Jingjing came out with me to have a look in the room, but she didn't give up. These are his parents. They are biological parents. How can you say that if you break your teeth, it's just angry. But what parents have done is really too sad. Their own parents are not good to them. But it's good for adopted children. Leave your children alone, and you have to go straight back. Have you ever thought about feeling it quietly?
If I were my parents, I would be very angry, but I didn't feel the kindness of being raised from childhood. I just feel like doing this. It's very unfair to Jingjing.
Zhang Chuan holds the child sitting in the back of the car, Jingjing sitting in the co pilot's position, all the way silent. I've seen it once in a while. She looks down and wipes her tears. It's heartbreaking to look at it.
Zhang Chuan tried to persuade her, but I was stopped. People are the most vulnerable at this time, what they say will cause her a heavy psychological burden. It's better not to say.
The atmosphere in the car was heavy and we didn't talk. Think about your own thoughts.
I don't know what Xie Jingjing is thinking, but it's me. I will think of the happiness of my family living together before. The more I think about it, the more I think about it, the more I feel how sad the situation is now.
It's clear that they are their own parents. Why do they have to think that their son is important? They don't take good care of their own children, but they have to take care of those who are not. What's the reason? Is it because they are a boy?
I don't understand. I really don't understand.
It is said that the society is progressing now, but in fact, such decadent ideas are still deeply rooted.
I remember a long time ago, some people dug up their dead daughter and married other people's dead son. They got tens of thousands of yuan and finally gave it to their son. But if the son didn't support them, they resented that their daughter didn't protect them.
When the news came out at that time, how many people left messages under the news, I knew that this incident had been translated so much in China.
I can't imagine what a girl in such a family would look like.
Moreover, the serious imbalance between men and women in China is also due to too many such situations.
How many unborn girls are stillborn because every family wants a son.
In the end, there are too many men to find a suitable partner, and then complain about women's material and power.
In such a vicious circle, no one has thought about why it has become like this.
But as a woman, what can I do? In the past, I thought I was a good man. I could do what I could to help the abducted children find their parents again. But the final data was so amazing that one of the ten girls was sold out because she was a girl, and she was sent to an orphanage.
Some of them were found back, and they were not allowed to be spoiled because they were daughters and children. They dropped out of school early, took care of their younger brothers and sisters, and took care of their families. At a very young age, they were found by their parents to get married in a family with worse conditions. They gave birth to children, had sons, had abortions, and started over and over again.
Poor continue to be poor, pressure afraid to find a way out, more do not know resistance, already in such a despicable environment has become a vampire helper, squeezing his daughter, and finally become a poor woman to sell her daughter.
These are facts. They are also facts that are not accepted but exist.
But every time I think about it, I feel powerless.
There's so little I can do.
I thought I was the most pitiful person in our group, but now it seems that there are many more miserable people than me.
At least, my mother loves me, and now she's with me, taking care of me, taking care of my daughter, and making up for the years we've lost together.
When the car arrived at home, Jingjing wanted to sit quietly in the car. Zhang Chuan comforted her and went ahead with her crying child. I sat in the car and listened to her crying quietly. My heart was breaking.
Jingjing is not a person who likes to cry. Even if she is in a bad mood, she is only secretly sad for a few days. As soon as things pass, she turns around and forgets.
When I knew her, I knew that she was an optimistic and cheerful girl, which had a lot to do with the environment in which she grew up. But who would have thought that her family might not be as happy as we saw.
I said, "Jingjing, sit here. It's better to cry against me."
She shook her head, continued to bow her head and wipe her tears silently. After a while, she took a breath, calmed down and said to me, "I always feel that I am the happiest person. Although I have encountered setbacks in my feelings, I still find the right person. Zhang Chuan has always been very kind to me. We love each other and we manage the company together. He always gives in to me, works carefully and treats me meticulously. We have another chance He's a lovely child. I have a love I love my parents, but who would have thought that all this is false? Drow, as you can imagine, it's all fake. "
I understand this kind of mood, heavy, disappointed, helpless, even if the giant standing around, in every detail holding their own, to their own strength, will still feel helpless, do not see the kind of loss of hope.
That's my parents, but after several decades, I found that what they really love is not themselves, and the former beauty is false. How many people can accept such a fight?I don't know what to say. I just think it's best to be quiet.
She didn't speak any more. She cried for a long time. After a long time, she said to me, "I think well, I won't give them any more money when they go back. If they go to sue me, I will pay them hundreds of dollars a month at most. I will settle all the money at one time after I die, and I will never communicate with them again. I don't want to see them. They think I'm not good, so don't contact me as soon as possible. If the son is good, go to him. It has nothing to do with me. What I said is not angry words. I really made such a decision. Things have come to the point where I know that nothing I can do can save anything. I thank them for giving me the illusion of 30 years, but I will feel pain all the time in the remaining decades. I am very grateful to them for their son preference, which can never be forgiven, especially my mother. "
Yes, I can't understand that as a woman, I prefer boys to girls.
I took a deep breath and persuaded her, "let's look at the situation for a while. I know you are sad, but it's not the time when things have to be so extreme. You Jingjing, think about it. "
Jingjing shook her head, wiped the last tear from her face, looked back at me and asked me, "if it was you, what would you do? The woman who gave birth to you, what did you do in the end? She gave her so much money, but she had nothing to do with her son. Don't you feel cold? Later, she didn't contact her again, sent her out of the city and warned her never to come back, did you? Drow, I didn't understand you very well at that time, but now I do. I think you did the right thing. "