Qi Qi had a good sleep in the fragrant bed and woke up to see Qian Mo standing in front of the bed with a smile.
"Where's my dad?" Qi Qi a Gulu sat up, staring at two big eyes at Qian mo.
The child is lovely when he doesn't make trouble.
The sun at 89 o'clock is full, Qian Mo takes the opportunity to carefully measure Qi Qi.
This child is very similar to Xing Tianyou. If you don't take a close look, there are still differences. His eyes are particularly beautiful. Xing Tianyou has a big cake face and small eyes. Qiqi has a round face and big eyes. His big eyes and long eyelashes have raised a lot of beauty.
"You eat your breakfast first. My sister has something to tell you."
Qian Mo pondered over the night and finally figured out how to deal with Qi Qi's problem.
Qi Qi in order to see his father early, obediently eat breakfast, Qian Mo with him face to face, conveniently press the video device.
"Qiqi, my sister wants to tell you something. Maybe it's cruel to you. Your father has to go to prison because he did something wrong. Qiqi may not see his father for several years."
This opening speech is straight forward, without white lies, plain and straightforward.
"In prison... My dad is a bad guy?! A series of words from the swindler, such as the mouth of the swindler, are full of sweat.
She's not as good at swearing as a six-year-old!
Qian Mo let the child scold, Qi Qi not only scolded, he also came to beat Qian mo.
A few years old children get serious, and hitting people is also a little painful. Qianmo has been holding on until the child wants to move the kettle and smash it. Qianmo stops it and sits down with the crazy child.
"Everyone has to pay for what he did wrong. Your father did something wrong, which is his responsibility. But what my sister wants to tell you is that although he can't be with you in recent years, he still loves you."
Qi Qi struggles, but Qian Mo's hand is too strong. He sits on the ground and cries.
"You lied to me, you lied to me! My father is not a bad man, no! "
"He may not be a bad man to others, but he is a good father. If Qiqi misses him very much, his sister can take you to see him."
Qiqi looks at Qianmo dimly, and Qianmo wipes his tears with his hand. "He can't be with you now, but you can talk and write. Qiqi should also encourage his father to reform and come back to see you as soon as possible. He is just repenting for what he has done, but his love for you will not disappear, and Qiqi should not deny his father's love for you..."
Qianmo begins With professional intervention in the child's psychology, Qiqi is now suffering a lot.
For a child, if the person who loves him or her day and night disappears suddenly, his soul will inevitably suffer a heavy blow. He may not see it in a short time, but if he does not care for a long time, the influence will continue.
Some children seem to have no influence in the face of this kind of trauma, but when they come to adulthood, once they encounter other mental injuries, they will resonate with this old injury, and then there will be serious consequences.
Tracing back to the childhood of those criminals in vicious cases, there are almost all kinds of psychological trauma, some of which have been in the past for a long time, but still affect their future growth.
Professional psychological intervention in the face of major mental injury has a very good effect, but the domestic has not yet paid attention to this matter, Qianmo to the child, is obviously very professional.
Qi Qi vented his dissatisfaction and entered the second stage. He began to feel at a loss and huddled up in confusion. He didn't know what to do. Qianmo used relaxation therapy to help him adjust. After a while, the child calmed down a little.
"I want to see my father."
"My sister will apply with it."
Qian Mo knows that this treatment is just the beginning.
In order to achieve a complete therapeutic effect, psychological intervention should be followed up for a long time at least. This is a boring and long process. There may be relapses during treatment. A cruel fact is that it is difficult to make Qi "happy" grow up for a long time.
Even the best psychiatrist can't restore his injured heart to its original state, but if he can gradually accept the facts and deal with life naturally, it is the best result.
Happiness is too hard to pursue, especially for those who have been hurt. It's not in line with the psychology of laymen to pour chicken soup into their hearts to make others pursue happiness. It's enough to let nature take its course and face it calmly.
Qian Mo strives for the opportunity to see Xing Tianyou for Qi Qi. When the father and son meet, they cry together. Xing Tianyou refuses to say anything in it. However, seeing that his son is taken good care of, he can't help crying.
After the father and son meet, Qian Mo tells Xing Tianyou that Qi Qi has said a lot, and Xing Tianyou is shocked.
What the son said was enough to make him stay in it for an unlimited period of time.
Pit father!
But Qian Mo's next words, but let Xing Tianyou tears.
"When a child carries these things, he doesn't want to pit you. He just wants to buy you a day's time with them. I hope you can play with him for a good day. He doesn't go to the concert hall or order a seat on the stage. The father and son play hard in the playground for a whole day."Xing Tianyou's psychological defense line was completely destroyed and burst into tears.
At this stage, he didn't know whether to hate his son's intelligence or his own stupidity.
Qian Mo then shows the video of her and Qi Qi's treatment to Xing Tianyou.
When he heard his son ask himself again and again when he would go back, Xing Tianyou was confused. However, when he heard Qian Mo say that he was a good father, Xing Tianyou was in a daze.
"Princess, you --"
Why didn't she tell her kids she was a notorious spy?
"No matter how complex the adult world is, your son is innocent, and I will not deny your love for him. I can't promise to cooperate with us and strive for leniency. But I can swear with my personality that I will try my best to adjust Qi Qi's psychological state. When you come out, Qiqi will be a sunny boy and will never follow your old way. "
Qian Mo is serious.
Xing Tianyou was agitated, "why should I believe you?"
Qian Mo raised his hand, "I swear by the badge on my head."
The police badge... Xing Tianyou had been prepared in mind, and it was not too unexpected to hear it.
"Remember your oath, we must help my son adjust his mentality... Teach him to be a good man, don't, don't learn from me... Or I will never let you go when I come out."
Qian Mo nods. She does what she says.
"I don't have anything to say when I lose to you. Isn't your real name? Can you tell me what your real name is
"Chen Qianmo, a freshman in the police academy."
"Chen Qianmo?! Are you Chen Qianmo? " Xing Tianyou's pupil suddenly enlarged.