Chapter 3141

Hearing Lin Daiyu's words, sun Yingying smiled and answered softly, "Daiyu, Xue Baochai is four years older than you. The problems she thinks, looks at and her environment force her to do a lot, far more than you!

Now the Xue family is between the Lin family and Xiande imperial concubine. The Xue family must make a choice! Whether to accept the advice of the Lin family or the big cake drawn by Xiande imperial concubine? This choice is related to the future life and death of the Xue family.

Xue Baochai will naturally use all available resources and contacts around her to search for more information and make a judgment. If she visits me directly, she will certainly stab Princess Xiande in the eye, but if she visits you, she will have another statement. The two are different! You know you are uncomfortable, but it's understandable for Xue Baochai to think about it 。”

After hearing this, Lin Daiyu immediately understood. From her own point of view, she really felt that sister Baochai was too busy. "Although I understand the difficulties of sister Baochai, is there only a relationship between friends that can be used and used?"

When sun Yingying heard Lin Daiyu's words, he knew that Lin Daiyu and his lofty spirit came out again.

Sun Yingying explained, "in fact, on the other hand, although Xue Baochai came to inquire about the news, she did say something with you and played for a while. It was a visit to you. On the other hand, if you were Xue Baochai, would you do like her?"

Lin Daiyu thought for a moment and nodded, "I will also inquire everywhere. No matter what price I pay, I will try my best to let the family get through this difficulty!"

Hearing Lin Daiyu's answer, sun Yingying smiled, "in that case, don't scold Xue Baochai! The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but it doesn't mean that there is no interest relationship at all! Real friendship is not asking for nothing, but reaching out to help each other when they are in trouble, not falling into a well!

Since you like sister Xue, I also have a good impression of Xue Baochai, so if she came to ask about those things today, if they are ordinary people, I wouldn't say them at all. When you get along with others in the future, no matter who it is, you should first set your own position, don't be happy with things, don't be sad about yourself. "

Sun Yingying felt a little funny when she said this. Now she seems to have pulled Lin Daiyu into the world and become an ordinary person.

However, she didn't think it was such a mistake. She didn't want Lin Daiyu to live in her own thinking. She didn't understand daily necessities, oil and salt, and didn't eat fireworks among people.

After all, they live in the world, so they need to be familiar with the world in order to live calmly and well.

Lin Daiyu thought and nodded, "thank you, mother! I seem to understand something!"

Bai Yixiu walked in from the outside, smiled and asked, "what do you understand?"

Lin Daiyu replied with a smile, "I understand. We should put ourselves in another's shoes and think about things. At the same time, we should keep our original heart and not be affected by the outside world."

Bai Yixiu was quite surprised. "Oh, my good daughter has such a feeling. It's really good!"

Hearing her father's praise, Lin Daiyu blushed. "I can think of a lot of things because of the good education of my mother and father. Now it's funny to think about what I did and said before. It turned out that my mind was so narrow."