Not to mention the physical harm of having children to women.
That is to say, everyone has their own choices. Some like children and are willing to give birth to their own children because of their own likes.
Some people don't like children, not to mention that she has to take the risks she doesn't want to take in order to have children. Isn't it normal for her to make a decision not to have children?
So, for whether a person is willing to have children, shouldn't I think it's better to have children, but do I respect your choice?
This kind of person who defines "no child" as "are you crazy" at the beginning of speaking is obviously a person who doesn't know what mutual respect is.
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen and said calmly, "can I ask you a question?"
If Jiujiu hears his words and is hysterical, Li Chen may have some reactions.
But after hearing his words, Jiujiu was not angry, but very calm to discuss with him. He was at a loss for a moment. Looking at Jiujiu's expression, he was a little more confused.
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen and said, "why do you think that women are crazy if they don't have children? Is it true that women have only such a role in giving birth to children in your eyes?"
Li Chen's expression stagnated, which reflected that his words just now seemed to reveal some bad things.
But his words have been spoken out and can't be changed. He can only say subsidized, "I don't mean that. Don't worry about my careless words."
"But you can't accept a woman without children, can you?"
Jiujiu's question made Li Chen's expression stiff for a moment, but soon, Li Chen nodded and admitted, "yes."
If Jiujiu says she wants to delay her birth for several years, he is absolutely willing to accept it, but she says "DINK" and won't have children in the future, please forgive him for being unable to accept it.
The family education he received from childhood told him that he would marry and have children in the future.
It doesn't matter when the child will come, but if there is absolutely no, it certainly can't.
He can't watch his friends and classmates have their own children, but he will never have children.
Jiujiu quarrels with his mother. He can accept it because he knows that his mother won't be angry with him anyway, but Jiujiu won't come again after she leaves.
Now, he knows that Jiujiu says he wants DINK. As long as he dares to promise, he will never have his own children in the future. Therefore, he will not promise to die.
For Li Chen's answer, Jiujiu was not surprised at all.
It's hard for a person with such a family education to promise you to delay having children. It's more difficult for him to never have Shu Yu's children than to kill him.
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen with a smile, "I can understand your idea, but I still stick to my own idea. I don't like children and don't plan to have children in the future."
Seeing Jiujiu still insisting on Dink, Li Chen couldn't help looking at Jiujiu and asked, "have you ever thought about what it means for you to do this?"
"What does it mean?"
"It means you can't have your own children in the future. Have you ever asked your parents for their opinions?
They both want you to never have your own children?
You are irresponsible to yourself, to your parents, and to you in the future.
Have you ever thought that when you get old, you are sick and lie in the hospital without anyone to take care of you? "
For Li Chen's questions, Jiujiu answered one by one, "my parents respect my choice very much. No matter whether I want to have children or not in the future, they will respect my choice. What if I get old and sick in the future?
I think as long as I have money, these don't need to be considered at all.
Besides, who told you that when you have children, someone will take care of you?
For example, now that my parents are in City C and I am here, I can't take care of them at all unless I have some serious diseases. So, don't you think it's ridiculous at your last point?
Besides, your idea is completely influenced by the old concept of raising children and preventing old age,
In addition, so many practical examples have not let you understand that children do not lie in many, but in whether they have a heart.
As long as he has a heart, a child can take care of everyone. If he doesn't have a heart, even if you have a hundred children, it's useless. "
Jiujiu said, seeing Li Chen's thoughtful expression on his face, he continued, "I'm not sure whether my future child has a heart for me, and I can't bear it. In order to have a child who doesn't know what the future will be like, he has to bear a series of things like stagnant career and deformed body. Therefore, instead of risking those unpredictable risks to have this child, I'd rather he never appeared. Do you know what I mean?"
Jiujiu's words sound very reasonable, so it also makes Li Chen more uncomfortable.
Li Chen couldn't help saying, "you haven't been born yet. How do you know that your child must be bad?"
Jiujiu answered Li Chen's question, "because I don't know whether he will be good in the future, so I choose not to give birth to him.
Because, instead of waiting for me to spend so much time and effort, the child I finally cultivated is an unfilial and bad child. It's better that I haven't had him from the beginning. In this way, I won't be so sad and sad. What do you think? "
Jiujiu's answer once again denied Li Chen's question.
Li Chen's expression suddenly became ugly.
Li Chen looked at Jiujiu's face and couldn't help saying, "this is sophistry."
Jiujiu looked at Li Chen, "how can you prove that what you said is not sophistry?"
Li Chen was asked by Jiu Jiu again and was speechless.
Li Chen licked his dry lips, looked at Jiujiu and said, "it's a natural law to have children. It's not good for you to do so, which is not in line with the rules of human evolution."
"After reading for so many years, haven't you found that rules are used to break.
If our predecessors break the law, we are still living in an era of drinking blood from the skin. You, a highly educated person, don't want to break the law at the first time, but follow the law. If everyone is like you, how can our society continue to progress? "
Jiujiu refuted Li Chen's words again, and Li Chen was speechless again.
Li Chen looked at Jiujiu's face and said after a long silence, "I can see it now. No matter what I say, I can't say anything about you."
Jiujiu smiled. "How do you know you can't tell me, not because the truth is standing here?"
Li Chen once again sipped his dry lips. "Your tongue is as smooth as a spring. I can't say anything about you, but I have to show my attitude. I can't accept or accept your DINK,
Moreover, I think what you think of DINK is that you are seriously irresponsible to yourself and your family. "