Fang Qiuyun tried to stop talking. He didn't seem to know how to answer this question.
"Since you have a good feeling, why do you avoid him? Do you think you two won't have anything if you don't talk? You can see the awkward feeling between you two.
Therefore, don't say some duplicity. You can't deceive others or yourself. Why bother! "
Seeing that Fang Qiuyun's expression was a little loose, Qin Yiling knew that her words had touched her, so she directly asked what she thought in her heart.
"Do you feel unworthy because of what happened in the past?"
Fang Qiuyun raised his head fiercely, his lips wriggled, "I, I..."
Yes, she really thinks so in her heart. As a crippled woman, how can she expect a man to accept herself without any objection?
Although my wife often stressed to them that women should be independent and self-respect, self-esteem and self-improvement, and should be equal and respected in men and women, my wife taught them a lot, and they also recognized it. In their daily life, they are also working hard to convey this concept to their sisters.
But recognition is one thing. When you really face this matter, you will inevitably have some bumps in your heart. After all, this is the concept of this era.
Although they don't mind what others think of them, they are afraid that others will look at them differently or criticize the important people around them.
Moreover, there are still some people who know their experiences in the Chinese army, and those people are also very close to Gao Wei.
If they came together, what would those people think of Gao Wei? Will you despise and despise it?
Gao Wei is a good and capable man. Even if he has a scar on his face, it will not affect his image and talent.
And she knew that many sisters in the nursing team loved Gao Wei, and those girls were more pure and flawless than themselves.
Therefore, she was timid. She couldn't step over the barrier, so she put away her mind and alienated Gao Wei. Fortunately, neither of them tore the window paper, so there was no object.
Qin Yiling said something overbearing, "if I really love someone, I will never give him to anyone, because I'm afraid others don't love him so much."
Fang Qiuyun was slightly stunned.
Qin Yiling smiled and explained, "I'm not standing and talking without backache. I just want to express my view of love. If you really like a person, you will believe that you can give each other happiness.
On the contrary, if you can't even decide whether you can give each other happiness, it only shows that this feeling is not deep enough.
Because when a person completely enters your heart and a feeling is strong, you will have a kind of courage and confidence. You will work hard for each other and become a better person for each other. "
“......” Fang Qiuyun was silent and felt a mess in his mind. Many thoughts flashed by, but he couldn't catch them.
Qin Yiling paused. "In short, if the other party likes you and you like the other party, do you know what the other party cares about most?"
Fang Qiuyun shook his confused head.
Qin Yiling had to say in earnest: "what you can't give to the other party is what the other party expects. No one will like words such as' I'm for you ',' I love you ',' without me, you'll meet someone better than me '.
You ask yourself, would you like someone with the slogan of "for you", but force you to accept all the reality? The same is true of men and women.