Chapter 478

I don't know when the idea of son preference will be completely broken. I don't think a family like them with only one daughter will have the idea of son preference. Who would have thought that this idea is more serious in them.

In particular, what I can't understand is that as a woman, I don't value women who are also women.

It's pathetic.

I got up and repeatedly warned, "you ask your son to provide for the aged and take care of you. Don't disturb Jingjing's life in the future. I'll take care of her in the future. You clean up and prepare to leave. Never come again."

"You, who are you? You are not a member of our family. Why do you check our affairs? What does Jingjing do to us? It has nothing to do with you, little girl. Don't mind your own business."

I smile, this is not really my meddling, but in justice.

I said, "my husband Zhuo Feng's family used to favor boys over girls, but he hated such things, so he picked me up in the mountains and raised me. Even after we got married, we had three children. In his opinion, men and women are the same. We should cultivate them well from childhood. After that, the children will go their own way. We are the same Parents just need to tell them that they can't value their sons over their daughters, that they can't do bad things, and that they should keep a good heart. That's enough. We won't let people like you set foot around us and affect our lives, especially those stubborn people like you. If you don't take care of your own child, but you are worried about a bad boy who doesn't know if he will recognize you in the future, even if he takes his own life, you really don't deserve to have such a good daughter as Jingjing. Indeed, I have no right to intervene in this matter, but I have at least the right to speak. I don't believe you should ask Jingjing now, do you agree with me? "

Turning around, we see Jingjing. Behind her is Zhang Chuan holding the child.

The child was babbling in Zhang Chuan's arms. His small fist was clenched tightly and his big eyes were blinking at us.

The atmosphere was tense for a time, and we were all waiting for Jingjing to make the final decision.

I don't worry that she won't agree or even drive me away. As long as I do what I think is right, I won't be ashamed of anyone.

After a while, Jingjing breathed softly, turned back to Zhang Chuan and said, "you go to book the air ticket, economy class is OK, two, and the lawyer has withdrawn. People who have nothing to do with us don't have to take money or human feelings."

Jingjing's meaning is more obvious. She just looks back at me and gently tugs at my clothes. "Zhuo Er, I'll pack up and go to you. Ogawa is going on a business trip tomorrow, so I have to manage the company myself for a few days, and the children will be taken care of by you and your aunt."

I said, "well, when I get home, I'll ask the doctor to show it to you. It's not the way to burn down like this."

She didn't answer, only tears in her eyes, and came downstairs with me.

Behind her, is her mother's cry, continued to spread her father's abuse, "son of a bitch, I live in vain, live in vain."

Jingjing came out with me and had a look in the room. She was still reluctant to give up. This is his parents. They broke their teeth and were still connected to their bones and muscles. How could they say that they would break them? It's just angry to do so. But what the parents did was really heartbreaking. Their own parents were not good to themselves, but good to the adopted children I don't care about my children. I have to go back directly. Have you ever thought about feeling it quietly?

My parents, I'm afraid, would be very angry, but I don't feel the kindness of being raised from childhood. I just think it's unfair to Jingjing.

Zhang Chuan is sitting in the back of the car with her child in her arms. Jing Jing is sitting in the co driver's seat. She doesn't say a word all the way. I've seen her occasionally. She looks down and wipes her tears. It's really distressing.

Zhang Chuan wants to talk to persuade her, but I'm stopped. People are most vulnerable at this time. What to say will cause her a heavy psychological burden. It's better not to say.

The atmosphere in the car was very heavy. We didn't speak and thought about our own thoughts.

I don't know what Xie Jingjing is thinking, but if it was me, I would think of the happiness of the family living together before. The more I think about it, the more I think about it, the more I feel how sad the current situation is.

It's clear that they are their own parents. Why do they have to think that their son is important? They don't take good care of their own children, but they have to take care of those who are not. What's the reason? Is it because they are a boy?

I don't understand. I really don't understand.

It is said that the society is progressing now, but in fact, such decadent ideas are still deeply rooted.

I remember a long time ago, some people dug up their dead daughter and married other people's dead son. They got tens of thousands of yuan and finally gave it to their son. But if the son didn't support them, they resented that their daughter didn't protect them.

When the news came out at that time, how many people left messages under the news, I knew that this incident had been translated so much in China.

I can't imagine what a girl in such a family would look like.

Moreover, the serious imbalance between men and women in China is also due to too many such situations.How many unborn girls are stillborn because every family wants a son.

In the end, there are too many men to find a suitable partner, and then complain about women's material and power.

In such a vicious circle, no one has thought about why it has become like this.

But as a woman, what can I do? In the past, I thought I was a good man. I could do what I could to help the abducted children find their parents again. But the final data was so amazing that one of the ten girls was sold out because she was a girl, and she was sent to an orphanage.

Some of them were found back, and they were not allowed to be spoiled because they were daughters and children. They dropped out of school early, took care of their younger brothers and sisters, and took care of their families. At a very young age, they were found by their parents to get married in a family with worse conditions. They gave birth to children, had sons, had abortions, and started over and over again.

Poor continue to be poor, pressure afraid to find a way out, more do not know resistance, already in such a despicable environment has become a vampire helper, squeezing his daughter, and finally become a poor woman to sell her daughter.

These are facts. They are also facts that are not accepted but exist.

But every time I think about it, I feel powerless.

There's so little I can do.

I thought I was the most pitiful person in our group, but now it seems that there are many more miserable people than me.

At least, my mother loves me, and now she's with me, taking care of me, taking care of my daughter, and making up for the years we've lost together.

When the car arrived at home, Jingjing wanted to sit quietly in the car. Zhang Chuan comforted her and went ahead with her crying child. I sat in the car and listened to her crying quietly. My heart was breaking.

Jingjing is not a person who likes to cry. Even if she is in a bad mood, she is only secretly sad for a few days. As soon as things pass, she turns around and forgets.

When I knew her, I knew that she was an optimistic and cheerful girl, which had a lot to do with the environment in which she grew up. But who would have thought that her family might not be as happy as we saw.

I said, "Jingjing, sit here. It's better to cry against me."

She shook her head, continued to bow her head and wipe her tears silently. After a while, she took a breath, calmed down and said to me, "I always feel that I am the happiest person. Although I have encountered setbacks in my feelings, I still find the right person. Zhang Chuan has always been very kind to me. We love each other and we manage the company together. He always gives in to me, works carefully and treats me meticulously. We have another chance He's a lovely child. I have a love I love my parents, but who would have thought that all this is false? Drow, as you can imagine, it's all fake. "

I understand this kind of mood, heavy, disappointed, helpless, even if the giant standing around, in every detail holding their own, to their own strength, will still feel helpless, do not see the kind of loss of hope.

That's my parents, but after several decades, I found that what they really love is not themselves, and the former beauty is false. How many people can accept such a fight?

I don't know what to say. I just think it's best to be quiet.

She didn't speak any more. She cried for a long time. After a long time, she said to me, "I think well, I won't give them any more money when they go back. If they go to sue me, I will pay them hundreds of dollars a month at most. I will settle all the money at one time after I die, and I will never communicate with them again. I don't want to see them. They think I'm not good, so don't contact me as soon as possible. If the son is good, go to him. It has nothing to do with me. What I said is not angry words. I really made such a decision. Things have come to the point where I know that nothing I can do can save anything. I thank them for giving me the illusion of 30 years, but I will feel pain all the time in the remaining decades. I am very grateful to them for their son preference, which can never be forgiven, especially my mother. "

Yes, I can't understand that as a woman, I prefer boys to girls.

I took a deep breath and persuaded her, "let's look at the situation for a while. I know you are sad, but it's not the time when things have to be so extreme. You Jingjing, think about it. "

Jingjing shook her head, wiped the last tear from her face, looked back at me and asked me, "if it was you, what would you do? The woman who gave birth to you, what did you do in the end? She gave her so much money, but she had nothing to do with her son. Don't you feel cold? Later, she didn't contact her again, sent her out of the city and warned her never to come back, did you? Drow, I didn't understand you very well at that time, but now I do. I think you did the right thing. "

It doesn't matter whether it's right or not. Now I just want to ask the people around me to live their own lives well. Since I can live my own life well because of leaving such parents, it's better to break all contacts like this.

"Jingjing, since you have made such a choice, you can do it. I think it's very good. But now you need to cheer up. Zhang Chuan is obedient to you. He won't refute what you really do, but he has his own ideas. You should communicate with him more and don't carry everything on your own, you know? I'm here for the kids. You just take care of your own company and let other things go for a while. If your family contacts you... " I had no choice but to take a breath, so I continued, "just stay away for a while."Jingjing choked, "I know. Don't worry. I know about this. It's just that I really want to know what that child looks like. She's so small that she's upset. I don't know how my parents educate them. "

In the eyes of many parents, if they think their children are boys, they can take advantage of them, so they don't cherish other people's girls. But in fact, the harm is caused by both sides. It's so unreliable at a young age that it's hard to develop in the future. Scum is scum when they grow up. It's impossible to improve.