When mentioning him, Tina's hands were clasped together, her eyes were full of panic, she turned to Nianmu, as if she was asking her for help, "I don't know what's going on, I just can't let go, you said me and Amu... he, I’ve only met so many times, why do I always dream of him in my dreams? I used to sleep without dreaming, but now I basically dream, and I don’t know what I should do..." She said helplessly Said, "Professor Nian, I know he won't come back, so I want to forget him, but the more I want to forget, he will appear in my dreams more frequently, do you know that feeling? I think his face will slowly fade in my consciousness after not seeing him for a while
Go, but in the end I found that there was nothing like him in my consciousness... and it was still deepening in my dream. What do you think I can do? "
Nianmu sighed, what Tina experienced, she also experienced.
In the three years when she was tied to the terrorist island, Mu Shaoling's face never faded from her consciousness, because every night she dreamed, she dreamed of him.
The occasional dream is sweet and makes her feel lucky, but most of the time, she bids farewell to Mu Shaoling in various ways...
This feeling of being controlled by dreams is very uncomfortable.
People can't control dreams, but dreams can control people's subconscious mind in sleep, and constantly deepen a certain person or a certain thing in the brain.
Tina is like this now, she wants to dilute a person by not seeing or listening, but in her subconscious, she is unwilling to do so, so she often dreams about Amul.
It will be very tiring to fight between the subjective consciousness and the subconscious.
"Tina, I think you need a psychiatrist." Nian Mu said.
In those three years, she was almost driven crazy by dreams, but fortunately, she had a belief in her heart and a support around her. There were still many things for her to do and many courses for her to vent, so she was able to survive.
But Tina, she won't be like herself, she has her daughter by her side to support her, and when she is upset, she can still punch her to vent her feelings. She can only paralyze herself through work.
But obviously, the work is not effective now, so she needs more advanced psychological counseling.
This kind of counseling cannot be solved by just talking to someone.
"Professor, I'm too busy with work..." Tina looked away.
She knows that she also needs a psychological counseling, but she also knows about her situation that she does not have absolute trust in people, so seeking a psychiatrist may not be effective.
She might not be able to speak her mind to the doctor. After all, she has always maintained the image of a cold and capable secretary to everyone. "Busy is not an excuse. You still have weekends and psychological counseling twice a month. In fact, it doesn't take up much of your time, Tina,? If you feel that you can't hold on, you can find an exit. Maybe you just started talking to the psychiatrist.
Don't say what's in your heart, but you have to believe that they are professionals, they will guide you a little bit, help you, give them a chance, and give them a chance to let themselves go. " Nian Mu said.
Although she knew that the role of a psychiatrist was limited, she mainly relied on herself.
Like Li Ni, who had been depressed before and saw so many doctors to no avail, but in the end because she confessed her feelings to Song Beixi, the depression was inexplicable.
People have to rely on themselves, and psychotherapy is just a means, even a means with little effect.
The reason why Nianmu recommended Tina to see a psychiatrist was because she was about to fail and needed some professional counseling.
"I..." Tina hesitated to speak.
"Tina, your condition is very bad. If this continues, it will affect my life and work." Nian Mu said, taking care of you is an example.
Although Tina's complexion is good now, she can tell that the other party has lost weight.
During the Chinese New Year, it is the best time to take care of your body, but Tina still lost weight...
It shows that her emotions have affected her body.
"Okay, let me think about it..." Tina felt that she felt a little better when she told Nianmu about her distress.
But she also understood that this kind of comfort was only for a while, and Nianmu did not give her too much explanation, but more of playing the role of a listener.
Unlike others, she would tell her what to do when she was comforting others, but she just gave appropriate advice that she needed a psychiatrist. This kind of chat did not make her mood worse.
"You must get better. No one knows what will happen in the future, but you have to make yourself better." Nian Mu looked at Tina's appearance, his nose was a little sore.
It has something to do with Tina becoming like this.
Mu Shaoling is about to announce the policy of open use of the laboratory to researchers. She is confident that with the company's equipment, she will be able to develop the antidote.
At that time, Amur and Aleer will not be under the control of the poison, and can seize the opportunity to get rid of the terrorist island.
At that time, she doesn't know whether they can continue their fate, but at this moment, Tina cannot fall down.
"Well, I will." Tina looks at Nianmu with melancholy eyes. Although Nianmu looks completely different from Amor, occasionally, she can still see Amor's shadow from Nianmu.
Perhaps, they are half-siblings who have lived together for many years, so she has such an illusion...
"Professor Nian, does he still contact you?" Tina asked.
"No, not during Chinese New Year." Nian Mu shook his head.
Tina showed a faint smile, with a bit of bleakness, "As expected, he is so indifferent to everyone, Professor Nian, I want to ask you a question."
"Tell me." Nian Mu said.
"The sleeping pill you gave works very well, but does it have any side effects?" Tina asked. She felt that her patience had decreased recently, and her temper became more irritable.
She used to advocate that peace is the most important thing, and she would definitely not openly insult people in the office, but today she is different from before, instead she is quick to insult. "Are there any side effects? I used to take it often, but I didn't find any side effects, and a few insomniacs around me also tried it for me, and it didn't work, but it may be that different people have different constitutions, so I can't guarantee it."
Nian Mu said that although she was sure that the medicine had no side effects, she was still a little cautious when facing Tina.
Who would believe that there are no side effects?
But the medicine developed by Asa can subvert the cognition of many people.
"However, I can assure you that the side effects of this drug are much less than those of other sleeping pills on the market." Nian Mu added.
Tina smiled, put the fine hair behind her ears, and said, "Is that so..." "What's the matter? Did you feel unwell after eating?" Nianmu asked concerned, and put his fingers on Tina's. Pulse gate.