Muqiu knows that people don't like to talk when they are sad, and they like to be alone, and they don't need comfort.
Like a person standing at the window looking at the distance in a daze, like a person walking aimlessly, a person crying, a person wiping tears, a person sad, a person sharing.
What's more, people's sight in front of their eyes changes from blurred to clear, and then becomes blurred and repeated.
Will find that, originally, we have been just a person, strong on their own, happy on their own.
"The people around you just meet for a short time. They appear in your life and your sight for a short time. Parents, children, colleagues, friends, lovers, lovers, eventually you will find that you accompany yourself more
"So how to get along with others and how to get along with others are the big problems that everyone has to face in his life."
"There are all kinds of people in the world. It's not easy to get along with people. So what is the highest level of the way to get along with each other? " Mu Qiu asked.
The girl shook her head and said helplessly, "if I knew, I would not be like this."
"First, you should use your brain when you speak, and be careful when you do things. It's useless to talk too much. Your mouth is just a loudspeaker. You must pay attention to the supervision and control of the FM knob and voice control switch at ordinary times, otherwise it will bring you a lot of trouble."
"When you talk, don't just be happy for a moment, but think that people's smiling face is just appreciation. You'll never stop talking out your heart's content. As a result, people will have a thorough understanding of their family. And laughing at you. "
"Second, don't rush to draw a conclusion. Even if you have an answer, you have to wait. Maybe there is a better way to solve the problem. Standing from different angles, you have different answers. You should learn to transpose thinking."
"Especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait and lean. Many times, not only the trouble is solved, but also the good luck is coming."
"Third, we must be patient with villains, step back and be broad-minded. We really can't give them our own space, so that they can be intoxicated like singing and dancing."
"Fourth: there is no unexplained love or hatred in this world. Don't comment on anyone, just be aware of it."
"The truth of the so-called" closing the coffin "is very simple, that is, there is too much haste, and no one has any theoretical basis to decide between the good and the bad. In fact, it is a matter of interest."
"Fifth: for those who often make trouble for you or even bully you, if they can bear it, there's no need to have trouble with the rash man all the time."
"Sixth: some people are used to taking advantage of you. They are small and generous. If they have a chance to pit him for a big one and give him a big blood, they will also remember: there is no free lunch in the world, and you can't make any free lunch."
After listing the six ways of communication, Mu Qiu said, "well, the highest level of interpersonal communication I want to talk about is to achieve these six ways. I think you are beginning to understand the real friendship between you and your roommate, too? "
The girl nodded and began to show a rare smile, said: "I understand what I should do, thank you, Dr. mu."
Seeing the girl's smile, Muqiu is very pleased. It seems that her words can help people.
The girl said and left. Muqiu watched the girl from melancholy to happiness in just one hour since she just came in. It was like a lot of relief.