Bai Yixiu smiled, but he was not as angry as sun Yingying.
Everything has its advantages and disadvantages. We can't just see the bad side and can't see the good side.
Bai Yixiu advised: "calm down, calm down. Yingying, don't be angry. Anyway, the children will see it for nothing. In fact, I also saw Jin Ping Mei in my early years. The content is indeed fragrant, but from an artistic point of view, from the depiction of human nature and the description of social forms at that time, it plays an extremely important role in our ordinary people's life and work."
As an elder, we should not blame the child blindly, especially what has happened. We should tell him whether it is right or wrong, what we can learn and what lessons we can learn from it.
Sun Yingying raised her eyebrows and guessed that Bai Yixiu wanted to teach her children through this topic, "what does it mean to us ordinary people?"
Bai Jingxuan hasn't seen Jin Ping Mei, but it doesn't hinder his curiosity about the book. He also tilts his head and looks at his grandfather.
Bai Wenli is a student in the Chinese department. Naturally, she has heard of this masterpiece and wants to hear what her stepfather thinks!
Bai Yixiu has several sub molds to make samples, "cough, a little thirsty!"
"Don't you make tea for your father yet?" Sun Yingying urged his son Bai Wenbin to hurry up.
Bai Wenbin nodded and bowed, "wait, I'll pour tea."
Soon Bai Wenbin poured a cup of tea for his father Bai Yixiu and put it on the tea table, "Dad, your favorite Jin Junmei!"
Bai Yixiu drank a few mouthfuls, and then slowly said, "let's not talk about the major aspects of imperial power struggles and social contradictions. If we talk about them, you may not understand them. Let's learn from our childhood.
First of all, let's say that Pan Jinlian and Wu Dalang, who are familiar to us, can divorce if they can't get together. Wu Dalang has a skill in selling spring cakes. Maybe he can find a woman who sells scallion cakes. This is called a door-to-door couple, which is called sanguanhe.
Pan Jinlian boasts that she looks good and can also find a second spring after divorce. Why murder for money? You sell your cakes and I marry my rich and handsome. Everyone is happy. "
Bai Wenli said, "Pan Jinlian married XiMenqing. He said XiMenqing's concubine was a mistress and a junior."
Bai Yixiu nodded, "that's the second reference I want to say for the real society! Women don't improve their ability, but serve others by being concubines for married rich and powerful men. They have no survival skills and can only rely on others.
XiMenqing is also not a good thing. He likes the new and hates the old and hunts for beauty everywhere. If he entrusts such a man for life, he is doomed to come to no good end. Don't get carried away by love, be rational, otherwise he may be involved in human life lawsuits and harm others and himself.
Now the society is open and compatible. As a woman, love is important, but personal ability is very important. My family has three daughters. Your mother and I don't expect you to become pillars, but we hope you have a skill and can support yourself at any time without relying on men. "
Bai Wenfang and Bai Wenli nodded and felt that they made sense.
Girls should be independent and self-improvement. They can't rely on others, let alone be confused because of love, let alone because men give up their career and complete men.
Bai Wenli is a little guilty and a little tired of herself. She is angry with her mother because of her secret love object, empathy and don't love. She is very wrong and will only hurt her relatives.