"After all these years, where is qinger's elder sister? How is she doing? " Nini continued to murmur, her eyes full of incomparable missing.

Jiang Feng gently lowered his head and sighed, full of incomparable melancholy and concern.

Liu Yue gently pursed her lips. The corners of her eyes were a little bright and seemed to be a little damp

I clench my teeth tightly, and an indescribable tangle is surging in my heart. I know where qinger's elder sister is, but I can't tell them. What a paradox.

Think of a sentence Xu Qing said: love a person, not necessarily forever together. There are many ways of love, not necessarily have is happiness, some love, only suitable for deep hidden in the heart, say it is wrong, some people only suitable for looking at far away, passed, will lose, he already has a more suitable belonging, then, don't entangle, love to love to put in, put it simply.

Looking at Jiang Feng and Liu yuenini at the moment, I think of the touching past between them. Thinking of Qing'er, who lives alone in Canada across the ocean, my nose suddenly gets sour

My eyes are a little wet

I felt an inexplicable sadness and sadness.

If you are sad, try to look up at the sky, and forget

The sky is so big that it can contain all your sadness.

So I tried to look up at the sky and the deep night sky

Looking at it, there are tears in the corner of my eyes

That night, I drank a lot with Jiang fengliuyue.

That night, I talked a lot with Jiang Fengliu Yue.

That night, I seemed to feel that I hadn't had such an open-ended drink for a long time, and I didn't feel so relaxed

That night, I was drunk, I was really drunk.

This kind of drunkenness is quite different from that in Xie Fei's home.

At this time, I still don't know if I got drunk by long island ice tea at Xie Fei's home that night and did it to my elder martial sister.

It seems to be a mystery.

It doesn't seem like a mystery.

If it's a mystery, it will make me feel confused and painstaking, and I will feel at ease.

If it's not a mystery, it'll make me scared, and eventually it'll hurt.

I don't want any more egg pain.

Listen to the doctor, always egg pain is not a good thing.

In fact, even if the doctor doesn't say it, I know it's not a good thing to have egg pain all the time.

In fact, needless to say, I know there are two kinds of egg pain, physical and psychological.

In fact, the physical egg pain is far less terrible than the psychological one.

In fact, I would rather have egg pain physically than psychologically.

Actually

In fact, it's too much. It's so painful

With a touch of melancholy and melancholy, I feel free to indulge in this moonlit night which was erased by typhoon and rebuilt by liuyuejiang peak.

In addition to Nini, Jiang fengliuyue is also quite drunk. It seems that they are drunk because of my arrival.

In this quiet seaside, in this whirling moonlit night, in this midsummer night of Jiangyue village, which belongs to Jiangfeng and Liuyue, Jiangfeng and Liuyue talk freely and happily

"Brother, I'm very happy tonight because of your coming." Jiang Feng patted me on the shoulder, a bit drunk in his voice.

"I'm also very happy to see brother Jiang and sister Liu and Nini..." I said.

"Unfortunately Sister Qiutong didn't come with you Otherwise, everyone will be happier. " Liu Yue said.

"Yes, sister Qiutong is a beautiful woman. It's a pity that she will come." Nini said.

"Nini, you should be aunt Qiutong..." Jiang Feng said with a smile.

"Hee hee At most, it's called little Auntie or big sister... " Nini said, "little dad, I used to call you big brother when I was a child."

"Ha ha..." Everyone laughed. Jiang Feng then said with emotion, "time flies. Nini is so old Time flies... "

"Yes, time flies How many people and things are in the past. Looking back, we find that we are getting old. " Liu Yue is also quite emotional.

"Mom, little dad, you are still young. In my eyes, you have never been old." Nini said.

"Ha ha With you as a reference, we're all getting older, no doubt Jiang Feng said: "ah, how much time has passed, how much pain and laughter have become memories. Now, whether it's pain or happiness, it's a precious treasure."

"Why can a little fortune be a little fortune, a little pain?" Nini said.

Jiang Feng didn't immediately answer Nini's words. He looked up at the night sky and was silent. It seems that he fell into the memories of the past

Liu Yue looked at Jiang Feng quietly, and did not speak.

Nini, look at me.

At this time, I said: "in life, perhaps pain and joy are always accompanied No pain, no joy. "Nini frowned slightly, thinking.

Liu Yue looked at Nini with loving eyes and said in a soft voice, "Nini, you should remember that in one's life, everyone has been bathed in happiness and happiness, but also experienced frustrations and setbacks. When we are happy, we always feel that time is short; when we are sad, we complain that time passes like a year. Happiness and pain are twins, God is fair, pain is often accompanied by happiness.

"If you can enjoy happiness, you should also learn to enjoy pain. Enjoying happiness will increase your sense of achievement, while enjoying pain will improve your self-confidence and endurance. Is your heart trembling in a painful prison? When you are in the abyss of despair, do you insist? It depends on whether you have firm belief and willpower.

"When we are faced with frustrations and setbacks, we should not be pessimistic and disappointed, not sigh, not stagnate, and take it as an experience in life. Take it as a normal in the growth of your life, which will help you better write your own wonderful life. "

Nini nodded: "well Mom, I remember. "

Jiang Feng then took a long breath and said, "Nini, what my mother just said is quite right. There must be ups and downs in life! Frustration is the forerunner of success. Fear of frustration is more valuable than longing for success. A blessing in disguise? When encountering setbacks, don't be afraid or disgusted. In a way, setbacks are a good thing for us to experience our will.

"Only setbacks and difficulties can make a person strong and lose the enemy. Frustration is enough to ignite a person's enthusiasm, awaken a person's potential, and make him achieve success. People with ability and backbone can turn disappointment into motivation and turn the gravel of troubles into pearls like clams

How can we see rainbow without wind and rain? A life without failure is not a perfect life. When you overcome failure, you will have a deeper understanding of success. It is in such a feeling that you walk out of a perfect life

"People who have made real achievements have made brilliant achievements only after experiencing failures and setbacks. Life is not easy to give up, long life, no one can be plain sailing, no one is bound to experience setbacks and frustrations. People who have been frustrated and experienced are always more tenacious, more mature and more brave, and we can see the near success, that is, we are closer to success.

"Suffering setbacks can not only make life accumulate experience, but also make life get continuous sublimation. So we should face up to setbacks and cherish life. Those who have not tasted setbacks do not experience the joy of success; those who have not experienced setbacks are not perfect

"Life is one's own, the future is one's own, and happiness is one's own. We should cherish life! Frustration has both advantages and disadvantages. It can make people progress and accumulate experience. At the same time, it can also make people fall into the abyss. We should treat it with a correct attitude. We should have a correct understanding of the objectivity and superiority of setbacks, turn setbacks into strength, overcome setbacks and frustrations in life, and devote our precious life to making contributions to society. "

Nini looked at Jiang Feng and nodded her head carefully.

Jiang Feng's words make me think deeply. Yes, in life, happiness brings us pleasure, and pain brings us aftertaste. In a person's life, it is hard for us to remember the true happiness, but the pain is often hard to forget. Since pain is inevitable and we can't resist it, why don't we learn to face it with a smile? Time will tell the past, pain can say goodbye to memories.

Quiet life and peace of mind is a kind of extreme simple beauty. If we add enjoyment to this kind of beauty, it will be more beautiful. Learn to accept, learn to endure, learn to enjoy, learn to tolerate, learn to love, learn to cherish, maybe, this will make your life more glorious

Nini then said, "little dad, mom, I understand what you just said I know that I still have many shortcomings I will abandon my efforts and be a perfect person. "

Liu Yue smiles and says, "Nini, I don't expect you to be a perfect person, and you can't do it. Just as there is no perfect thing in the world, there has never been a perfect person in the world."

Jiang Feng took Liu Yue's words: "yes, there are some small shortcomings in life. It is true that they are precious."

Nini seemed puzzled and looked at them: "why?"

Jiang Feng looked at Liu Yue and Liu Yue looked at me and said, "Xiaoyi, I think maybe you can give Nini an appropriate answer to this question."

Nini, look at me.

I thought about it and said, "maybe it should be When we accept the good part of a thing, we should also accept the bad part. If there are no shortcomings, it will not show the beauty. Therefore, the beauty with shortcomings is more real. It is precisely because of the small shortcomings that things appear vivid and not false. For example, people want to get happiness but not worry. But if we don't have worry, we don't know what happiness should be like. Therefore, the greater the pain we bear, the greater the happiness we get after overcoming the difficulties. Similarly, without happiness, we also don't know what pain is like. "

"Oh..." Nini nodded gently.Jiang Feng said: "yes, in our life, there are always some disappointments, and some are irreversible. We know that we can't get rid of these things. If we are still worried about them, it will be more painful. "

Life is like a salty, sour, tasteless, sweet and tasteless bottle. If it's just sugar, life will be too monotonous. "

"I've learned that life is as boring as an explorer going to the zoo to see a tiger in a cage," Nini said

Liu Yue nodded: "yes, my dear daughter, you understand very well. The real happiness of life is not to let us risk the risk of lifelong regret and deliberately eliminate the trivial shortcomings of ourselves or others, but to make us grasp the real sincerity in our daily life. Learn to be tolerant and cherish. Then we can feel real happiness from the chord of each other's hearts. "

Jiang Feng continued: "therefore, Nini, you should learn to be kind to the shortcomings in life, look at yourself with tolerance, and face life with an open-minded smile. In this way, you will be accompanied by joy and happiness. Small faults are beautiful

Liu Yue and Jiang Feng take advantage of this opportunity to teach Nini a life lesson. While I listen in, I also benefit a lot.

That night, we drank a lot and talked a lot.

That night, I lived in Liuyue's house in Jiangfeng.