I thought about it and said, "women need to endure loneliness in order to keep prosperous. What women compare is not only beauty and youth. Sometimes, experience and wisdom are more important. For men, a woman with experience and wisdom is like a famous painting that has changed from generation to generation. Although it is broken, it is more valuable, unique and impossible to regenerate. There are many beautiful young girls without brains, just like Coca Cola on the container. It doesn't matter whether you drink it or not. "
Qin Lu looked at me. In the night, her eyes were very bright.
I also said: "women who know how to live are active and enterprising, and they know their destiny. They are strong when they are suffering, cautious when they are happy, contented and aware of their inadequacies, and they do something or not. Happiness comes naturally from such impartiality. When a woman finds her own love, her own role, her own position, her beauty is irresistible.
"Rough love years carve an elegant and beautiful woman, such as the sunshine in the afternoon of winter, the new green in front of the window of mid spring, and the romantic woman. It is destined to precipitate love. Calm love is the longest, and true love is the most calm."
At this point, my eyes emerged out of the floating life like a dream, emerged out of the autumn Tung.
At this time, how I want Qiutong to be here with me.
At this time, I don't know what Qiutong is doing in Xinghai.
I suddenly want to call Qiutong, but it seems unrealistic at the moment.
After listening to me, Qin Lu nodded: "it seems that you are just saying this to single women like me. It's very targeted..."
I said: "feel at will, no targeted!"
Qin Lu looked at me and suddenly laughed: "Yi Ke, why do men like extramarital affairs? In other words, why do men think other people's wives are good? "
My heart jumped and said, "I don't understand these questions. I don't think other people's wives are good."
Qin Lu said with a smile: "sooner or later you will know, sooner or later you will understand."
I was a little curious: "do you know why?"
Qin Lu said, "it seems that I know more than you do."
"Say -" I said.
Qin Lu said: "I remember that a foreign female friend once played in China for a few days, then suddenly said to me: I finally know why Chinese men like extramarital affairs. At that time, I thought she had developed some shocking theories. I couldn't wait to ask her why. She replied: because Chinese women like to wear pajamas on the street!
"I suddenly feel like a ball of vent. Why is it a big deal? It's not surprising that women in pajamas are everywhere in China. But for her, she is very puzzled. Pajamas can only be worn at home. How can she wear them out? Although this topic is not worth discussing, it really reflects a big shortcoming of Chinese women - they no longer pay attention to appearance and image after marriage. "
"What does it have to do with a man's love affair?" I said.
Qin Lu said: "men are visual animals. No matter how talented and kind a woman is, men's favor only comes from her appearance and figure. From dressing up carefully every day before marriage to the bad habit of not washing your face when you don't go out after marriage, buying soy sauce and being lazy to change your pajamas, dealing with pots and pans and children's eating and drinking all day long As a result, in the eyes of men, life is not a little angry and exciting
Don't you think that's how I live? Marriage is a pot and pot of oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea. It seems that the love in marriage is not exciting, right
Here, I can't help thinking of Haizhu. We haven't been married yet, but I vaguely feel that something terrible is slowly growing
My heart shivered at the thought.
I think of Qiutong again. If she and I can reach the level of Haizhu, what will happen between us?
In the heart suddenly some sorrows, felt oneself is thinking a distant dream.
Qin Lu continued: "now let's talk about the difference between Chinese women and foreign women. Before the age of 20, Chinese women have always been pure and innocent, while foreign women have started their journey of sexy route. They are often graceful, with heavy makeup, as intoxicating as a glass of red wine in the middle of the night.
"At the age of 25-30, Chinese women begin to understand what femininity is, and they begin to dress up sexy and fashionable. At this time, foreign women begin to age, and the sequelae of perennial cosmetic stimulation and plastic surgery make them rapidly aging. From 35 to 40 years old, the situation is different. Chinese women don't pay attention to their image, make-up, haircut or buy clothes. Apart from going to work, they just focus on their children.
"But foreign women have become more feminine. They pay more attention to dress up, care more about maintenance, and are more elegant. What time gives them is not frost, but a sublimation understanding of life. In foreign countries, we often see a fashionable old lady in her 50s sitting in a coffee shop drinking coffee. So the pain of three years and the itch of seven years in China do not exist in foreign countries. "
I felt that Qin Lu had something to say, so I couldn't help nodding: "your research is really thorough I admire it. "Qin Lu laughed: "from the above comparison, we can see that men's eyes are paying attention to other people's wives. The big reason is that women themselves. When a man sees someone else's wife, she is naturally bright and pays attention to dressing. He will never see her dishevelled and dirty, wearing slippers and pajamas to make soy sauce. "
I said, "in fact, it's just a matter of looking forward and looking into the future. What he sees is the wife of others with advantages. In her husband's opinion, she also has many disadvantages. Many marriages have no regrets. What's missing is that he doesn't have the attitude and eyes to appreciate marriage. For his wife, he has to discover her beauty and enlarge her beauty. Isn't it said that life doesn't lack beauty, what it lacks is discovery. Therefore, I think that women should give themselves more time to enjoy life, while men should have more eyes to find the glory of the person they once loved deeply. Only in this way can a marriage be without regrets. "
After listening to me, Qin Lu was silent for a long time and said, "Yi Ke, you are really a good man A woman who can be your wife is really happy. "
I said, "I'm flattered. I'm just a man who can't be more ordinary."
Qin Lu said half jokingly: "Alas, it's a pity that I'm late to meet you..."
I laughed.
Qin Lu then said to herself, "in fact, it's not too late Revolution comes sooner or later... "
"What did you say?" I asked Qin Lu.
Qin Lu looked at me and said with a smile: "I didn't say anything. I said, "revolution comes sooner or later."
I shook my head and looked back. It seemed that I saw a black shadow flash. I looked at it intently, but it was gone.
A subtropical wind blowing, around the plantain forest issued a rustling sound.
I said to Qin Lu, "it's late. I've been running all day. You can go back and have a rest. I want to visit my friends who were young."
Qin Lu said, "Oh You're going to kick me out
I said: "it's not to drive you away, it's for the sake of the leader's health!"
Qin Lu said, "I don't care for you."
I said: "if you don't take it, I can't help it But I do have to go out on business. "
Qin Lu looked at me for a long time and said with a smile, "OK, the leader will help you!"
I was relieved.
Qin Lu was about to leave and said, "Hey, comrade Yike, do you think people will think we are lovers when they see us together like this?"
My heart jumped and said, "obviously not! At first glance, we are classmates, revolutionary cadres and ordinary friends! "
"Why?" Qin Lu said.
"Because we're all very disciplined!" I said.
"Oh So it looks like this, doesn't it? " Qin Lu suddenly took my arm and looked at me with a smile.
I quickly stepped back, took out my arm, said with a smile: "this is acting, not like it."
I kept reminding myself in my mind, damn, it's very likely that this is Lao Guan's woman. I can't be bothered. If something happens, I'll die.
Of course, even if she's not Lao Guan's woman, I don't want to mess with her. The women around me have given me enough headaches. I really don't want to provoke women.
At this time, I roughly concluded that although Qin Lu was single, she was most likely a married woman.
Married women and unmarried women seem to be different. As for what's the difference, I can't say.
Qin Lu gave me a smile and turned back.
Seeing Qin Lu go far away, I looked around again. It was very quiet. The plantain forest was dark and I couldn't see anything.
I seem to feel that there is a pair of eyes looking at me, feel a little uncomfortable, turn around and go straight to the old city, straight to Dongzhi lane.
It's strange that Haizhu didn't call to check the post today.
Recently, Haizhu has been very diligent in checking posts. Several times a day, he is used to being checked. On the contrary, he is not used to it.
I can't help but make myself a little cheap.
Walking through the rambling alleys of the old city, it seems that someone is following me, but I can't see anything when I look back several times.
I can't help feeling a little flustered. I walk a few steps quickly, then turn into an alley intersection, quickly stick my body close to a door, and keep an eye on the alley.
After a while, there was a gentle sound of footsteps.
For a moment, in the dark, a figure appeared, looking around the alley
Although it is in the night, but I still vaguely see this person, although some psychological preparation, but there are still some accidents, the body can not help slightly moving.
He seems to keep the vigilance of telling, the slight movement still disturbed him, and he suddenly ran back.
Without hesitation, I rushed out to catch up.
His figure is very flexible, running speed is not slow, I could not catch up with him.
Through several alleys, he suddenly went into another one, which was not the one he came from.I can't help but be glad that this alley is a circular one. He keeps on running and finally has to come back here.
This is the advantage of good location.
So I found a hidden place to stay.
Sure enough, after a while, a rush of footsteps came from the other direction -
when I was approaching, I suddenly stretched out my leg -
"ouch -" and his body fell forward.
Then I stretched out my arm, grabbed his back heart, pulled him, then grabbed his arm, a backhand, pressed him to the ground, and then lifted his chin -
with one hand