Chapter 398

"Understand a little!" Xu Binghua said bitterly, "do you want to say that if you help me as an elder, it is equivalent to that our Xu family owes you a favor. If you help me as my friend, it is equivalent to that I owe you a favor?"

Su Chen heard the speech and smiled.

"Yes!"

"Is it?"

"Well, actually, what I really mean is that whether I'm your elder or your friend, I'll certainly help you when you're in trouble, but the premise is that you tell me the truth in advance. In this way, you can ask for help, and I'll certainly help. If you ask me later, it's a use, and I may also help you, but after help, I'll be very uncomfortable!

The so-called EQ is not an elusive routine, nor is it a calculation at the sight of several birds. The essence of EQ is that what you say and do will not make the other party feel uncomfortable on the premise that your own interests will not be lost!

To achieve this, the most basic principle is sincerity! "

Xu Binghua's eyes glowed and nodded. "I seem to... Some understand!"

"It doesn't matter if you don't understand. If you have high EQ, you can live with high EQ, and if you have low EQ, you can live with low Eq. you can try to make people comfortable, but the premise is that you don't hurt yourself. OK, back to the topic just now.

As you said, why can a big man and an ordinary student talk in a small restaurant?

There are many explanations. Let me ask you first. What do you think is a big man? "

"Success?"

Su Chen shook her head. "The so-called big man is to see through the secular rules and not be bound by the secular world. Such a person can not only eat elegantly in a high-end restaurant in formal clothes, but also chat with people in a roadside stall in his heart sandals. He lives in a five-star hotel and a rural village. He can not only be humble to princes and generals, but also have a long conversation with xialiba people."

"It sounds reasonable, but it feels too chicken soup!"

"Let's put it another way. I'm here to make friends, not to eat. I'm here because of you. Not because of here!"

"This statement is very true, but it's too heartbreaking!"

"Let's put it another way! I'm an ordinary person, but I get rich by chance. I've suffered from hardship, so it's the same for me where I eat!"

"Poor people get rich, but small people get what they want. Although this statement is sincere, it still shows pride!" Xu Binghua continued to shake her head, and then suddenly said, "I want to know what you think!"

Su Chen smiled: "me? Because you're here, so I'm here!"

After hearing this, Xu Binghua was stunned for a moment, and then suddenly smiled like a flower!

"You are really, very different!"

"Of course, how many 25-year-old self-made bigwigs are there in the whole world?"

"You started from scratch?"

"That's right. Inheritance also needs efforts, okay?"

"For example?"

"For example, I worked hard for a long time to accept the fact that I am a rich second generation!"

"Poof!" Xu Binghua looked at Su Chen angrily. "You are not serious!"

"You are wrong again! I dare say that there are not many more serious people in the world than me! Because I basically don't tell lies!"

"Are you serious? You haven't lied to my sisters in law?"

"Hehe, didn't they tell you that the premise for our family to get along harmoniously is to treat people sincerely?"

"I don't believe it! What did you tell your sisters when you came out to date me today?"

"I didn't say anything. They said it."

"What did they say?"

"Do you really want to hear?"

"Of course!"

"They said, behave well and don't waste the opportunity we gave you!"

Xu Binghua is stupid. "Hmm? What chance?"

Su Chen shrugged.

"What do you say?"

Xu Binghua blushed with a smile.

"I... let me tell you about the ancient family!"

"OK! I can talk about anything!"

"You don't seem to be afraid of the ancient family at all?"

"What am I afraid of?" Su Chen said indifferently, "don't you know that I've called the Yan family?"

"Ah? Did you beat the Yan family? I've heard of this. It's said that the Yan family was very angry and said angrily that they wanted to find someone for revenge, but later, because there was something wrong with the Yan family, it was over!

Originally, we wondered why the Yan family sent Yan Quan abroad instead of mentioning it again after solving their internal problems. Now I seem to understand. "

Xu Binghua suddenly said.

"Yan Quan has gone abroad?" Su Chen smacked. "What a pity!"

"What a pity?"

"What a pity! I thought I could fight with him! I didn't expect it!"

Xu Binghua was speechless. "Is that how you want to get into trouble?"

"You don't understand!"

"Well, I don't understand, but I want to remind you that the ancient family is not the Yan family. The status of the ancient family in China is far above our Xu family. Of course, it can't compare with the three of us."

"I don't understand what you said. The three of you have always been connected with Qi. Why did Gu Jianfeng pursue you so much? Is this Gu Jianfeng's wishful thinking or the Gu family's premeditation?"

"Have both!" Xu Binghua is a child of an aristocratic family. She knows all these things. You can't really be a nerd who studies hard, or you won't be called a talented woman. "It's true that Gu Jianfeng likes me, and it's also true that the Gu family wants to marry my Xu family."

Xu Binghua said suddenly in her eyes and said, "in fact, I have some questions before, but I seem to have figured it out again when I see you.

It's still because of you. With the development of science and technology, the old and new society changes rapidly, and many families disappear in this torrent.

Although the ancient family has a strong background, it can not guarantee that its family can always stand at the forefront of the times. Once the vision of a family is abandoned by the times, it is not far from decline.

The ancient family courted the Xu family before. It should be that they fell in love with the descendants of our three families. The details of our three families seem not as good as these Centennial families, but when it comes to the descendants, it is definitely not comparable to the ancient family.

The second generation of our three families, one by one, are now the elite of the military, political and business circles.

Later, because of your appearance, the three generations were guaranteed, and even our three families had strong support, which was enough to make up for the lack of information of our three families.

The Gu family may have a crush on you, so they want to have an urgent relationship with our Xu family. Therefore, Gu Jianfeng has harassed me more and more over the past few months! "

Xu Binghua explained more clearly, and finally realized that he had solved all the mysteries before!

Su Chen was speechless.

Is he lying down with a gun?

It was a personal favor for him to be a shield. Now, it seems that he brought this dog skin plaster!

What is this!

Looking at Su Chen, Xu Binghua smiled. "It seems that some things are really destined!"