Chapter 1317

So far, there is no follow-up.

As I expected, a Lai finally went to the golden triangle. He went anyway.

I understand that Li Shun will arrange for people to follow Alai.

That is today, Guan Yunfei left Xinghai and went to the provincial capital to start his half year study career.

Half a year seems to be very short, but it seems to be very long. I don't know how many earth shaking events will happen during this period, and I don't know what will happen to Guan Yunfei's fate after this study.

After Guan Yun flies away, I nod.

"There's another way, masturbation!" Qiu Tong said again.

"Masturbation? Do you want to shoot yourself I said.

Qiu Tong's face turned red and said angrily, "bad guy, I want to skew you! What kind of pistol Where do you want to go? What a whore

I laughed: "not a pistol, but a plane?"

"You are bad - I won't tell you!" Qiutong's face is more red.

I was busy begging for mercy. It took a long time for Qiutong to go on.

"When I say masturbation, I want to be open-minded, find a reasonable explanation for myself and justify myself. Although it is a way of spiritual victory to say sour grapes without eating grapes, it is better than chagrin and depression. There are also many things. From another point of view, it is not difficult to find the positive factors. It is the so-called blessing in disguise, knowing that it is not a blessing in disguise, losing the East couple and reaping the fruit. However, masturbation is always self deceptive and often hinders social adaptation. "

"Oh..." I nodded: "what else?"

"There is also the method of catharsis," Qiu Tong said. "In a foreign factory, working in a house, he angrily punches, kicks and yells at the rubber boss It's not madness, it's not acting, it's catharsis, which is quite popular nowadays. Catharsis is helpful to regulate the function of cerebral cortex, and has a high cure rate for psychological disorder, depression, resistance and psychological destruction. You can yell at the right place, cry a lot, or lose your temper properly. You can vent your depression and get rid of the bad mood. Of course, the venting should be moderate, which can make the acceptance as the premise

"Well, it seems that I'll beat you up when I'm depressed!" I said.

"Puff -" Qiu Tong laughed: "You Dare -"

I laughed: "I dare not in action, but I can think about it in my heart."

"It's up to you You want to hit me in your heart, and I still want to hit you in my heart! " Qiu Tong waved a little pink fist at me.

I took her little fist and said, "why, do you have to do it?"

Qiu Tong looked at the door and said in a low voice, "you are crazy, let go --"

I let go with a smile. Qiu Tong glared at me with a red face, and then went on talking.

"There is also a good way to pour out your anger and sadness. You can pour out your anger and sadness to your relatives, friends or even strangers. I believe that the other party will give you good advice in time after understanding your state of mind at this time. You can also use words to express your depression by keeping a diary or writing. After spitting it out, you can get rid of your anger and get out as soon as possible Psychological dilemma. "

Looking at Qiutong, I suddenly wondered if I often used this method. The person I talked to used to be a dreamer, but later it was Qiutong.

Thinking like this, I can't help feeling warm.

"Then there is sublimation. It is really valuable to guide the energy aroused by negative psychology to the beneficial aspects of society and society. For example, after Sima Qian was punished in the palace and wrote historical records, Madame Curie worked hard to restrain herself and her grief after her husband was in a car accident, and completed the extraction of radium. This is closely related to one's self-cultivation and consciousness, and more importantly, it needs a heart to work hard. " Qiu Tong finally said.

"I don't want to use this method until I have to." I said.

"Why?" Qiu Tong said.

"Because I don't want to encounter disaster and tribulation! I don't want to turn grief into strength! " I said.

Qiu Tong nodded: "no one wants to, but sometimes they can't help themselves."

Looking at Qiutong's quiet and beautiful face, my heart can't help rising and falling

Yes, no one wants to encounter hardships, but the reality may not be able to achieve.

From Qiutong's office, I went directly to the economic management office and to Su Dingguo's office.

I haven't come to see him for a long time. Let's see how he and Dajian are doing.

Brother Dajian is not here. This guy may have gone there to play again.

The child is stubborn, but he can't change it.

I think he's a bit of a broken pot now. He seems to be disheartened about his future. The arrival of sun dongkai has not changed his political destiny. He seems to be hopeless and disappointed with sun dongkai.

Su Dingguo saw me smile: "Mr. Yi, brother Yi, you are a rare guest! Welcome Mr. Yi to the economic management office for guidance

I said: "Director Su dare not say that. How dare I direct my brother's work? You're almost listening to me, manSu Dingguo asked me to sit down with a smile.

"Why do you have time to see me?" Su Dingguo said.

"I've wanted to see you for a long time, but I haven't got time!" I said.

"Ha ha, I'm afraid I don't have to go to the three treasures hall today." Su Dingguo said.

"Hey, hey It's a little thing! " I said.

"What's the matter? Please give me directions! " Su Dingguo joked.

"I don't deserve the instructions. I'll report it to you!" I said.

"Ha ha, brother, I don't dare to report! Maybe one day I'll report it to my brother. "

Su Dingguo said with a smile, obviously there was something in his words.