Chapter 2739

Xu Yawen sighed: "you are right. In the final analysis, my father was not able to withstand the temptation, so he betrayed the family."

"Well, as an outsider, it's not appropriate for me to say anything, but I understand your mood. He hurt your mother. It's natural for you to hate him. But at the same time, he is your father, and you can see that he has been trying to make up for it, so your mood is also very contradictory." Lin Hai said slowly.

"But anyway, as a friend, I still hope you don't let yourself live in resentment and pain all the time. Life is still a long way to go, and there will be a lot of beautiful things in the future. The storage space of people's heart is so large, and it has been occupied by pain, how can you let go of beauty? So you have to learn to empty, let yourself slowly put the good things in

"Because I see that you are young and have a lot of things, but you are forced to immerse yourself in pain like obsessive-compulsive disorder. If you go on like this, your life will be too heavy. Those past things are painful, but it's not your fault. You have no reason to ruin your future life because of those past pains and mistakes. "

Lin Hai said, adding, "I think that's also your mother's hope for you."

Xu Yawen was silent. After a long silence, she said quietly, "I understand all these principles, but it's very difficult to achieve them."

"Maybe it's because I faced all this too early, but no one like you appeared and said this to me. When I lost my mother at that time, I also lost my father. What a person can do in a foreign country is to firmly remember all this, because I have nothing left, and only these memories, even those of pain and hatred, are left, It's better than nothing... "

Lin Hai felt as if she had been stabbed. In fact, if she had any other choice, how could Xu Yawen like this? Can't she imagine that song Yuting is always simple and innocent, instead of being as cold as she is now, and she seldom laughs.

At this moment, he suddenly wanted to hold Xu Yawen, comfort her, Xu Yawen really is very hard, it is not easy.

Xu Yawen's voice with a trace of tremor: "in fact, what I fear most is not the past, you say let me face the future life well, but I don't dare to think about what will be like in the future."

"I will have my own family in the future, but as I told you, usually the marriage partners I can choose are more focused on the right family, rather than the same feelings. They may not know much about each other at all, just because of the family interests."

"What happiness is there in such a marriage without emotional foundation? What's more, I can't forget my father's betrayal. At the beginning, he and my mother had such deep feelings and shared weal and woe together. As a result, he still hurt my mother like that. "

"And how can I believe that my husband won't do that in the future? At that time, how can I face the harm my mother once faced? "

Xu Yawen's voice sounds very heavy in the dark, and Lin Hai's heart is also very heavy. He said after a while: "maybe you don't have to make such a choice. Your marriage should not be related to interests, but should be related to your love and happiness."

"In fact, according to the current assets of Dacheng Group, what you have is enough. The reason why you and your father feel that they should get married in a proper way is to maintain their immediate wealth, or even to obtain more? "

"But how much wealth is enough? Like the veterans group, is it enough, but the real founder of the veterans group, ye Lingtian and his wife, didn't say to put it down in the end? "

"For ordinary people and ordinary families, what you have is beyond their reach. You have just said that wealth can not guarantee happiness. Why do you still pursue wealth so tirelessly, and do not hesitate to set up your own marriage and love for more wealth, and happiness?"

"If you say that it's for Dacheng Group and your mother's hard work to maintain it better, on the one hand, not all enterprises rely on marriage to maintain it. Many good enterprises say that their development depends on the ability of leaders."

Lin Hai said, adding to the tone: "what's more, have you ever thought that your mother herself has experienced the pain of a failed marriage? Does she want to see you repeat her mistakes and fall into an unhappy marriage for Dacheng Group?"

Xu Yawen was stunned. She didn't answer him for a long time. After a while, she said, "you're not me. You can't feel that kind of involuntariness."

"Lin Hai, so I envy you very much. I envy you that you don't have to gamble on everything for these things. I was born in such a family, and there's no other way."

Lin Hai frowned and said faintly, "I think you are too pessimistic. I believe your father may also be very concerned about the major success group, but what he wants is that he thinks that material is the foundation of marriage, and his real purpose is to hope that you can be happy."

"Even though he has made unforgivable mistakes as a husband, as a father, he still has fatherly love for you. His starting point is still for you. However, this starting point is too self righteous and not what you really want. What you have to do is to let him understand what you really want and need."

"If your father just considered Dacheng Group, but he didn't care about your happiness and life, then you can't say that you don't resist and are at your disposal. Are you willing to live such a life?"

Xu Yawen was silent for a long time, then said faintly: "I'm tired, go to bed early."

Lin Hai knows that it's just that she doesn't want to continue this topic, and there's no way to do it. It's unrealistic for Xu Yawen to change her deep-rooted ideas all at once, so he can only say calmly: "OK, go to sleep first."

"I'm here. You don't have to be afraid. Just shout when you have a nightmare."

Xu Ya Wen gently hum a, then hesitated for a while just said: "Lin Hai, thank you."

"Thank you for being by my side at such a time, and for saying that to me."

"Even though I may not have the courage to put everything down and live the life you said, I still appreciate having friends like you to say this to me."

Lin Hai smiles and says, "it's late. Go to bed. Good night."

"Good night."

The rest of the night, two people sleep very sweet, until dawn, Xu Yawen opened her eyes, saw the nearby Lin Hai has got up, face suddenly red, also like suddenly realized last night is how absurd.

She actually stayed with a man like this for one night, but this night she felt very at ease. This kind of mood made her very contradictory.

And Lin Hai pushed the door in, carrying the heat preservation lunch box. When he opened it, it was still fragrant porridge. As soon as he smelled it, he knew it was made by himself.

"Come and eat. If you have a bad stomach, drink more porridge." Lin Hai said with a smile, "I'll study it later and develop more varieties to ensure that you won't get tired of drinking."

Xu Yawen was stunned and looked at the porridge in front of her: "where did you cook it?"

"I went back to cook it, of course." Lin Hai said with a smile: "there is no way to cook in the ward, so I go back to cook it in the morning and bring it back."

Xu Yawen was completely stunned. She looked at the ribs porridge in the bowl. Even if she had never cooked, she knew that it would take at least two hours for such a bowl of porridge to be cooked. In other words, Lin Hai got up early in the morning and went back to cook porridge for her, but he slept as late as she did last night.

"In fact, you don't have to work so hard..." Xu Yawen felt sorry and moved at that moment.

Which girl doesn't want to be taken care of in this way?

However, she knew that she did not have the right to enjoy such care, and she did not want to see Lin Hai working hard.