Wang Hongwen and Tang Bi were arranged to sit down. Huang Ziping poured tea for them in person. Then he sat down and said, "my uncle and aunt are in good health. I'm a doctor. I can see it at a glance."
Wang Hongwen reluctantly smile, talk seems a bit confused: "Dr. Huang seems to be in good health."
"I'm ok." Seeing the fat man still standing, Huang Ziping said to him, "what are you doing? Sit down, Wang Xiaofei. "
Fat man Oh, mechanical went to Wang Xiaofei and sat down. He was also puzzled. He didn't know what Huang Ziping wanted to play, didn't he? Why are you so friendly? They should greet each other's ancestors, right? I don't know what my brother thinks. But the fat man 100% believes in Huang Ziping, who let Huang Ziping always create miracles again and again, in him, nothing is impossible.
Wang Xiaofei did not say, the whole feeling and fat man is roughly the same, she is a bit more fluke and worry.
After talking about the lack of nutrition, Huang Ziping began to serve the dishes and said, "uncle and aunt, I think fat man and Wang Xiaofei are very suitable. Why do you say that? First, there is fate, the world is so big, a person met a person, but also love each other, not easy. Second, they really love each other. In fact, we have a misunderstanding about the speed of love. We always think that if love comes too fast, we will not consider it. We will regret it when the enthusiasm cools down. I think it took them more than 20 years to meet each other. It's love at first sight and we can't pour cold water on it, can we? Who can think of the future? I can't imagine why this is thoughtless? It's not fair. "
Before Wang Hongwen raised his objection, Huang Ziping continued: "third, put aside the psychological things, or the software things, look at the external and the hardware, do they fit the appearance? Fat man is not ugly, character is very good, work hard, and have a good career, doctor. Yes, I mean good, not holy. Don't you deny that doctors are a good profession? "
Wang Hongwen wanted to deny it, but he thought that Huang Ziping was also a doctor, and he became a world-famous doctor. After thinking about it, he could only say in a different way: "Dr. Huang, there are differences between people, and hardware facilities are not matched by appearance, but also include many factors, of which a large part needs to be considered."
Huang Ziping said with a smile: "I understand and can understand, such as the future, money, social status and so on. In fact, I don't object to being well matched, because that way, there will be more common language and less chance of problems. But at the same time, I think it's better not to have the right kind of small happiness, because I don't need to manage too many rules and regulations. I'm always living in the law and tired of it. So no matter which one, there will be happiness and unhappiness in it. Of course, the wish is beautiful, but it can't be achieved. So when it comes to this kind of thing, I should make a choice. I think so. I think happiness is the most important thing. "
Tang Bi asked Huang Ziping, "Dr. Huang, what do you think happiness is?"
Huang Ziping thought for a few seconds and then said, "what does Auntie think happiness is? Make choices for your children and instill in them what you think happiness is? What you think is what you think? It's an old saying, but I think it makes a lot of sense. Frankly speaking, I know what my happiness is, but I don't know what other people's happiness is. After all, everyone's needs are different. Dare you say that you must know what kind of happiness your daughter wants? If you don't understand, how dare you say that it's self contradictory to think about her happiness? "
Tang Bi is speechless. I didn't expect Huang Ziping to be so eloquent. It's too terrible to find a counter attack point.
Huang Ziping waited for a while, but Tang Bi seemed to have nothing to say before he continued: "I don't know what happiness Wang Xiaofei thinks, but we can ask. Wang Xiaofei, what do you think happiness is? What kind of happiness do you want and need? "
Wang Xiaofei said without thinking: "the happiness I want is to have the ability of self-determination, the ability of choice, and the support of my parents. I've grown up. I'm no longer a little girl. I have to go, find and live by myself. I want to be with fat people just as fat people want to be with me. I don't mind if others say that we are developing too fast, don't think clearly, irresponsible and so on. We don't care what other people think. What we can do is to live a good life for ourselves. "
Wang Hongwen and Tang Bi's face is a little bit ugly, because suddenly they also find that Wang Xiaofei's idea and demand is not too much.
Huang Ziping then said: "no child does not want his choice, especially his choice of marriage, to be blessed by his parents. I'm very curious, how can this era be more heart blocking than ancient times? Love can not be together, love should not be together? Even if we hurt each other in the end, at least we loved each other vigorously? What is a good marriage? Marry material? Status? Or marry someone you really like? Of course, the combination of the three is better. No? How to choose? There are always some parents who want to satisfy their selfishness under the pretext of imagining their children's happiness. "
Wang Hongwen was angry, but he still couldn't help it, although he also knew that anger first was almost equal to losing: "is Dr. Huang criticizing the mulberry tree?"
Huang Ziping shook his head and said, "no, I mean those parents who don't have self-respect. You have self-respect, not sarcasm. At least you didn't let the fat man go. It turned out that my mother-in-law let me go, and I felt uncomfortable at that time, but I think she has her own reason. And what I have to do is prove to her that I have the ability to make her happy. I don't argue with her. It doesn't make sense. ""In that case, what are we talking about?"
"You think it's noisy? I invite you to dinner. First of all, I apologize for the fat man. The fat man didn't do it right. He shouldn't say so disrespectful words. On this point, this son of a bitch didn't do it right. " Huang Ziping shot at the fat man, "fat man, you should apologize quickly and be sincere."
Fat man, what are you doing? Is it changing too fast? But when you think about Huang Ziping's explanation before, you can only do it. After all, Huang Ziping is really helping him, although he doesn't understand what the key point of Huang Ziping's way of helping is. He quickly stood up and said in a sincere tone: "uncle, aunt, I'm sorry. My words were heavier that day. I sincerely say I'm sorry to you. I hope you can forgive me." "I'm sorry," he said
Wang Hongwen and Tang Bi are even more unnatural. The evolution of things is completely different from what they think from the beginning. They think that sparks are all over the sky, but they are all warm.
At last, Tang Bi said, "I'm talking a little more seriously. Please sit down."
Fat man sat down, Huang Ziping immediately said: "Auntie said right, mutual words are heavy, this can't calculate who is right or wrong, in this case, that day's thing written off, uncle and aunt, do you think?"
Huang Ziping took a step back. Wang Hongwen and Tang Bi didn't agree. They seemed stingy, so there was no way to disagree. Even though they know that Huang Ziping still has a back move waiting for them, as long as they agree, they will make it out. But what can we do if we are pushed up and down? They can see that Huang Ziping not only says that his IQ is terrible, but they are not rivals. It's no wonder that the Zhou family can't help him. It turns out that he didn't get a false reputation. He's really powerful. He's more powerful than the outside world.
Seeing that they agreed, Huang Ziping laughed in his heart and said quietly, "since the misunderstanding has been cleared up, we can talk about something in-depth. Uncle and aunt, I agree with your understanding of happiness just now. Many factors you mentioned obviously include future, material, social status and so on. That is to say, if the fat man has these, you will agree that he can give Wang Xiaofei happiness, and you will agree with their relationship, right? "
Wang Hongwen said, "Dr. Huang, you can't say that."
"What else does that include? Wisdom? Character? I don't think there is a shortage of fat people, do you? Or what are the other factors that make a fat man not like your family? "
"We're not talking about fat people."
"Better, say it!"
For a moment, Wang Hongwen couldn't tell. They were selfish and didn't analyze the fat man well. They just looked at him and thought that he was a toad. They just thought that Wang Xiaofei had a better choice, but they couldn't tell?
"It seems that my uncles and aunts are embarrassed to say that. I'll say the same thing. Let's talk about the future first. As a doctor, I think there is a future. Just look at me. Fat man is no worse than me. If he is an expert for a long time, I can guarantee that with all my things. Now he doesn't have social status, but when he has made achievements in the field of medicine, he will naturally have it. This is connected with the first point, and it takes time to change. Fat people have substance. I'll prove it to you later. It's not urgent. And character, you didn't object just now? Your daughter is so outstanding, can take a fancy to fat person, natural fat person is character. Wisdom is hard to explain. Some people are very smart in their work, but they are idiotic in their life and have poor hands-on ability. Is this wisdom? My tutor once said a word to me, he said: as long as you can do one thing well in your life, you are not RMB, you can't make everyone like it, do yourself well and let others say it. I think it makes a lot of sense. "
Wang Hongwen and Tang Bi do not speak. They just drink tea and think about Huang Ziping's words.
Huang Ziping also took a sip of tea and planned to continue talking. Suddenly there was a knock on the door and Ouyang bin came in. He obviously knew Wang Hongwen and Tang Bi, and said sorry to Huang Ziping, boss. After I was late, my eyes fell on them, said hello, and talked to them with a smile.
Wang Hongwen asked Ouyang bin, "is Dr. Huang your boss?"
Ouyang Bin said: "I don't want to talk to Mr. you anymore. Now it's Dr. Huang who pays me. I'm his personal legal adviser." While talking to Wang Hongwen, Ouyang Bin took out a large stack of documents and handed them to Huang Ziping, saying, "boss, what you asked me to prepare is ready. Please see if there is any problem."
Huang Ziping didn't look at it. He handed it to the fat man and said, "sign your name on it. Lawyer Ouyang, give him a pen."