time to turn back and start afresh in time. "
"So, the only thing you have to worry about is your parents' opposition, but the starting point of your parents' opposition is for your own good, not just for the sake of opposition. The root cause of their opposition is their love for you. If you are someone else's child, they don't have to care about you at all. If they are not your parents, they are just someone else's parents, you can ignore what they say. "
"That's what I want to tell you. Your parents will always love you. No matter whether they oppose or support what you want to do, they will always be your parents."
"However, your dream is that after this village, there will be no such shop. After this age, you may not like it so much and have no energy to realize it at all costs."
"Pain and entanglement are temporary, but life is as long as several decades in a lifetime. Isn't it true that people are young once in a lifetime? How many dreams can I have in my life? If you don't prove it to your parents when you are young, they will oppose all your decisions for the rest of their lives. "
"Of course, you don't mean that you have to fight against your parents tit for tat. That will only make them sad. You can talk to them calmly, analyze all your ideas one by one and listen to them. Finally, you can tell them that no matter how resolute they are against it, you have to do it. If you fail, you will be proved wrong. As parents, I love you so much. Can't I even tolerate the result of your failure? "
Lin Hai finished, drank water, said with a smile: "I have said enough, I believe how to do, you have a very clear mind. Of course, in fact, you have always been very clear, but because the closest people oppose, so you are very confused, eager to hear a little voice of support, then as my support to bring you a little momentum
Wang Yu was silent, didn't speak, still thinking, but his expression was obviously suddenly bright, without the tangle and confusion at the beginning.
"Thank you." Wang Yu showed a bright smile, "I really think very clearly, no matter who opposes, I will do it, but it is my parents after all. When they are so strongly opposed, my heart is also very sad, so I want someone to talk to and give me support."
"My friends and relatives all advise me to follow the arrangement of my parents and take a simpler Road, so all I can think of is you. Even if I simply talk to you, I will be much happier. I didn't expect that what you said to me made me completely understand and make up my mind."
Wang Yu took the water glass in front of him as wine and touched Lin Hai's glass with a smile: "cheers, thank you. I've invited you today. It's a thank you."
"No, I'm a big man. I'm afraid I can't digest too much." Lin Hai said with a smile: "you invited me last time. I'll come this time."
He can still afford the consumption here.
Wang Yu is also very insistent: "it doesn't matter, you stay and wait for the next time, anyway, since you are friends, you will certainly have a chance to have dinner together, then I will not be polite."
"I talked with you a lot today. I feel very happy and relaxed. My revenge has been put down. Now I have more determination and courage to face my parents."
Lin Hai said with a smile: "then you must not tell your parents, they said that I told you this, they will hate me when they know."
"No way." Wang Yu said seriously, "I will not tell them, and I also believe that one day, as you said, they will support and understand me when they see my persistence and achievements. At that time, they will also thank a friend like you for saying these to me."
Two people said, Linhai see time is late: "where you live, I send you back."
Wang Yu is a girl, so late a person to go back, he is obviously not at ease, out of courtesy and safety considerations, he also had to send Wang Yu home safely.
Wang Yu hesitated for a moment and said quickly, "it's the Jinxing community before."
Although Jinxing community is an old campus, its location is very good. It's not far from here. Lin Hai stopped a taxi and followed Wang Yu to get on the bus. Then, after arriving at Jinxing community, he sent Wang Yu to the community: "then I won't send you up. You can wind a message when you get home and have a rest early."
Wang Yu nodded with a smile and waved goodbye to Lin Hai. And Lin Hai is also in a hurry to go back, Xu Yawen is still at home after all, it is estimated that he is still angry, he always feels very sorry.
Lin Hai just walked out of the community, Wang Yu quickly took out his mobile phone and made a phone call: "Hello, Uncle Chen, please help me go to Longxiang road. My car is parked there. You can help me drive home directly. You don't need to send it to me. Tell my master and wife that I won't drive the car in the future. Then I'll go back to dinner tomorrow and have a good talk with them. "
In order to meet Lin Hai, Wang Yu used to park her car nearby and then take the car to find Lin Hai. She didn't expect Lin Hai to send her, so she still left the car there. Now it's too late to drive back. In addition, she has made up her mind to be independent and insist on doing her own studio. In the future, she will no longer rely on her family in terms of economy or life, So, I decided to give up the car and treat myself as a new person in a society with nothing, starting from scratch.