Chapter 619

My heart jumped and said, "we two people in the air, what do you think I can hide from you? Don't you think you think too much? "

She was silent for a moment and said, "well Maybe I think too much Yes, you are right. We two people in the air have nothing to hide There is no need for that. "

I said: "if you dream, I hope you can live safely and healthily, work happily, live happily, live safely, which is better than anything."

"Well, I hope the same for you Your safety is my greatest wish She said: "I often think that the true flavor of life lies in the word" light "; the demeanor of life lies in the word" forget ". When the wind comes, the bamboo branches are bent by the wind; when the wind goes, the bamboo stands straight again, as if the wind had never come. When the cloud comes, it leaves a shadow at the bottom of the pool; when the cloud goes, the bottom of the pool is clean, as if the cloud has never been here.

"A broad-minded person will not be angry because of others' neglect, nor depressed because of others' injury. And you, in my heart, are a broad-minded person. You will not easily get angry or depressed. You will adjust your mood well. Only when you are happy can you be safe and happy can you be healthy. "

I said, "well, I'll try to do it, and I'll remember what you said I think, around you, in your environment, because of your position, there must be villains You should be careful to lift and release villains. You should not be harmful to others, but you should be defensive. Remember

"Ha ha Well, I'll remember. " She laughed: "Hakka, I'll tell you a story about how to deal with villains A Zen master met someone who didn't like him during his journey. The man slandered him in every way. Finally, the Zen master turned and asked him: if someone gives you a gift, but you refuse to accept it, then who does the gift belong to? The man replied: of course, it belongs to the giver. Zen master said with a smile: Yes, I don't accept your slander and calculation. You are slandering and calculating yourself Hakka, what do you mean by this story? "

I said: "with the villain, do not care too much, ignore or refuse him on the line!"

"Well, yes, you're right!" Floating life like a dream, said: "in everyone's around, villains are there, villains everywhere, these villains, in fact, many of them are your opponents, I have opponents around, I think, you around, there will be no less opponents."

"Yes I said: "no matter how these opponents disguise themselves in front of you, their only purpose is to defeat you!"

"Ha ha, yes In fact, these opponents are closely related to your work and are always dealing with you. " "Hakka, actually for me, I'm good at working with my friends and my assistants, but I'm not good at dealing with my opponents. I know this is my weakness, but I don't have a clear idea. When my opponents attack and plot against me, I know to refuse and give in, but when my opponents want to cooperate with me, Sometimes I get confused. "

I think about it. Qiutong does have this characteristic in reality. She is too kind-hearted and kind-hearted. When she meets good people, this character is an advantage. However, if she meets bad people, this character is a fatal weakness.

I said, "if you dream, I'll tell you a story."

"Well..."

"The mouse climbed on the table to steal meat and startled the cat sleeping at the table. Rat and cat discuss, say: if you don't make a noise, I get a few pieces of meat for you, we share delicious. The cat refused: get out of here. If the owner finds that there is less meat, he must suspect that I stole it. Then I will be the meat on the chopping board You said, "what can you learn from this story?" I said.

"Don't trade with the opponent who is trying to knock down himself. When he gives you a little profit, what he may lose is a bigger profit." She said.

"Yes, that's it. Don't be bewildered by your opponent's sugar coated shells, and don't be enveloped by your opponent's sweet words You treat others with a kind heart, but some people may not accept your kindness, or even use your kindness to hurt you... " I said, "if you cry, your opponent will laugh. If you laugh, your opponent will cry. Life is like angry birds, every time you are hurt, there are always a few pigs laughing. All you have to do is ignore the sound of ridicule and cheer yourself up. Smile confidently and do the right thing confidently. Be brave, it's really no big deal

She seemed to be lost in thought for a moment and said, "I often tell myself that I don't care what other people think of me behind my back, say me, make up my right and wrong, or even attack me. I often say to myself that if I can satisfy them, I am willing to accept it. I believe that people who really understand me will never deny me because of what they have or don't have... "

I said, "well You are a leader now. Although sparrow is small and has five internal organs, I want to tell you that the real leadership does not lie in how many gentlemen you command, but in how many villains you control! "

"Oh, you're right!"

I continued: "in the process of dealing with your opponent, you don't have to care too much about whether the process is smooth or tortuous. The key is to see the result The person who straightens the curve is clever, he finds a shortcut; the person who straightens the curve is open-minded, he sees more scenery. Everyone is original when they are born, but the vast majority of people gradually become pirates. It's like flying an airplane. How high you fly is not the key. The key is to land steadily. ""Ha ha Guest guest, what you said is very funny, but it's very concise, and it's the key point. " She said with a smile, "I'll remember what you said. You didn't give me any advice on marketing today, but you taught me how to do things From what you said just now, I seem to realize a truth in dealing with opponents. "

"What's the point?" I said.

"That's learning to bow." She said.

"Why do you say that? "Bowing down means to admit defeat, it means to fail," I said. "I don't seem to agree with what you said. I didn't let you understand that. That's not what I told you."

"But that's what I learned." She said: "I think, know how to bow, in order to come out! Bow is a kind of ability, it is not inferiority, it is not cowardice, it is a conscious evolution. A person's life, always remember to bow. Keep a low profile in life, look down on yourself and value others. Put down your airs and despise your teacher. Learn to lower your cup and absorb more wisdom and experience from others This kind of bow is not a failure, not to admit defeat. "

It makes me feel like a dream

For a while, floating life like a dream, said: "Hakka, I hope that no matter where we are, no matter what we do, we can be happy, at least, I hope you must be happy."

I feel a little disappointed and said, "how can I be happy? What is the happiness in your heart? "

"In my heart, there are three happiest things: someone to love, something to do and something to look forward to," she said

"Oh..." My heart goes up and down.

"To have someone to love is not only to be loved, but also to have the ability to love others and the world on their own initiative; to have something to do can enrich every day, and there is no big or small thing, only if you love or not; to have something to look forward to, there is hope in life. People are not afraid of being humble, they are afraid of losing hope, and they look forward to tomorrow, expecting sunshine, and people will stand up from being humble and embrace the blue sky." She said.

My heart trembled, floating life like a dream, this paragraph is deeply imprinted in my heart.

Late at night, I finished chatting with Fu Sheng Ruo Meng. I lay on the bed, listening to the slight and even breathing of the sea beads beside me. My mind was rolling, reflecting on the chat with Fu Sheng Ruo Meng tonight

The next day, I was driving to work. When I came to an intersection, I met a red light and was waiting for the green light. The front door of the left car was suddenly pulled open, and a woman directly got into the car.

I see, it's Cao Li!

"Ah - I didn't drive when I was drinking last night. I was waiting for a taxi at the side of the road. I just met you What a coincidence, take your free ride to work Cao Li said carelessly and pulled up the door.

I looked at a high-end hotel on the roadside and saw Cao Li's dark circle. Needless to say, Cao Li slept in this hotel last night and didn't go back. I don't know who she was fooling around with last night.

At this time, the green light is on, I drive forward, while casually asked: "which leader did you drink with last night?"

"Mr. Sun invited boss Wu and boss Bai to dinner last night." Cao Li said.

I can't help but jump at the news. Damn, I just told Cao Li yesterday that the sender was Bai Laosan's bodyguard. Sun dongkai invited wood and Bai Laosan to dinner. What does Sun dongkai want? Is it

I was thinking wildly, and I couldn't help getting nervous.

Stop for a moment, I try to calm myself, as if nothing had happened to "Oh", did not speak.

I deliberately made myself look indifferent.

Cao Li looked at me and said, "yesterday I asked you to inquire about that man. Didn't you tell anyone else?"

"I have nothing to do, say this..." I said, "didn't you ask me to keep it a secret? Why, no need to keep it secret? "

"No, no, it must be kept secret. It must be kept secret. Not only who the person is, but also what I ask you to do. Don't let Mr. Sun know!" Cao Li said quickly.

"Nonsense, what do I say?" I said.

Cao Li was quiet for a while. Suddenly, she looked indignant and said, "they are too much! How can you do that? "

"What's the matter? Who are you I pretended to be confused and suddenly relaxed. From Cao Li's words, I immediately realized that Lao Tzu's strategy had succeeded!

Cao Li looked at me and said, "it's wood and Bai Laosan. They're too much Mr. Sun was sincere to them, but they secretly manipulated Mr. Sun. I really don't understand why they did it? "

"Oh, what did they do to Mr. Sun?" I said, pretending to be very loyal.