Chapter 522 Marry Love Or Life?

After finishing her work, Lin Ya sat down in front of me again. She didn't immediately tell me her troubles, but picked up the bag that Mother of Jize gave her just now and said, "Do you know how much this bag costs?"

"I don't study this." I shook my head.

"Then you must have heard of lv." Lin Ya asked.

Of course I've heard of that. I looked at the bag and said in surprise, "Isn't this a limited edition lv?"

In the past, lv appeared quite frequently, and it was limited edition or something.

Of course, I was just joking with lin ya.

Lin ya gave me a blank look and said, "It's still limited edition. Ordinary ones are already very expensive, okay?"

"Oh, how much does this cost?"

Lin Ya shook his head and said, "I wouldn't pay attention to such an expensive bag, but I've seen one that's similar to this. It's about ten thousand. This one shouldn't be cheaper than that one."

"More than ten thousand?" I opened my mouth. It might not be a big deal for Ji ze's house, but for me and Lin Ya, it was really not cheap to have more than 10,000 bags.

I can't help but sigh. Rich people are good. We can buy a lot of things with more than 10,000 yuan. They only use it to buy a bag.

"Her mother gave it to you anyway, so take it."

Lin Ya put down her bag and said with a little disappointment, "If I really want to marry Ji Ze, I will accept it with peace of mind."

"Did Mother of Jize persuade you to marry her son again?" I asked.

"How do you know?" Lin Ya blinked and asked me.

"I guess. I can tell that she really likes you and wants you to be their daughter-in-law!"

Lin ya nodded, put her fist against her cheek, and her eyes drifted away, "That's right, she just wanted me to be their daughter-in-law. But when I said that Ji Ze and I were not lovers at all, Mother of Jize said that she knew! She knew? I don't understand. She said that we were old, old, and old enough to get married. Since both of us were friends and Ji Ze liked me, we should get married. She said, in fact, many people are not married to love, but to the life of marriage. She said that even if there were no feelings now, two people would definitely have feelings after getting married. Even if this kind of relationship was not strictly pure love, it would also become family love, and love would eventually become family love. Since they were both family love, what was the difference? It's like you see old people on the street holding hands with you. In fact, in their time, it wasn't necessarily so much love, even the word'love' was inappropriate. At that time, most people were arranged marriages, and some of them didn't even meet before they got married, but they still moved us when they grew old together, didn't they?"

She said that even if you find a love that you like, you might not get a perfect marriage. Love in reality is different from love in movies and tv dramas. Movies can take two hours to complete the life of a couple who love each other deeply. But reality is different. There will inevitably be arguments and friction in reality. It will face too many details that can't be described in movies and tv dramas. It will destroy love."

Marriage and love, in reality, are really different. The two of them were no longer having a romantic life, but living a life of daily necessities. In front of the family, there would be more unimaginable things, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law discord, no money, dull and boring, etc. Her mother said that marriage was the tomb of love for some people, it was really like this. Even those who walked together because of love, many of them broke up in the end. What love needs is not the sincerity of the oath, but the long companionship in the future. Many people do the former, but not the latter. Xing Yun, are you right about what Mother of Jize said? Why do I find her words irrefutable?"

"Yes!" I nodded and said, "If Mother of Jize doesn't add everyone in front of love and says that there are some people, or many people, then I think she's right. Some people do. When they love, they really love each other. Especially for many people's first love, it's a pure feeling, but it still doesn't come to the end, right? We are all talking about life and love, and we can see the same words every day. But we still yearn for fairytale love, and still think that such love exists. Isn't it?"

I looked at Lin Ya, who was a little confused, frowned and asked, "This is not like the usual Lin Ya. You don't want to marry life because of Mother of Jize's few words. Marry Ji Ze, right?"

"What do you think would happen if I married Ji Ze?" Lin Ya asked in confusion.

I shook my head, not knowing how to answer.

In the days when I broke up with Ding Ge, I also compromised and wavered. I think I will get married and have children under the arrangement of my parents. For my wife, I may never love her as much as edgar, but there will still be feelings between us.

Lin Ya is my good friend. From her point of view, of course, I hope she can marry someone whom both sides love very much. From Ji Ze's point of view, I also hope Lin Ya can fall in love with him and walk with him.

I couldn't help but wonder, if Lin Ya married Ji Ze, what would her life be like?

I think she's going to have a good time.

Ji Ze loved her so much that he would do his best to make Lin Ya happy. Lin Ya should not have any trouble. After all, Ji Ze's mother liked her so much. There should be no conflict between them. After they had a child, they would have a better life.

But is there no better choice?

If Lin Ya really fell in love with Ji Ze, that would be the perfect choice.

But what if she didn't love ji ze, and one day her soul mate appeared in her life. They were so interested in each other, so full of romantic passion, and their every day was fresh and happy. That happiness was especially sweet, like a room full of candy.

I looked at Lin Ya, who was sitting opposite me at this moment. Her eyes were hazy, and her whole body seemed to become sad. If she really wanted to marry Ji Ze from the bottom of her heart, would this be the reaction she should have?

She shouldn't be happy, shouldn't she be smiling?

I asked Lin Ya, "How did you answer Mother of Jize?"

Lin Ya sighed in frustration and said, "I didn't say anything. She didn't want me to give her an answer immediately. She asked me to think about it."

Seeing Lin Ya like this, I was also very unhappy with her.

Although Lin Ya was always so single and worried about her, love was not random, marriage was not accommodating, maybe someone would choose to accommodate, but I don't want Lin Ya to do this.

After thinking about it, I said to lin ya, "Maybe marrying someone who loves me is really a good choice. But I believe that pure and beautiful love must be there. Of course I believe it, because Ding Ge and I are. The joy of being with her is special. That joy is not the kind of happiness we usually have when we laugh. It is, how do you put it, like the joy of reaching the soul."

Lin Ya smiled and said, "Yeah, you guys are so compatible. That's why I was so sad when you broke up and wanted to help you guys get back together. Because you love each other so much, you should be together."

Thinking about Lin Ya's help to us in the beginning, I am also very grateful in my heart. It can be said that without Lin Ya, there really would not be a day for Ding Ge and me.

Of course, there won't be my first meeting with Ding Ge.

Lin Ya, she was our matchmaker, holding the two of us together in a sea of people.

I was embarrassed to say thank you to lin ya, so I said, "When we get married, we will definitely make you the first vip! I'll give you a toast then."

Lin Ya curled her lips and smiled.

Not knowing what to think of, she smiled again and said, "Do you know? I thought after we broke up, we would never be friends again."

With Lin Ya's words, I couldn't help but think of the past between us.

At that time, Guzheng and I broke up because of my' together' with Guzheng. At that time, my heart was really painful. It was so painful to lose such a good friend. Lin Ya was obviously very uncomfortable. That snowy night was really too deep for me. I think I will never forget it in my life.

In the past, I thought the relationship between us would last forever. I never thought that breaking up would happen to us. And the loss of that time also made me cherish this friendship.

Lin Ya's face was filled with memories again, "I'm a very stubborn person, so when I decide something, it's usually hard to change. So when I broke up with you, I really decided to break up with you for the rest of my life. I didn't expect that we could still talk like before."

"Well, I'm a shameless person. Most people can't get rid of me."

Lin Ya smiled and said, "Is it like a fly?"

I nodded. I accepted Lin Ya's metaphor.

"You said you were really stupid at that time. Why didn't you tell us the truth?"

"...

"It's only a person like you who values promises so much. What a fool."

We were sitting at the cake shop. After a while, Lin Ya suddenly answered the phone. After that, Lin Ya frowned and looked a little confused.

After hanging up, Lin Ya said to me, "Mother of Jize called me."

"What did she say to you?"

"She said she was going to treat me to dinner, and she was alone, just the two of us." Lin Ya said nervously.