Everyone laughed, the cloud face red, gently draw back his hand, said to Qiutong: "qiujie, you continue to talk."
Qiu Tong continued: "the second point is that female candidates should dress according to their own conditions, taking into account their body shape, skin color, age, family economic status and other factors, so as to show their own style and personality. American professor Barr said: clothing is the self-expression of people's physical beauty. From this point of view, female candidates should first dress appropriately. To achieve this, we must first of all have a more accurate estimate of our body shape. In addition, the stubborn herd mentality must be eliminated. "
Haizhu laughed: "sister Qiu, let's go with Yunduo to buy suitable clothes tomorrow?"
Qiu Tong nodded: "good!"
Haifeng said, "I'll pay for it!"
The cloud said to Haifeng, "no, I'll pay for it myself."
Haifeng laughs: "OK."
The cloud said to Qiu Tong again, "elder sister Qiu, what should we pay attention to in terms of etiquette?"
Qiu Tong said: "for girls, clothes are not the most important thing, as long as they are generous and decent. As a matter of fact, the capable temperament and intelligent answers of female examinees can often win the favor of examiners. In terms of etiquette, female examinees should first be steady and astringent. From knocking, entering, greeting, saluting, taking a seat to answering and leaving, we must overcome the action or speaking too fast caused by tension, and the expression should be natural.
"In particular, the expression of hair, some girls because of timidity will have voice shaking, stuttering, repeated and other problems, in practice should pay attention to overcome; you usually speak at a low volume, should increase the volume of practice, in addition to answering exercises, you can practice reading aloud in the morning.
"In terms of eyes, we should pay attention to the communication with the examiners, boldly look up at the examiners, and look around other examiners appropriately. Keep smiling, can make you look more friendly, but also pay attention to adjust and control the expression according to the content of the topic, the expression is not too exaggerated or too rich
Speaking of this, Qiu Tong looked at Haizhu and said, "Haizhu, you have the most say in etiquette. Your stewardess are all trained in strict etiquette."
Haizhu chuckled: "no problem, tomorrow I will take time to train the clouds, to ensure that the clouds get started quickly."
The cloud smiles happily and looks at Qiutong with expectant eyes.
Qiu Tong said with a smile: "cloud, mentality is very important I have to work hard for everything. Success or failure doesn't depend on my calm mind. "
The cloud nodded, "well..."
"No matter whether the written test scores are higher or lower, many female candidates are often nervous and timid in the face of interviews. This is more to overcome the tension of the test room simulation. You can find your friends as examiners, or face the mirror, simulate the real interview scene, and practice speaking more. You can also find test friends and give advice to each other, which can effectively improve together.
"No matter who you are doing the simulation with, don't give up answering the questions in the middle of the simulation. No matter whether you are satisfied or not, you must persist in answering the questions, gradually transition from the practice of single question to the practice of set questions, and finally summarize and reflect on your performance.
"Believe in yourself, believe that your performance will win the approval of the examiner, so that you can better control your expression and emotion. Through continuous simulation practice, tension can be overcome to a certain extent. " Qiu Tong said again.
"Don't ask anyone else. It's all up to me to imitate practice!" Haifeng said in a big way.
Haizhu and I both smile at Haifeng, and the clouds also smile.
Qiu Tong then said to me: "Yike, you are a real fighter. You have the most say in your practical experience. Please tell me."
I said: "my experience is that in a real interview, when facing a new environment, it's very normal for me to be nervous when I see my opponents and real examiners. Moderate tension can also improve the reaction speed when answering questions, and the improvement of excitement can also help to maintain a good mental outlook. Therefore, no matter what the actual state of their own on the field, we should believe that this is a very good state, as long as we carefully answer the questions, play out their best level is the reward for the usual hard practice
The clouds nodded.
I went on: "in an interview, the most important part is talking. Women's eloquence will become your strong point to improve your interview passing rate, because every employer knows that talents may not have eloquence, but those who have eloquence must be talents. "
Haizhu asked me, "brother, how do you show your intelligence and eloquence?"
The clouds looked at me intently.
I said: "female candidates should use greetings to connect with feelings. Greeting is the social intercourse language when both sides meet in social activities. In the interview, using the psychology of the examiner to choose some greetings that can shorten the distance between the two sides and enhance the feelings can create a good atmosphere for the further formal interview.
"For example, as a woman, you can take the initiative to say: I'm very glad to meet you It's a great honor to accept your interview The above language is not only beneficial to the formation of a good atmosphere, but also skillfully shortens the distance between the two sides. Naturally, it's good for your interview, but don't let people know that it's deliberate flattery and flattery, so as not to make people tired. Instead, be realistic and let it be. "Qiu Tong nodded: "yes!"
I went on to say: "secondly, we should give a comprehensive and incisive analysis of the examiner's questions in careful language. When answering complex questions, we must first extract the main points, and then explain them in different levels, which can give people a clear and logical impression.
"Cloud, you should remember that when talking about your special skills, you should use more popular language and less professional terms, so as to avoid giving people a sense of inexplicability. On the contrary, for the major you are going to be engaged in, you should appropriately use some very accurate professional terms when answering, which can hint that you are more knowledgeable.
"This is the advantage that you can't do in other newspapers all the time In addition, cloud, when analyzing problems, you can appropriately quote some famous sayings, allusions and idioms to enhance your eloquence and make people feel that you are a woman with literary accomplishment and profound knowledge. "
The cloud nodded, "well..."
I then said, "cloud, you should also pay attention to that the interview is a kind of passive conversation. The interviewer may ask all kinds of tricky and difficult questions to understand your thinking level, moral cultivation and coordination ability. This requires you to give full play to women's strong points and give appropriate answers with specific meticulous psychology, calm attitude and rational language. "
"Brother, what aspects should we pay attention to in answering questions?" The cloud asked me again.
After thinking about it, I said, "remember the eight words: Transform emptiness into reality, suppress first and then promote."
"Why?" Haifeng looks at me.
I said: "in the interview, the examiner will often ask some more empty questions. If the candidates use empty to empty, they will feel that it is impossible or irrelevant to answer, and the judges will be confused. Therefore, we must turn empty into real. In addition, there is usually a question in the interview questions that allows the judges to understand the characteristics and quality of the interviewers. Smart interviewers will seize the opportunity to answer this kind of questions, make full use of language art, and cleverly publicize themselves. The most praiseworthy way to answer such questions is to use the technique of restraining first and then raising
While eating hot pot, we kept instilling interview skills and precautions into Yunduo. Yunduo listened attentively.
Qiu Tong finally told cloud: "cloud, in a word, in the face of the interviewer's questions, you must use the tactful strategy, first of all, you must understand the examiner's intention, so that you can accurately grasp the direction of the reply. Secondly, we should have a clear attitude. Once again, state your mind and explain the reason for your answer. "
The cloud nodded deeply.
"How's it going? Are you confident? " Qiutong looks at the clouds with a smile.
"After you have said so much, I am much more confident!" The cloud said with a smile: "I didn't have the bottom of my heart before. Fortunately, you all helped me..."
Qiu Tong laughed: "that's good. On the day of your interview, we will form a group of relatives and friends to help you!"
I said, "OK, I'll ask for leave then."
Haifeng looked at me: "I wipe, you said I just remember, you are still a student Ah, it's getting worse and worse. I'm going back to school. "
Everybody laughed.
Although I was smiling, I suddenly felt a little empty in my heart. I suddenly thought of the second place candidate in the written examination, Qin Lu and Guan Yunfei
At the same time, I'm really worried about Yunduo's interview and short-term quick training. I don't know how much effect it will have on her. After all, she is still young. She hasn't seen big scenes and experienced few occasions. I'm very worried about her abnormal performance of stage fright.
Look at Qiu Tong's eyes, she is looking at the clouds, seems to be worried about this problem.
On the third day, cloud began to interview. Haifeng drove me and Haizhu Qiutong to the outside of the examination room and watched the clouds enter the examination room.
In order to help the clouds, I asked Qin Lu for half a day off.
Qin Lu didn't ask me why I asked for leave. She just looked at me with unpredictable eyes. She couldn't figure out what she was thinking.
We all sit in the car, quietly waiting for the end of cloud interview, waiting for the results of cloud interview, waiting for the good news of cloud.
I sat in the co pilot's seat, Haizhu and Qiutong in the back.
In order to ease everyone's tension, Haifeng turns on the music in the car, "Argentina, don't cry for me". The familiar music flows slowly in the car
My heart can't help trembling. This is the song I used to listen to while chatting in the quiet night with floating life like a dream. This is floating life like a dream's favorite song.
I can't help thinking of the deep-rooted and lingering past in the virtual world. I can't help looking at Qiutong in the rearview mirror.
Qiutong didn't look at me. He looked down and thought about something.
It seems that there is Haizhu, she dare not look at me at this time.
I look out of the window with a wandering and confused mood
Why my eyes are full of melancholy, because I can't forget the virtual world, those tender and sunny nights
My eyes were a little dazed, and my heart began to taste bitter again.Suddenly, two familiar figures came into my eyes. One is the Secretary of the municipal Party committee, and the other is Guan Yunfei.
Accompanied by Guan Yunfei, the Secretary of the municipal Party committee walked into the examination room jokingly.
My heart tightened, margobi. It's a good time for them to come.
Is it true that I am not lucky enough to guess that Guan Yunfei is going to meet Qin Lu's request? Is that what happened in my interview going to happen again?
I couldn't help but raise my heart.
I'm starting to have egg pain again. It's more severe this time.