"Well..." I nodded.
"Ah - that's right, good I'm very happy Haifeng laughed happily: "ah, my heart is finally down, and I've become Yike's big brother-in-law Damn, it's not easy... "
Haifeng's words made me and Haizhu laugh. Haizhu's body leaned close to me.
"It may not be a bad thing for you to go through this big storm. Things in this world have never been smooth sailing. If they are too smooth, they may not be a good thing." Haifeng said with emotion: "in fact, two people together, mutual communication and understanding is the most important, contradictions are everywhere, but to distinguish between the enemy and ourselves or contradictions among the people, to properly solve some stumbling things, do not impulsive, do not make a conflict to think of breaking up."
Haizhu nodded, put a hand in my hand, I gently hold, Haizhu's hand is very soft, very warm.
Haifeng said: "in fact, love is like this. When two people are together, don't think about whether they love you or not, because love can't stand thinking. The more you think about it, the more painful it will be. One day you will find that love is not so important. Because there will be a lot of love in your life, and only one person will accompany you to the end. You will be hurt along the way. In fact, what you really need to be strong is not your shell, but your heart. "
Haizhu looked at me and Haifeng, and said, "I will slowly make my heart strong After so many things, I feel like I'm growing up. "
Haifeng said: "if a woman meets a good man, she doesn't need to mature all her life. Women are more and more mature and strong because they don't meet good men. If a man meets a good woman, he may be like a child all his life. Men have never matured, just because the women around them are so good Some are not taken care of, so more and more strong. Some are taken care of so well that they never grow up. "
Haizhu looked at me and said softly: "brother, although brother Haifeng said so, although I know you are a good man, I am still willing to make myself mature and strong, I am willing to accept your care, and I am willing to take care of you When you love me, I love you desperately. But if you do not love me, although I will still love you, but I will immediately stop, never cheap.
"In fact, I understand that love is something you love and I want. Love is when two people fall in love. If only one person posts it, it's better to forget each other as soon as possible We are all ordinary people, ordinary people have ordinary people's romance, do not need earth shaking, but for a long time. I finally know that it's not love that makes a person remember the most. It's love that accompanies a person for the longest time. "
Haizhu's words make me feel that she is really mature and strong.
Haifeng nodded: "what a Zhu said is reasonable. I always think that there is no kind of love that requires you to give up your dignity and practice yourself, and ask you to suffer. Love may make you at a loss, make you jealous and angry, make you sad and shed tears. But in the end, it's warm, it gives you pleasure, it gives you security. If not, then either love the wrong person, or use the wrong method. It's better to be single than to suffer. If you don't have the hug you want, learn to be strong first. "
Haifeng's words remind me of clouds, Haifeng and clouds
Haifeng looked at me and Haizhu, then said: "send you a word: life is valued in believing in yourself. Believe that you are blessed, but don't deliberately own it; believe that you are strong, but don't refuse tears; believe that there are good people in the world, but you must guard against bad people; believe that money can bring happiness, but don't spend your whole life; believe in sincerity, but don't blame hypocrisy; believe in success, but don't avoid failure; believe in fate, but don't wait blindly; believe in love, but don't ask for perfection Blame
"It's easy to fall in love with someone, but it's not easy to stick to that promise after it's dull. Love never caters. It's true love if you can't quarrel and scold. In fact, if you really love someone, you will fall into the whirlpool. He makes you cry and disappoints you. Even so, when he stands there, you will still go and hold his hand
Haifeng's words are reasonable.
I said to Haifeng, "fuck you, the president of Northeast China, are becoming an expert in love psychology It's one set at a time. "
Haifeng said with a smile: "this is my experience from practice The struggle of life can not be without emotion. A life without emotion is an incomplete life. Emotion is always integrated into practice. Every day of our life and everything we do is actually in practice In other words, both love and career grow and mature in practice
"Without passion, love will not burn; without friendship, friends will not be full; without pride, ambition will be difficult to achieve; without mood, things will be difficult to accomplish. What we lack is not opportunity, but the grasp of it; what we lack is not wealth, but the ability to create wealth; what we lack is not knowledge, but the attitude of never tired of learning; what we lack is not ideal, but the practice of practicing. "
Haizhu said: "it's just that sometimes, this kind of practice is very painful and tormenting! Sometimes when I see that so many people around me can live a carefree and happy life, I really envy them. "Haizhu's words hurt me a little. I held Haizhu's hand tightly, looked at Haizhu and said, "ah Zhu, you don't have to envy others for being so good, but you don't have to worry about your own lack. In fact, no one's life is complete. Do not often envy others how, think carefully, you will find that you have a lot of. There is never an absolutely perfect life, and the missing part, though not lovely, is also a part of your life. If you accept it and treat it well, life will be happy and open-minded. "
Haizhu's bright eyes look at me, smile and nod.
With these words, looking at Haizhu's expression, my heart suddenly felt a little sad
After dinner, Haifeng drove me and Haizhu back.
At the gate of the community, Haizhu and I got off and Haifeng drove away.
It was cold at night, and Haizhu stood there shivering.
I hugged Haizhu's shoulder, and Haizhu obediently approached my body
My heart beat a little faster, a feeling I haven't seen for a long time.
Haizhu and I walked into the community together.
Enter the corridor and get on the elevator.
At the door of the dormitory, I released Haizhu, took out the key, ready to open the door.
As soon as the key was inserted into the lock hole, a "pa -" sound of opening the door came from behind.
My body trembled, turned around, and the door across opened.
Dong Er is standing at the door with a green face.
See Donger, Haizhu's body suddenly a shake, face suddenly become white.
Although Dong'Er bought a house here, most of the time she didn't hang out here. I met her occasionally. Originally, I thought she would not be here tonight. Unexpectedly, she was just meeting me and came back with Haizhu.
Look at Donger's handbag and clothes in her hand at the moment. It seems that this is an extreme coincidence. It seems that she is just about to go out and just opened the door to see us.
For a moment, everyone's eyes seem to flash a bit of accident, it seems that they did not expect to see each other.
Then, Dong'Er's face became livid, and Haizhu's face turned white.
In my understanding, turning blue is because of anger, and turning white is because of fear.
So, that is to say, Dong'Er is very angry at this time, and Haizhu is frightened.
Why is Dong Er angry? Why is Haizhu frightened? This seems to be an indescribable question.
However, Shaoqing, Donger and Haizhu's looks changed and returned to normal.
This seems to show that both of them are controlling themselves and trying to show their normal attitude.
Haizhu looks at Donger and takes the initiative to speak first.
"Dong'Er, hello Good evening Haizhu's voice sounds surprisingly calm.
"Well, I'm fine I'm fine day and night. " Dong'Er's voice sounded calm, looking at Haizhu: "I didn't expect I didn't expect that. "
It seems that Dong'Er's two "unexpected" have different meanings.
Haizhu seemed to recognize the meaning of Donger's words and said, "yes, I didn't expect you to come out of this room. I didn't expect you to open the door right now But I'm not surprised. Anything in the world can happen. "
Dong'Er's expression is slightly stunned, as if it is because of Haizhu's extraordinary calm.
Dong'Er continued: "yes, it's not unusual. I just bought this house and come to live here from time to time. I just want to go out and meet you at this moment."
Haizhu's eyelids jumped and then said faintly, "Oh It turns out that you bought a house. Congratulations. It seems that you are rich It's not easy to buy such a house in Xinghai! It seems that Dong'Er, you are really a man of ability! "
I noticed sensitively that Haizhu used to call her "sister Donger" when she saw Donger, but now she just called her "Donger".
The subtle change of address seems to reflect the change of Haizhu's mentality and her attitude towards Donger.
Dong'Er said, "what is buying such a house? What's so great about that I'm not a capable person. No matter how capable I am, I'm not as good as you Obviously, I left on my own initiative, but now I have the cheek to come back. It seems that Haizhu has a lot of skills. I don't know what tricks have you played to make it successful? "
Dong'Er takes the initiative to challenge, and the words begin to smell of gunpowder.
Haizhu said with a faint smile: "it's my business to leave or come back. I don't need you to worry about it Of course, I appreciate your concern. Maybe, I think, your mood at the moment is more complicated. You must be blessing me in your heart. "
Haizhu launched a counterattack in another way. Her tone was soft and hard, and her eyes looked at Donger without weakness.
Haizhu has really changed. It seems to be stronger than before. She used to be on the defensive in front of Dong'Er.
Dong'Er said: "yes, Haizhu, you're right. My heart is very complicated at the moment, but I don't wish you well. I want to see you disgrace!"Haizhu said, "I'm afraid you may be disappointed I'm so sorry
Dong'Er said: "don't be sorry, sooner or later, although you are shamelessly back now, it seems very beautiful. In fact, sooner or later, you will leave, sooner or later, you will be completely disgraced, sooner or later, you will completely disappear from here, sooner or later, you will be defeated!"
Haizhu didn't seem to be angry. Instead, she laughed faintly: "really, this is your blessing I will remember your blessing However, it's a pity that I may disappoint you. I'm sorry again. "
Then Haizhu put her hand around my arm and said to Donger, "we're going home You're not coming in? I've always been very warm to guests. I'll pour you a glass of boiled water. Of course, you seem to have something to go out now, so I'd better not invite you. Besides, I haven't been back for so long, and I haven't stayed at home with Yike for so long. When I come back, I have to tidy up the housework, and I have to be gentle with Yike. Maybe I'll leave you in the cold. "
With that, Haizhu laughed again.