Chapter 1530

Summer rain is very smooth, just go before the night I do not know whether calm and quiet.

"Well If you two come to see me off, I'll be at ease. " Summer said.

"When are you going back?" I asked summer.

"You're going back tomorrow, aren't you?" Summer said.

"Yes." I nodded: "Xinghai airport fog, flight delay, changed to tomorrow."

"I may go back the day after tomorrow There's something else to deal with here I'll take you to the airport tomorrow. " Summer said.

"You're welcome. Let's just take a taxi. You'd better be busy with your business." Qiu Tong said.

"How can that be? You can come all the way to see my sister off. How can I not see you off? " Summer said, "that's settled. I'll take you to the airport tomorrow."

Since summer says so, autumn Tong and I also don't insist.

Everybody keep drinking.

Drink a few glasses of wine, summer slightly drunk, looking at me and Qiutong, eyes a little confused.

I said, "man, are you drinking too much?"

Summer said: "no, it's rare to have a chance to drink alone with you two. It's rare for us to have such a space to chat together. How can we drink too much and drink too little when we meet our confidants..."

Qiutong smiles, so do I.

"How is Haizhu recently?" Summer suddenly asked me.

"Not bad." I said.

"Listen to Xia Yu, Haizhu has done a good job in ningzhou, and has opened hotels and travel agencies It's a pity that we can't find a suitable partner with Haizhu group so soon. " Summer said with some regret.

I did not speak, lit a cigarette, slowly smoking.

"Brother and Haizhu are getting married soon, aren't they?" Summer said.

"Well I'll get married at the end of the year. " I said.

"Well, congratulations. I'll try to attend your wedding with Haizhu and have a good drink." Summer said: "ah, my brother and Haizhu are really talented and beautiful. They match each other best. They are a natural couple Mr. Qiu, do you think so? "

"Yes." Qiu Tong nodded.

My heart suddenly a little dull.

"The marriage between brother Yi and sister Haizhu is a model of love for the young people around us. It's a perfect match." Summer said.

"Ha ha..." I laughed and looked at the summer: "man, when will your personal problems be solved?"

"I..." Summer laughed, looked at autumn Tung, then said: "ha ha, I'm not urgent, not urgent."

"You are not in a hurry, but the old man will be." I said.

"Love depends on fate. When it comes to fate, it comes naturally." Summer said, and looked at autumn Tung.

Autumn Tung bowed his head to eat, no answer.

"Man, what do you understand about love?" I asked summer.

"I understand love." Summer pondered for a while, and then said: "once, I thought that love can not consider anything, as long as you have love, I can intentionally, but now, I seem to think that love can not be divorced from reality, love should be considered in reality."

"How do you say that?" Qiutong looks up at summer.

I look at summer, too.

Summer took a deep breath, shook his head and said: "almost everyone is longing for love. I don't know if other people really understand what love is. I used to ask myself this question for a long time, and I didn't really realize it until recently."

"Tell me." I'm interested. Look at Qiu Tong, she seems to be interested.

In summer, when we looked at our manner, we were interested in talking and said, "in fact, I think love, in essence, is a trade. It's a trade for each to get what he needs."

In the summer after drinking, it seems to tell the truth.

Qiutong and I looked at the summer, waiting for him to continue.

"We know that it is only during estrus that animals pursue the opposite sex intensely. After mating, some species go their separate ways, leaving the female to bear the responsibility of childbearing alone; some species continue to cultivate the next generation together. Is this sexual behavior in the animal world love? I don't think anyone will deny that parents love their children in the animal world, so we should have the same reason to admit that the behavior between men and women in the animal world is also love - instinctive love for the sake of breeding and generation. " Summer said.

Qiu Tong and I nodded.

"Human beings evolved from animals have such a stage of matriarchal society in their development. At that stage, the relationship between the sexes may not be the only fixed one. After the seeds are sown, men may not be able to trace. Therefore, at that time, the ethnic group was composed of the basic unit of mother with children, and men at that time may be women's public playthings To provide seeds for the whole community, to capture food, to protect security and so on. The emergence of matrilineal society proves that the love between men and women is also the instinctive love for inheriting Summer continues."Er..." I can't help nodding. I think summer is far-reaching. It's matriarchal society.

"With the development of human society, men's ability to obtain food, attack and defend is stronger and stronger than women's, and the difference between men is also bigger and bigger. The strongest man in men is defeating other men to become the king, enslaves other men, and takes many women he loves as his own. This kind of love is not only for the sake of breeding and generation Besides, it should increase the purpose of the fish and water fun This is a slave society. "

In summer, he took a drink of water from his glass, and then continued to say, "if we move forward into feudal society, the relationship between the sexes in feudal society is not very different from that in slave society. Similarly, powerful men can enjoy many women alone, and the purpose of playing is even greater than having children, such as XiMenqing At this time, women were in a weak and dominant position just like the slave society. "

"Well..." Qiutong listened to the words of summer carefully, nodded and looked at me.

"The wheel of the times has turned into the modern society, and social civilization has made great progress. The biggest progress in the relationship between the two sexes is that monogamy has been stipulated by law. Moreover, women's ability to compare with men has obviously rebounded. It is undeniable that there are certain weaknesses in some biological attributes, but they are basically the same as men in some social attributes When it can even surpass Men, such as financial ability. "

Summer continued: "from the sexual relations in various stages of the development of animals and human society, it can be concluded that the purpose of human sexual love is firstly biological instinct behavior, that is, sex for breeding and generation; secondly, sex for fish and water, which is human's unique natural attribute as a unique higher animal; and then, sex for social attribute Interests, such as seeking a better life, a sense of security, integration of resources, and so on. "

"According to you, then, why is love between the two sexes born?" I said.

"Born for purpose!" Summer said.

"Purpose?" I said.

"Yes." Summer nodded: "love between men and women is born for their purposes. Without these purposes, there would be no love. Why does one fall in love with only one or a few of the opposite sex? But they can bear the purpose of her love. For example, a 20-year-old handsome guy may usually fall in love with an 18-year-old beautiful girl rather than an 81 year old woman. That's the truth. "

Qiutong and I couldn't help laughing.

"Love is a way to achieve the above purpose. This method is to pay for the harvest. What we hope to get is part or all of the various purposes, and what we pay is what the other party regards as the purpose. That is to say, both sides of love get what they need, and in order to get what they want, they must pay what the other side regards as the goal as the cost.

"In essence, this is a kind of transaction, which deals with such things as childbirth, body, emotion, material and so on. Moreover, this kind of transaction can produce happiness and happiness that do not exist in the transaction. It is generally believed that this kind of transaction should contain emotion, and emotion is often a very important parameter to judge whether to carry out the transaction, but it is true that there are some such transactions that do not have much emotion as the basis. "

Qiutong and I both looked at summer thoughtfully.

Summer looked at me and Qiutong, and then said, "in fact, most of love is a free two-way choice. Relatively speaking, the purpose of men's love is mainly focused on the pleasure of fish and water and fertility instinct, so men require women to be beautiful, gentle, virginal, loyal and fertile.

"The purpose of women's love is to focus on social attributes such as economic ability. Therefore, men are required to have a car, a house, a successful career and a social status From the micro point of view, as long as both sides are willing to choose freely, what kind of purpose each other has is allowed. "

Summer finished, complacent smile, and looked at autumn Tong, eyes and some uncertain.

Summer to see autumn Tong eyes let me feel very uncomfortable, but I can't stop him so.

Autumn Tong smile: "Xia Dong's opinion is very incisive, but also very profound, I seem to have some knowledge."

"No, Mr. Qiu, you must know what I mean." Summer looks at Qiutong with expectant eyes.

Qiu Tong shook his head: "I really know a little Maybe Ike can understand. "

"I know a little, but I'll go back and think about it." I said.

At this time, of course, I can understand what he said in summer, and even feel what he didn't mean.

I believe Qiutong can also understand what she said in summer. Maybe she can feel something.

Qiu Tong and I are both confused.

Listen to me and Qiu Tong say so, summer a little disappointed expression, and then laugh, looking at me: "brother Yi, do you think that as good as Qiu Zong, such as both internal and external talent and appearance of women, what kind of men is most suitable for her?"

I said, "I don't know What do you say? "

Summer said, "this Ha ha Maybe, I don't know However, according to my observation, it seems that among the men I know around me, no one can match the general manager of autumn on the groundIn summer, it is obvious that no man, including me, can match Qiu Tong, but only the men he knows around him, not including himself.

He can not know his own.