The aunt said more and more vigorously. The cousin had been wronged and stood in the corner. It was estimated that if the aunt continued, the cousin would have to wipe tears in front of everyone. Shen Dapeng understood at this time. Why did the cousin become as silent as the aunt's father this time.
I thought it was a steady growth, which was the pressure exerted by her family and the failure of the college entrance examination, which made her no longer confident. Especially what my aunt said just now, it really hurt people's self-esteem.
In contrast, what my aunt and father said is more reasonable. For some things, there will be rewards if you don't work hard, and it's not like those "inspirational brothers" who say that perseverance will always succeed.
On the growth path of life, more often than not, I have worked hard and struggled, but I still can't see the road ahead. I taste the failure that can't be failed, the success that can't be successful, the mediocre and ordinary life.
But... Who can say clearly that an ordinary life is mediocre and inaction? Or simple happiness?
"All right, don't say it for the New Year!"
The eldest uncle gave a rare drink, which stunned everyone in the room. People who usually use "um" to express themselves even yell at people, it seems that they are really angry.
"What are you shouting at me? Call what? Don't I think about my daughter's future? Dapeng studies in Beijing, which is a famous Shuimu University in China. All the teachers, classmates and friends he knows must be capable people. If Xinxin University tries hard to take an undergraduate course in three years, he may still go to Beijing for postgraduate entrance examination... "
My aunt's strong temper erupts. She doesn't care whether everyone in the family is here or not. In fact, it's not her fault. My aunt's father has always been honest and needs her to worry about at home and abroad. Being strong is not a problem.
In particular, children are the expectations of their parents in the future. My cousin's college entrance examination is not ideal, and my aunt's disappointment is well deserved. Moreover, what my aunt said is reasonable. It is indeed a way out, but Shen Dapeng himself never thought that he would one day become what his parents call "other people's children"!
"Aunt, stop arguing! Since my cousin has worked hard, she won't feel ashamed of her youth! "
Shen Dapeng doesn't want to reason with his elders. They all have their own life experience. Naturally, they don't look at the world and things the same. He doesn't want to reason with his aunt or with a woman. It's just... Ha ha!
There are thousands of life paths. College entrance examination is only one of them, which is relatively the simplest. There is nothing wrong with choosing any one. My aunt used to be a female worker in a cannery, but now she is also successful in starting a business.
"Look at what Dapeng said. You can't be ashamed of your youth! Xinxin, mom hopes you can say such lofty words and aspirations. Three years is enough for you to take the undergraduate examination.
You chose computer major again. I have asked my old classmates for you. They say it's very easy to find a job in the computer industry. At that time, it's easy to work with a bachelor's degree and take the postgraduate entrance examination while working. As long as you are willing to work hard, you can start with a salary of at least 5000 a month! "
Parents' expectations are always good and the planning is always the best, but it is only their idea, but they have never considered what pressure their children should bear.
Aunt tens of seconds and a few words are enough to arrange the child's five-year time, but how can the child work hard in five years, more than 1800 days and nights? How to fight? In order not to disappoint your family?
"Aunt, don't talk about sister Xinxin. She cried. Your adults are so strict about learning. I don't want to go to school in the future. I'd better have a free holiday. Sister Xinxin and brother Dapeng accompany me to play and have endless snacks."
Although Li Ting was young, there was a ghost in her eyes. After a few words, her aunt was at a loss, unable to cry or laugh, and the atmosphere in the room was relieved.
"Chunfang, the children have their way to go. We can't accompany them all our life."
Grandma should have heard the quarrel in the house. She didn't know when she came into the house from the kitchen. "I think our Xinxin is very good. What if she doesn't study well? As long as you are willing to bear hardships when you are young, you will certainly have a good life in the future. "
"I'm not worried about her. How stressful life is now. For example, the work of Liqing and I earn seven or eight hundred yuan a month. We can't buy her a house in the county or save any money for her as a dowry. If she doesn't study and work hard, she won't be bullied when she comes to her mother-in-law's house in the future?"
"Go, our family Xinxin is still young, so we don't worry about getting married!"
Grandma spoiled and touched her granddaughter's ponytail, with kind and gentle eyes. "Besides, Xinxin wants to have a head and a face. Who's the guy who married Xinxin and can't be a treasure!"
"Grandma!!" Wang Shenxin threw her ponytail in shame and lowered her head with a red face.
"Yo? I'm sorry! Grandma is talking, grandma is not willing to let you marry! But your mother is right. In the future, you should work hard and have a stable job and income so that others will not look down on you. Our family has no background and can't help you. Therefore, you have to fight by yourself, okay? "
Grandma's words are not only for Wang Shenxin, but also for Shen Dapeng and Li Ting. Shen Dapeng and Wang Shenxin can understand and understand. As for Li Ting, she is still eating shrimp slices and preserved fruits like nothing.
"Mom! I'm not good. It's not expensive to say these unpleasant nonsense during the happy New Year! No, I'll go to the kitchen and cook some dumplings. I didn't eat at noon. I'll cook some and try it first! "
Aunt is worthy of being a standard woman. She will change her face if she says she changes her face. Just now, she looked like she didn't stop educating her daughter into a doctor. In the twinkling of an eye, she changed her smile. "Today's dumpling stuffing is powerful. It's pure wild pork I asked my friends to buy in the market years ago. I'll give me five kilograms in total. I don't know if it's enough."
"Dapeng, there are firecrackers in the warehouse. Go to find the couplet and let them go. It's lucky to have a noisy new year. Do you dare to let them go? If you don't dare, I'll put it later! "
Although Shen Dapeng is one meter eight and has gone to college, in the eyes of his uncle who has not been in touch for many years, like Wang Shenxin, he is still an uncivilized child. In fact, not only in the eyes of his uncle, but also in the eyes of all his elders, children are children. When they grow up and succeed, they will subconsciously want to protect them.
"No? I'm afraid I'll let it go by accident. "
"Brother Dapeng, wait for me. I'll go too."
Shen Dapeng walked out. Li Ting followed up with her butt bumping. She covered her mouth and whispered, "what beautiful fireworks my mother bought. Don't let them all go. Leave some for me."
"Well, when it's dark in the evening, let's put it together!" Shen Dapeng smiled faintly.