Chapter 996

This is definitely a new speech.

Just as the American justice addressed his son's graduation ceremony and wished him constant setbacks in his future life.

What Chen Liang said was very different from what he usually received education, which constantly impacted the hearts of these students.

"When facing people below their level, the rich may still be polite, but that kind of politeness is like his upbringing. It has nothing to do with people. The rich will also attach importance to feelings, but their feelings are only a means, and the purpose is still to make profits.

The rich also have true friendship, but all the people they make friends bring their own chips. This chip can be origin or talent, but it must not be good for nothing. In essence, the heavy feelings of ordinary people are to invest in social relations without benefit return through their own consumption, so as to meet the value of pure emotion. I don't know if you can understand, for example.

For example, if you "lend" your few deposits to gambling addicted relatives, even if you know in your heart that this is a waste of water, it is difficult to refuse the elder sitting opposite who claimed to have held you when you were a child;

For example, if you skip class and go shopping with your girlfriend, my heartbeat can make up for the missing knowledge. Even if you know that you will break up with the person in front of you after graduation; for example, if you risk leaving a stain on your own file, help your friend cheat, or do other things that are not very compliant or even illegal, and then climax among the brotherhood on the wine table, believe me, there is no one who can become the host of capital They will not do such things, because there is no real return, whether in terms of interests or human feelings. On the contrary, they will stay away from such people, because these people will only consume themselves.

Of course, I'm not praising the rich's lucrative schemata, and I don't despise the feelings of ordinary people, but seeking peace of mind. I just want to say that if I want to become the host of capital, I must make a quantitative analysis of all the conventional morality and friendship, and then decide whether to do it or not. If it's profitable, they can even give up their hospice care for their parents and give up the traditional sense of love The family is warm and gives up the company of their children, because for them, time is really wealth and needs careful calculation, while ordinary people's emphasis on feelings comes from their heart and is to transfer their few interests to meet each other's needs. "

After talking for several minutes, Chen Liang stopped and looked at the female classmate.

"Do you have any questions?"

The girl shook her head absently. She seemed to be immersed in Chen Liang's remarks and sat down slowly.

"Senior Chen Liang, I have a problem."

A sunshine boy in sportswear raised his hand. When the microphone passed, he stood up and estimated that it was about 1.85 meters.

"Senior Chen Liang, you are so successful now. Is there anything you can teach us?"

Chen Liang breathed a sigh of relief.

Male students are more considerate.

If some tricky questions pop up again, it may not end.

"Then I'll say something that should be useful. It's called social networking."

Facing the puzzled eyes from all sides, Chen Liang said with a smile: "everyone should have been in contact with games or novels. The so-called boundary is a limited scope, which has additional benefits to the boundary owner and will weaken the advantages of others. The social interaction between people also has a boundary effect.

Smart people can gain favorable buffs by building their own boundaries. For example, if a beautiful girl wants to communicate with a rich man, her advantage is beauty, and the other party's advantage is money, you must avoid entering a place that highlights the advantage of money, because it is the other party's boundaries. For example, when you choose a high-end restaurant on a date, you order dishes you don't see at all Yes, there are some exquisite eating methods that you can't. for example, when you go to play golf on a date, you can't even hold the club, let alone hit the ball. For example, when you go to a high-end shopping mall, any clothes are higher than the monthly salary, but the man can pay the bill by hooking his fingers. In such a scenario, the woman's aura will be weakened, she will feel inferior, she will lament the gap between the two sides, and the man will pay again and again You are just a nice looking skin bag, which contains a general spiritual core.

Therefore, men like to drive luxury cars to pick up women for dating, because unless the woman has a car of the same level or better, the moment you get on the passenger car is the moment you enter the boundary of the man. "

Many girls and children listen attentively and have bright eyes.

Although Donghai Institute of technology is a first-class university, it can not be ruled out that many girls still dream of rich young women.

After all, they have heard very clearly just now. It is too far away to achieve financial freedom by themselves.

"Mr. Chen Liang, how can we break this barrier?"

A beautiful girl sitting in the front row shouted eagerly and generously.

She came to the school celebration but painted exquisite makeup, which is enough to show that the girl is more mature than her peers.

Chen Liang glanced at her and said with a smile: "Good question. In fact, the way to get rid of it is very simple, that is, when two people get along, they don't need to spend too much money, which can reflect some of the women's talents. If there is no talent, find a place where the proportion of men and women is unbalanced, such as playing ball, swimming, fitness and games together. In these scenes, more money can't be used. More men and less women will amplify the advantage of the woman's beauty, and the man has no money What sense of superiority, there will be a sense of urgency of competition, and the strength will change. "

Hearing this, many boys patted their thighs and scolded: no wonder some rich second-generation girls don't spend much money. Here's the reason for their courage!

So far, Chen Liang has not extended the topic between men and women, otherwise it will not popularize knowledge, but damage the flowers and plants of his alma mater.

As soon as he changed his words, he pulled back to the right track, which also relieved the school leaders who were a little unable to sit down.

"In fact, there are many application scenarios for social networking, such as working in the company, where the sense of position class is the most obvious. In such a scenario, an ordinary employee cannot communicate with them on an equal footing, but if everyone gets together after work, such as singing in KTV, the rank attribute will be weakened and singing The best singer, even if he is only a low-level employee, will also get a strong buff, so as to become the focus of social networking. In this case, you are confident enough. Don't deliberately curry favor with the leader. Don't remind him from the side that your subordinate status can be equal and socially show yourself outside the work. There is a billiard hall downstairs in the company where I worked at that time, and my colleagues often meet him after work I went to rub a few shots. One of my colleagues played the ball very smoothly. Although his working ability was not very outstanding, every time he went to the billiards hall, everyone was a little shorter. Over time, he became more and more open in the company. I even thought that if the billiards hall downstairs was closed one day, even if he paid for it, he had to open another one. "

Chen Liang's humor made the whole audience laugh.

"So, if you have the opportunity to socialize with Jordan and Yao Ming, try not to talk about playing basketball. Otherwise, one mouth will become fans and idols, and the mentality of both sides will unconsciously switch to looking down and looking up. When I stand here today, you can also understand it as my boundary. Here, you see that I have my own aura, so you instinctively think what I say is reasonable, but every time My personal understanding of life is different. What I said is just my personal concept. I hope you can treat it dialectically. Finally, I hope you can achieve something and have a bright future. "

The audience stood up and extended warm applause.