Chapter 2780

Xu Yawen frowned at him and said calmly, "what you said may be true, but it's just your truth."

"After all, you and I are not in the same situation."

"I don't know what happened to your parents at that time, but they certainly didn't face the situation like me. A stepmother covetously treated me as an enemy every day, and always wanted to take Dacheng Group away from me."

"And I don't like her at all, just hate her."

"It's nothing. You know how complicated the situation of Dacheng Group is. I'm even very glad that I came back early and can grasp the situation in time. If I come back when my father is old, I'm afraid I don't have a place for me at all."

"You can think about feelings and happiness, but actually for me, all I can think about is reality, because I can't let Dacheng Group or Dacheng Group go. From this point of view, I don't have many choices. "

"As you said, if you can find someone who may not be rich but has the ability, and you can guarantee such a person, will he be able to face all this? What do you think of him? No matter how much ability he has and how many results he has achieved, everyone will only think that he is a soft eater and only relying on Dacheng Group can he have all this. "

"Let's take the most realistic example. Fang Zhiqiang of Datang Group, even now that Lu Ying has already retired and handed over to Fang Zhiqiang to take charge, and Fang Zhiqiang is constantly developing new businesses, but many people still think that Fang Zhiqiang is lucky to marry Zhang youyou. Otherwise, it's impossible to have all this."

Lin Hai immediately frowned. Although Fang Zhiqiang was in contact with him when he was a child, he also heard ye Lingtian talking with Li Yuxin when he was a child. He was very fond of Fang Zhiqiang.

Moreover, the current scale of Datang Group and its new business are obvious to all. Fang Zhiqiang's ability has played a very key role.

"It's all people's guess. In fact, Fang Zhiqiang is always a very capable person. Even without Datang Group, he can also fight for a place with his own ability." Lin Hai frowned and said, this is what ye Lingtian once said.

"Yes, that's right. The truth and reality are like this, but the key is that people's hearts are not like this. To be honest, who cares how much effort you have made? Everyone only likes some anecdotes and even guesses." Xu Yawen said patiently.

"What's more, a person like Mr. Fang can be met but not sought. It's not so easy to touch. It's more likely to find an ordinary person and end up doing nothing all my life. Taking a position in the group that is not of any practical use will not help me in the future. "

"Besides, in terms of my circle and my daily work, I basically don't have the opportunity to meet such people, and I don't have the time and opportunity to develop feelings with such people. On the contrary, it's not as good as those around me. At least they have intersection in work."

Xu Yawen calmly continued: "there are also the most realistic examples. My father and my mother started from scratch with nothing, and they worked together. Their original feelings were so deep. In the end, they didn't have to face the deepest and most painful betrayal."

"Rather than that, I might as well find someone who can help me."

Xu Yawen has regained her sense and calmness. Lin Hai sighs and shakes her head, knowing that it is impossible to persuade her, "if you think that the result of emotion is betrayal, and you dare not touch it, you will only have doubts in your life, and you will not be happy at all."

"Yes, your father betrayed your mother and hurt you, but it doesn't mean that all feelings are betrayal in the end. Their life has nothing to do with you. You can't live with your mother's resentment all the time."

"Or that sentence, if your mother has a spirit in heaven, she must hope you can live happily, not like now."

Lin Hai lightly said: "of course, your life, the right to choose is still your own, so I don't say much, just hope you can think clearly, can live happily."

"Besides, I have to find a house and move out as soon as possible." Lin Hai said calmly, "after all, even if you don't choose him, you also want to find someone else. It's certainly inconvenient for me to live here, and it's easy for your future boyfriend to misunderstand."

Xu Yawen blushed instantly, thought about it and said, "what's the inconvenience? I'm sure I won't say I live with him before marriage and I won't bring him back. Then he can't know you're with me. "

"Moreover, even if he knows, I will explain to him that you are my bodyguard to protect me, so you are always by my side. I believe he can understand all this. After all, a person who sincerely considers for me can't say that he can't consider my safety."

Lin Hai listened to her words and only had a wry smile: "it seems that you have great confidence in this person, and you almost have recognized him."

Xu Yawen's face turned red again, and then she said, "it's not necessarily him, but I think the partner I'm looking for must be at least we can respect each other and reflect on each other's consideration. If it doesn't meet these requirements, there's no way to go on in the long run."

Lin Hai nodded: "OK, you have your consideration, and I also have a request. No matter what my own plan is, you always know that I will leave at the right time, maybe not too long. At that time, I hope you can accept it soberly and rationally. "

Xu Yawen was stunned, and then nodded. She knew that she could only accept such things. When Linhai was desperate, she could help Linhai and let Linhai help her too. But if Linhai had a better choice and her own way, she could not be too selfish.

"On your side, if you're faster and you're going to get married, I'm sure it's impossible to stay with you. You said your husband would consider you, but he can also help you find professional bodyguards, and he has more experience in company management than me."

"At that time, I don't want to continue to be a light bulb." Lin Hai joked, though neither of them wanted to laugh.

Xu Yawen is also silent. She knows that what Lin Hai says is very realistic. Moreover, their relationship is not the so-called bodyguard and employer at all. Frankly speaking, they are friends.

She thought about it and said, "marriage is only an inevitable result, but it won't have any impact on you. There are other villas in my family. This is just because I don't want to live with my father and them, so I move out. If I get married, the house won't be a problem, whether it's the other family or my family."

"So you don't have to think so much. If you haven't waited for the right opportunity and Dacheng Group still needs you, you can continue to live here."

Lin Hai widened his eyes and said with a bitter smile for a long time: "it's really poverty that limits my imagination. Do you rich people buy houses just like we poor people go to the vegetable market to buy vegetables? Is it the same as the northern Chinese New Year's cabbage store in the past that I don't know how many houses I have in my family? "

"You think too much. It's just that when the house price was relatively cheap in the early days, my mother had the foresight to buy it. It's not much. I'm not rich. At least Dacheng Group can't compare with veterans group. " Xu Yawen said calmly.