The sharpest knife can kill a person with a knife, but for an expert, it's better to stab someone with a blunt knife to relieve his anger.
It is to cook the frog slowly, only once, but it brings a long time of attack to the other party, which can not be made up for.
Take Qian Mo as an example.
Give each other a big hope, let them feel that happiness is one step away, and then destroy the other party's hope, this destruction process must not be fast.
The aunt raised the strength of the whole family to gather money to buy a stable job for her son-in-law, but there was no reply.
Today delays tomorrow, tomorrow delays the day after tomorrow, and delays them for two months.
Qian Mo can even accurately calculate the mental changes of the aunt's family.
"In the first week, my aunt's family will be in a state of high excitement. When the poor get rich, the upstarts' mentality will make her unable to help pulling hatred everywhere. She will certainly go from house to house, not to mention my wonderful flowers."
In the invisible, the aunt buried the seeds of hatred.
It is not only the characteristic of her old Chen family, but also applicable to most of her relatives. Only when we get together during the Spring Festival, we can know that jealousy and comparison are common among human beings.
Just the Chen family... Well, more obvious.
"In the second week, my son-in-law will be a little nervous and ask why the leader has not become a regular. The leader, as an old doggerel, will surely perfunctorily say that it will take time to complete the process. If I am a leader, I will give him a big sweet, such as commenting on an excellent employee and stabilizing his heart. People have a common gender, and they will certainly make a decision when they are relaxed Some catharsis to release pressure. "
So the next week, the aunt's family may have a large amount of consumption.
For example, take out the last bit of savings to change cars.
Another example is to buy some luxury goods that are usually reluctant to give up.
It sounds incredible. It has already taken out 100000 yuan, and there is not much left. From the perspective of God, it should save money, but most of the choices are the opposite.
Spending a large sum of money is a hint that subconsciously wants to prove that this event will be successful. The whole family firmly believes that it is certain for the son-in-law to become a full-fledged son-in-law, so as to appease the unease through consumption savings.
In the third week and the fourth week, the above actions will be repeated to amplify the anxiety factors accumulated in the previous two weeks.
This cycle for two months, even if the leader returned the money to his son-in-law, the loss of the aunt's family was irretrievable.
"The great loss from the sky to the ground, as well as the hatred for the leader, will make the son-in-law's mentality unbalanced. As a result, the husband and wife will continue to quarrel with each other. They will speak ill of the leadership behind the unit, and the aunt will chatter with her daughter's family for spending extra money."
Qian Mo's grasp of the people's heart is on a new level, and he has long expected all the conditions behind him.
"Since the leader dares to take this step, he must also be an old hand. I guess he will use this money to speculate in stocks. The stock market is very hot during this period of time. It's a good move to borrow chicken to lay eggs, but there is no airtight wall. When the son-in-law knows that his money has been transferred to make small money, he pays for his wife and breaks the army. This hidden danger is buried. Later, he will continue to challenge the leadership until he is expelled."
While Qian Mo is talking, Yu Changmo has already defeated her army, and Qian Mo's proud little face suddenly collapses. What's the situation?
She's been pushed so far. Can this guy win?
Yu Changmo is clever and conscious. He drops a chessboard and gives his own side to Qianmo. Then he moves the chess that belongs to Qianmo and takes a step. Qianmo is suddenly enlightened. There are such operations.
"After being expelled, the son-in-law will focus his fire on the aunt's family. At that time, it will not be known whether the family will disintegrate. Even if it does not disintegrate, it will become one of the central contradictions in their family in the next few decades. It will be repeatedly raised in every dispute in the future until one party collapses."
Qian Mo finally "won" with Xiao Hei's game.
Xiao Hei pours tea for her. Well, she is invincible.
That is, the level of chess is not so good.
Before leaving, Qianmo tells mu mianmianmianmian that no matter what excuse the aunt's family will use in the future to borrow money, she will be forced to leave with a straight face. Even if the aunt's family has a terminal illness, she must let her sell her house, sell her car, and then speak. If anyone dares to give assistance to the aunt's family without her consent, she will turn around and show it to anyone.
Mu mianmianmian has heard Qian Mo say that it is Chen Baichuan's sister who wants to unload Chen Baichuan's arm. She is so angry that she almost doesn't explode. She doesn't need Qian Mo to say that she will draw a line with that family.
If Chen Baichuan's father dares to be soft hearted, mu mianmianmian will immediately lie down on the ground to "move her vital energy". Aunt Chen digs her own grave, and her vicious heart is on other people's children. How can she give up easily.
All of this makes Qianmo perfect. Compared with the bad rumors of auntie, she uses a blunt knife to cut people. She can attack the aunt's family for a long time. She arranges the layout according to the psychological defects of everyone in the aunt's family, which even Xiaohei admires.
After shaking in bed for a night, they finally arrived at the destination of the trip.
Shizhou.A small island at sea.
The island, which is dominated by fishery development, has both sightseeing and tourism. It has a beautiful environment and fresh air. Many foreigners choose to buy property here. It is a holy land for the aged.
Xiao Hei spent his childhood on this island. A mountain on the island is a forbidden area. It is said that there are troops in it, but no one knows what to do.
Xiaohei's father used to work in the Research Institute on the mountain. This time, Xiaohei will take Qianmo back to the Research Institute on the mountain to have a look at the place where she grew up.
Xiaohei's grandmother didn't live on the mountain. She lived in an ordinary village. Xiaohei took Qianmo to the village and introduced his grandmother.
The young and rich woman abroad is a box of jewelry. The grandmother is the only daughter of grandma. Chen Meng is Grandma's only daughter. She is 90 years old. Although her eyes were blind a few years ago, she is still very strong in her body and body.
She insisted that the village she lived in was graceful and elegant, and the soil pH was very suitable for her to grow herbs. She refused to move. Chen Meng and her grandmother invited her to the city several times, but the old lady refused.
Now, the old lady has rarely received a doctor. Every day she has five numbers, and there is an endless stream of people in line. Grandma randomly selects the patients she is interested in. When she is free, she takes all kinds of herbs and leaves her children unwilling to leave.
"If you can take her old man back to the city to provide for the aged, my mother will be happy to blossom." Xiaohei leads Qianmo to a bungalow.
The appearance of the small house is nothing special. It is a small tiled house in the countryside. The courtyard is on the ground outside, with a big shed, and herbs are planted inside.
The courtyard is nothing special, but the rows of cars outside the yard are spectacular.