Then Qin Yiling said, "maybe you can think from another angle. What's the big deal? It's not your fault that you were bitten by a mad dog and bullied. You don't have to humble yourself into the dust.
You are upright and upright. No one is qualified to say that you have no face to live. Each of you is a unique existence in this world. No one can command or require you to give up your life except yourself.
As for this matter, consider yourselves widows. You have been married once, and all men are dead. Now widows can marry again, so can you! "
Hearing this, a group of women's eyes couldn't help shining. They looked at Qin Yiling in surprise. It seemed that they didn't expect her to think so.
Seeing everyone's look, Qin Yiling said again with a firm and serious look.
"Why can't you think so? Think about it yourself. What's the difference between this situation and married widows? Haven't you served men? If you can't think about it and think you're terrible, how can you expect others to think highly of you?
If we want to be respected by others, we must first learn to respect and cherish ourselves, live hard, be diligent, and tell the world with our practical actions that we are right, and we are also qualified to be upright!! "
A group of women suddenly red eyes, but this time it is no longer self pity, despair and blankly want to cry, but the heart is touched, burning hope and gladly want to cry.
"Can we?" People are not confident.
It is undeniable that Qin Yiling's words came to their hearts, which made them at a loss and no longer shake.
Qin Yiling replied firmly, "can you? Don't ask me, but ask you. If you think it's OK, it's OK. If you think you can't do it, what's the use of others saying more?"
“.....”
Everyone was silent again, but this silence was a kind of meditation. The atmosphere lingering on everyone was no longer heavy and dark, but with a faint light.
Qin Yiling is not ready to preach, leaving them room to think.
Now it's too late, and they don't plan to catch the night road. It's too tired, not to mention they don't hurry.
Although the cottage is relatively simple, it can protect the wind and the cold at least. They plan to rest here for a night and return tomorrow morning.
There are many materials collected and scraped out. In addition to several baskets of bow and arrow knives and seven boxes of jewelry, there are more than a dozen bags of grain flour and some meat and vegetables.
They didn't take other miscellaneous living things, which were of little use to them. It was a burden to take them.
Fortunately, they came with two carriages and two ox carts in the stronghold, so all the materials collected can be loaded.
Just now, they have put all the supplies on the horse and ox cart.
Everyone will definitely rest in the cottage tonight, but it's also a hard job to cook dinner for so many people.
So Qin Yiling asked the big three to ride into the county to buy some steamed buns as staple food, and then roast some meat for a meal.
The rest went to clean up some clean rooms so that everyone could stay tonight.
When everything was arranged properly, Qin Yiling turned and came to a group of women.
"You still have one night to think about your next way. Don't worry. There is no answer now, and there will always be some in the future.
Now the most important thing is to eat first and then have a good sleep. Maybe you will have an answer when you get up tomorrow morning. Go and clean up the room you want to live in at night and come out for dinner later. "
The women nodded silently, and then went to clean the room.
What does this cottage have to say most? That must be the most wooden rooms. Rows of unified wooden houses.
Although it is built in a gully, the stronghold is not dark with torches everywhere.
"Where's the monkey?"
After everyone dispersed, Qin Yiling reacted. He didn't see the little monkey for a while.
"I didn't see it either. I guess I went to the back mountain to play." Yan Ze guessed that after all, the cottage was built in the gully, behind which was the continuous mountains.
Qin Yiling doesn't care if he thinks about it. The little monkey is smart. Even if he is fond of playing, he is measured. It is estimated that he hasn't wandered in the mountains for a long time, so he ran to the back mountain to play.
The cottage is not far from Yonghe county. It takes about 20 minutes to ride a horse. Therefore, in less than an hour, the big three came back with full cloth bags.
Zhou Yong and others also roasted the meat and cleaned up the room.
So the party gathered in a lobby room of the cottage to have dinner. Originally, they wanted to chat at will, but when they saw a group of women sitting on the other side of the room, they put away their thoughts of chatting.
I don't think it's appropriate for them to talk and laugh at this time.
But they quite agree with what my sister-in-law said before.
Being spoiled is indeed an unspeakable thing, but life always has to pass. You don't have to give up your life for the sins created by others.
The so-called good death is better than living. Who knows what will happen in the future? It's not like you can't live for such a thing.
Perhaps, people with exquisite innocence can't choose, but there are still many men in the world who can't marry their daughter-in-law, and they still have many choices.
You can't go this way. There's always another way to go.
"Squeak ~"
Just as everyone kept quiet and ate dinner silently, the little monkey finally came back.
As soon as I entered the house, I jumped up to Qin Yiling and stretched out the monkey's paw to pull Qin Yiling's clothes. I looked very worried.
"What's the matter?"
Qin Yiling swallowed the steamed bread in his mouth and asked calmly.
"Squeak ~"
The little monkey squeaked and pulled the corners of Qin Yiling's clothes.
Qin Yiling quickly put down the unfinished steamed bread in his hand and got up to answer, "well, I know. I'll go right away. Don't pull my clothes."
Seeing this, Yan Ze also got up, "what's the matter? I'll go with you."
Even though his family was not afraid of any wild animals in the mountains, he was not confident that he would let her go out alone on this dark night.
"The little monkey said that a little friend in the mountain was injured and needed me to help him."
Qin Yiling explained and readily agreed to his proposal. With brother Ze, he could have a speaking partner on the road.