Chapter 219

"Gu family used to be a famous family? True or false?" Su Chen asked in surprise.

Gu Qingya said casually, "should I? I've heard my father say it, but I don't know the details. But what if it is? Now it's not the past? Famous families have long been in the past!"

"Also! Cough, pull away. Daughter-in-law, Xiaoyu is not young now. Have you ever thought about her future?"

Gu Qingyu's pretty face is slightly wrinkled. "Xiaoyu is only seventeen? The college entrance examination will be held next year. It's too early to think about the future now?"

Su Chen shook her head. "It's not too early! The college entrance examination is a turning point in life. Yes, the achievement is the most important, but for a child, there are more important things than the college entrance examination achievement!"

"What?" Gu Qingya asked curiously.

"Interest!"

"Interest?"

"That's right! A child's personal interest determines his direction of filling in volunteers after the college entrance examination, and this direction can really determine his life destiny.

Now, many parents put their children's demands on achievement first. Before the college entrance examination, in addition to letting their children study hard, they don't pay attention to the cultivation of their children's interest in personal skills at all. So that when children fill in their volunteers after the college entrance examination, they are like a headless fly. They don't even have a basic direction. They can only follow others and hear which major is good for employment or easy to earn Money, blindly to fill in, do not consider whether they are interested in this major, whether they can delve into it!

So that after entering the University, these students find that they are not interested in their chosen major and can't learn it at all. Even if they reluctantly learn it, they will have a strong sense of exclusion, which will eventually lead to either mediocre results or change careers after graduation. Once they change careers, half of their four years of university will be basically wasted, and their future will become bleak.

I'm not alarmist. In fact, graduates in our country not only have, but also account for the majority.

This is the consequence of blindly choosing majors after the college entrance examination.

Therefore, I think, for the cultivation of children, academic achievement is important, but interest and ideal is the most important. We don't require her to know much about her interest or make any hope. As long as she can recognize her ideal and is willing to work hard for it, our goal will be achieved.

Even, after cultivating children's interests and ideals, it will contribute to the progress of academic performance. Because when a person has no ideals, his learning is blind, passive and without passion. Even if he works hard, he will get twice the result with half the effort! Once a child has his own goals and ideals, she studies for herself Working hard for her own ideal is equivalent to having a subjective will. Her learning goal is no longer blind, but will be full of passion. Such a learning attitude will make reading and learning much easier and more efficient, so as to achieve twice the result with half the effort! "

Su Chen's words are by no means general, but his personal experience and lessons from blood and tears.

When he was a child, he completed his studies in junior and senior high school because of the support of kind-hearted people. However, at that time, he had no time to think about anything else except studying every day to earn money. This also led to his high score in the college entrance examination, but he chose the wrong major when filling in his volunteer. As a result, when he went to college, he found that his major was not only extremely difficult in professional knowledge, but also very difficult to find a job.

This led Su Chen to slacken when she was in college and graduated with an ordinary grade. Later, she was lucky to succeed in entering a company. Finally, because she couldn't raise any interest in her professional knowledge, she spent her work every day in a bored mood. In addition, Lao ban was a vampire, so Su Chen resigned in a rage.

Then he was in a state of unemployment. Finally, he was forced to be helpless. As a college graduate, he finally gave away takeout.

I have to say, it was really a choice that ruined Su Chen's life. If he didn't encounter the system later, he would be useless in his life. It would be good if he could support himself for a lifetime, let alone marry a wife and have children!

At the thought of this topic, Su Chen really had a lot to say.

And Gu Qingya was surprised by Su Chen's words. It's not that Su Chen's words are amazing. In fact, these principles Su Chen said are rotten streets. Basically, people who have gone to college can experience them. However, truth is truth, reality is reality, and not every truth can be integrated into reality.

What surprised Gu Qingya is that Su Chen actually said so much truth today. Is it the first time that he has been in contact with Su Chen for so long?

"Husband?" Gu Qingya was worried. She didn't know what Su Chen had experienced.

Su Chen recovered and couldn't help laughing. "Hey, you don't have to worry about me. No matter what I used to be, I'm fine now. Do you think I'll still have these troubles now?"

"Well..." Gu Qingya thought back and was happy.

Well, with Su Chen's current conditions, he doesn't need to worry about anything. It can be said that Su Chen is all sentimental now.

"Husband, I thought about it. You're right. But you also know that not every family has the conditions to create ideal conditions for their children!"

Indeed, if you want to have a firm ideal, you must have personal experience. Only after personal experience can you strengthen your heart. Otherwise, if you rely solely on imagination, it is difficult to cultivate your own ideals.

But it is precisely this experience that not every family has the conditions for their children to experience.

For example, children's ideal is to be enterprise executives and like to sit in the office and give directions. Unless there is a company at home, children from ordinary families can't personally experience what it's like to be a company executive.

Maybe he just got the feeling from the Internet that it's cool to be an executive. But without personal experience, he can never prove that he really likes it. Because every profession has its pros and cons. It's really cool to sit in the office and guide the country, but not everyone can adapt to and bear dealing with business, managing his subordinates and colluding with his opponents.

Therefore, there is no difference between such false ideals and blind voluntary reporting.

Su Chen also knew this, so she just lay in bed and talked to her daughter-in-law without making this view public.

"I know you have to think about it, but we can't control our daughter-in-law and other people's children, but Xiaoyu can't ignore it. There are no conditions in other people's homes, but we have what we want. No matter what Xiaoyu wants to try, I can find a way to let her experience it in person during the summer vacation!

We don't have much else, just more money! "