Today, Si Luoyu came to the hospital as usual, but he was absent-minded and his face was drooping.
"What's the matter? As soon as I came here, I would toot my mouth. Who makes us unhappy? Tell mommy, Mommy will beat them. " Luoyu silk after seeing, can't help but gentle inquiry, also think of ways to make her laugh.
"No one bothers me. I'm angry with myself. I'm so stupid today. I lost to others in playing games. I don't like losing." Si Luoyu heard mommy's inquiry, and could not help but toot his mouth.
Today this kind of feeling is really very annoying, let her even here are not happy.
Luoyu silk touched her little head and said with a smile: "baby, you are still young now, so I don't know. In fact, the win or lose in life often happens. We don't pay too much attention to it. Tell mommy what happened and what game did you lose?"
She frowned a little. She didn't expect that the child was so young and valued winning and losing. She didn't know whether it was good or bad. But now the most important thing is to calm the child's mood, so after listening to her words, she asked.
Si Luoyu pursed his mouth, sighed helplessly and muttered to himself: "but if you lose, won't you be laughed at by your friends? How can we not mind winning or losing? And daddy also said to be a strong man, so a strong man can't lose, can't he? "
She is very young, so she doesn't have her own independent world view. She just doesn't like to be ridiculed by her friends. In addition, her father's words and deeds make her know that she must be a strong person.
But I don't know what is really strong. I just think that if we are strong, we should always be winners and won't lose.
"The definition of the strong can not be so defined. The real strong does not mean not to fail, but to know how to face failure." Luoyu silk gently put her daughter in her arms and said in a gentle tone.
Half way through, she thought the child couldn't understand now, so she stopped.
"Forget it, now I tell you that you don't understand. When I grow up, I will understand. Now I will tell mommy what kind of game is lost, which makes you so unhappy."
Anyway, the truth can be said at any time in the future. When you grow up with her, you will understand your own experience. Now the most important thing is to make her happy.
"Today, in kindergarten, our class held a game of hide and seek, all the children participated in it, but I lost." At this point, Si Luoyu's mood is a little low.
Now she still can't understand what it means to win or lose in a large population? I just know that I didn't win today and was laughed at by the children.
"How could Luoyu be so clever to lose? It must be that we are not in shape today. If you don't believe me, we are playing a game and you will win
After thinking about the profound words she said, the child would not understand them, but she could not listen to the simple words now. Instead, it would be better to let her win once to satisfy her competitive heart.
"Really? Is Luoyu really smart? Everything today is just an accident, and Mommy is willing to play hide and seek with me here? "
Children's emotions are still relatively easy to transfer. In fact, what she cares more about now is no longer the winning or losing of the game, but the encouragement from Mommy and the joy of playing games with him.
"Yes, when did Mommy cheat you? Start counting now. I'll hide it. You'll find out the result in a moment, won't you?"
Luoyu silk comforted her with a smile, and then offered to play with her now, which could not only divert his attention, but also improve her interest if she lost to her later. Si Luoyu was very happy to say: "well, I'll start counting now with my eyes closed. I'll start looking for you when I count to 10. Mommy, you can hide quickly and quickly."
Sure enough, the child's mood came and went quickly. Before she finished speaking, she closed her eyes and began to count. Luoyu silk looked at his lovely appearance and couldn't help smiling.
When choosing a hiding place, he deliberately hid in a place that was easy to find, and even intentionally showed a corner of his clothes.
"Eight, nine, ten, Mommy, I've finished counting. Now I'm coming to you. Have you hidden it? I'm going to open my eyes Si Luo rain conscientiously count, then slowly open eyes, happy voice said.
After looking around the room, she saw that Luoyu silk had been deliberately left in a corner outside. She walked slowly with a grin and said excitedly, "Yeah! I found you, Mommy. You are so stupid. You hide so obviously. I won. I really won. I have to play again. "
So quickly found Mommy, Si Luoyu is still very happy, can't help but pull the corner of her dress and jump, and then mentioned to play again.
"Well, let's have another round. It's too small in the house now. Shall we go to the yard to play? It's a big place, so it's difficult for you to find it. Let's see if you are very smart. "
Luoyu silk thought that she would go out to get some air today anyway. She might as well take this opportunity to take her children out to play. In this way, she can be happy and relax.
"Well, it's a big place outside, and it's more exciting to play. Mommy, you're the smartest. Let's go out and play now, OK?"
When he heard that he could go out to play, sloyu's mood suddenly rose. After all, children still like more outdoors.
Two people came to the yard together. Luoyu silk took her to a pillar in the yard and asked her to count here. Then she began to look for a hiding place.
This time she hid a little more seriously, but it was still the kind of place that she could find very soon. After hiding herself, she called out that it was OK. After hearing this, she began to look for it.
Just as he was looking for his mother everywhere, when he saw the cleaning aunt of the hospital poking the plastic bottle on the rockery with a stick, he could not help but stop curiously and began to wait and see.
"Now people are really rubbish. Rubbish is littered everywhere. Rubbish on rockery is the most difficult to clean up. Poor old bones, we have to deal with these things now." While cleaning up, aunt complained with her companion.
There are people littering everywhere in places like hospitals. She can't help but despise them.
"What can we do? Who let us earn this money? Even if we are unhappy and hard to clean up, we have to get it down. Take your time with a stick. "
Obviously, the companion is also very make complaints about this situation, but still keeps the reason, and does not like the aunt that way to Tucao, but helpless persuasion.
"Can things come down there? Why not climb up? Doesn't it seem like a lot? Forget it, I'll go and help them. "
When she heard their conversation, she couldn't help looking at the plastic bottles on the rockery curiously. At the same time, she thought of the teacher's saying that children should be willing to help others, so she was ready to help her.