Chapter 2800

However, born in such a family, they can't help but become like this. The environment of the whole big family is like this. If they don't want to be isolated, don't want to be targeted, and want to live well in the family, they have to learn how to calculate, learn how to say every word, and can't just talk. The first time may be passive, the second time may be helpless in the face of such a situation, the third time The fourth time Over time, there will always be a time when you reach the bottom line of your patience. When this kind of compulsion becomes a habit and an essential instinct in your daily life, when you speak, you will naturally start to calculate.

As the saying goes, "at the beginning of human life, human nature is good." whether it's the Ji family, the Dongli family, or those aristocratic families who are blacklisted by Ouyang Xiasha, they are not born to be treacherous and mean. They are not born to be calculating and shameless. Of course, they are not born to use all kinds of ruthless methods to seek wealth and kill, The demons who kill people and families without blinking their eyes, to put it bluntly, they will become like this. They are all formed gradually the day after tomorrow. That is to say, all of their temperaments were developed later, and had nothing to do with their birth.

For example, most of the first people in these families have such ideas because of their personal desires, and a few of them are forced to do so. However, even if this small group is forced to be helpless at first, it will gradually develop a kind of greedy selfishness after avoiding danger, and then gradually become the same kind of people as most people who are caused by personal selfish desires. This is the meaning of the so-called "from frugality to extravagance, from luxury to frugality". Then, with the continuous expansion of this kind of selfish desire, it is relatively easy Yes, what they did became more and more cruel and cruel.

And their offspring will be like this, which is the reason for teaching by example. As the ancient proverb says, one dragon gives birth to a dragon, the Phoenix gives birth to a Phoenix, the mouse's son can make a hole, and the so-called tiger father has no dog. These two sentences actually express the same meaning, that is, the father and mother are the children's first teachers, and the parents' behavior will affect the children's life, from the family From the perspective of education, with high quality parents and good family environment, the children must be excellent. Of course, nothing is absolute. Isn't there another saying that one dragon gives birth to nine sons? Are they different? Therefore, it can only be said that most of the future generations are like this. They follow their own elders to learn from others. Well, there are some of them who have conscience and are not crooked. But even if they can not be influenced by the first point, that is, words and deeds, they will be forced to do so by the second point. Therefore, the second point is that the family environment has been changed My predecessors have been brought to this. Even if you are not a good seedling, even if you still retain the only conscience under the education of your elders, so what? As I said before, as long as you want to live well and don't want to be isolated by your people, you have to force yourself to become like this. Once or twice, you can't accept it, three or four times, you can barely face it. In the long run, no matter how much conscience you have, no matter how strong perseverance you have, there will be times when the bottom line will be broken, and then it will be natural to get used to it And you're completely assimilated.

Well, it's a bit far away. Let's turn our eyes back to the calculations between elder Ji Xiaowu and elder Ji Xiaoshu!

"Little uncle, no, but believe me, as long as we are careful, there will be no problem. Unless the man on the fourth floor, regardless of his face, deliberately targets at him! " Sure enough, for the dissuasion of Ji's uncle, let alone the seven elders who always have their own ideas, Ji Xiaowu, who usually has no own opinions and is most willing to listen to Ji's opinions, resolutely refuses. But if you think about it, it's no wonder that they choose this way. The reason is very simple. You know, although uncle Ji has been trying to dissuade them all the time, he doesn't give them a specific reason. As for Ouyang Xiasha, she will pit them in turn? To put it bluntly, it's just a conjecture of Ji's uncle, a possibility, or a very low possibility. At least in the eyes of Ji's five and seven elders, that's what they see, a very low possibility and conjecture, that's all. Ji Xiaowu, elder seven, how could they easily give up their near success and revenge for such a possibility? Especially when they don't feel that there is anything wrong with their plans.

"Be careful, then." The younger uncle of the Ji family dissuaded him for a long time, just to shirk responsibility for himself after their failure. Otherwise, why do you think such a smart man as the younger uncle of the Ji family would persuade others with such a reason that he can't even convince himself? Is there really no basis and no reason? The answer is not always the same. It depends on whether the uncle of Ji's family is intentional or not.

In fact, to put it bluntly, uncle Ji's behavior is just for the sake of affectation. This is not to say that the younger uncle of the Ji family is cruel or abnormal. He likes to see people laugh and see people suffer. It's really the younger uncle of the Ji family who knows how stubborn and stubborn they are. You know, once they have their own ideas in their hearts, no matter what other people say, there is no difference between them. They are only willing to believe in themselves. They will never bump into the south wall and look back. Therefore, at this moment, uncle Ji doesn't continue to dissuade them. He just pretends to tell them to be careful, There is nothing strange or incomprehensible. In other words, uncle Ji just doesn't want to do useless work.But if you think about it carefully, it is true that no matter how you do it and how hard you work, the final result will not change. So what do you do to waste energy and time? Isn't that stupid?

Of course, in order to avoid some follow-up trouble and punishment, what should be done and said still needs to be done and said. It's just a sincere dissuasion. This affectation seems a little empty. It's just that Ji Xiaowu and elder seven, who are in an excited state, don't pay attention to it at all, and this is what Ji's uncle dares to do It doesn't cost any money, it doesn't add any connotation, it's the root cause of the lack of nutrition.

"Understand, little uncle, you just like to worry about things from nothing! But in order to reassure you, we promise that we will be more careful! " Well, it has been proved that Ji Xiaowu and elder seven didn't notice the perfunctory attitude of Ji's uncle. They still think that it was Ji's uncle who thought too much. Even in order to stabilize Ji's uncle, Ji Xiaowu seriously dissuaded Ji's uncle.

"Ah! I know what I'm saying now, and you won't listen to me, but I'm your leader and I'm responsible for you, right? So, I think it's better to be conservative. I don't know why, there is always a kind of inexplicable foreboding in my heart! " In order to shirk the responsibility and punishment they have to shoulder once their ultimate task fails, Ji's uncle is really fighting this time. Even his most disdainful premonition is that he doesn't hesitate to use it. It seems that this so-called punishment should be very serious, otherwise, Ji's uncle won't work so hard, will he?

If they only have the so-called responsibility, or a few words of strong condemnation, with their thick skin that has been honed in the Ji family, they can not care about the future results, especially the younger uncle of the Ji family, who has been living in the whole Ji family for many years, has been in a high position and holds great power, but the younger uncle of the Ji family still works hard Li, it seems that this punishment must not be generally serious, even Ji's uncle, who is in charge of power, can't be spared. When I think about it, it's no wonder my uncle will work so hard.

But then again, I think in the heart of Ji's uncle, punishment is terrible, and public humiliation is even more terrible. This habit of dying for face is just some of the drawbacks of the aristocratic family that seem to be engraved in their bones.

Uncle Ji can't imagine that if his Tangji family is in power and punished in front of the whole family, including those who don't know how many generations younger than him, where will his old face go? How to come out and meet people in the future? Therefore, in order to avoid such embarrassment and unhappiness, don't blame him for playing tricks, or even using his most despised but useful premonition.

Well, it's a bit far away. In other words, in the face of Ji Xiaowu's reassuring appearance, although there is no other expression on Ji's uncle's face, in addition to worry or worry, his mouth is also full of the attitude of "I think for you, I think for you". But in his heart, he can't help sighing: "boy, let's have a snack! Otherwise, it's just like you. Sooner or later, there will be a scene where people sell you and help people pay for it! "

Of course, these words are just in Ji's mind. If you really want him to say them, he won't do them. First of all, what he said will not affect anything. Can he shake the stubbornness and stubbornness of those two people with one or two words? Second, he is not stupid. How can he tell the other party that he is laughing at them? Even if they don't care at all, they can't open their mouth directly to point out? After all, just because they don't care doesn't mean they don't hear, does it? And they're at least going to have to keep the surface friendly and shiny, OK? Otherwise, he would not have tried so hard to put on airs, plus all kinds of calculations and means, would he?

"If something goes wrong, we'll take care of it ourselves. Little uncle, don't talk about it again!" Ji Xiaowu didn't think much. He followed Ji's words as if he had an instinctive reaction. If he took Ji's words out of it, he blurted out naturally.

That's right. That's what Ji's uncle has been saying and acting for so long. So, after hearing Ji's promise, although his face is still worried, he is really happy in his heart. In the words of Ji's uncle, no matter how good they are at the moment, as long as they don't promise anything, there is room for them to go back. Once they make a promise, the result will be different. After all, although they have no advantages in other aspects, they still have some.

But since it's two people's decision to make a move on Ouyang Xiasha, it's obviously not good to have Ji Xiaowu's promise alone. Therefore, although the uncle of the Ji family is very happy about Ji Xiaowu's ascent, he is not too happy to forget the existence of the seven elders.

In fact, it's true. After Ji Xiaowu made a promise, Ji's uncle didn't say anything or do anything. He just turned his eyes to elder seven and stared at him thoughtfully.

"That's right. If something goes wrong, we'll take it on our own. Similarly, if something is achieved, which will make that person really suffer a loss and affect the subsequent auction, what advantage can we take? Then when we go back to report to the family, we won't have any credit for you!" The seven elders, who are uneasy and staring at by Ji's uncle's burning eyes, didn't want to promise anything. After all, Ji's uncle is smart and knows how to plan for himself. The seven elders, who can mix with the elders, are not stupid. He doesn't know that everything has the risk of failure. No matter how confident they are, they should think more about danger in times of peace Well, the first floor is, so if there is something wrong in the end, it will not be at a loss, right? And if he fails, is he the one who can bear the main punishment or the one who can bear the main punishment? Why should he push it away? But in the end, he couldn't bear the double expectations of Ji Xiaowu and Ji's uncle, and the attitude of "if you don't agree, I'll let you do nothing" in Ji's eyes, so the seven elders had to compromise. The root of compromise is the result of being forced to do nothing, and the seven elders themselves are arrogant. Therefore, even if they are forced to accept something, they will not make that person feel better. They will try their best to find a place for themselves from other aspects. Just like at this moment, the seven elders directly cut off the possibility that the little uncle of Ji family wanted to get credit from them? After all, in the eyes of the seven elders, the possibility of their failure is very small. That is to say, the chance of Ji's uncle getting credit from them is quite high. At least in the hearts of the seven elders and Ji Xiaowu, they think so. Therefore, the seven elders cut off the possibility that they could get the credit. They had to say that they were really cruel enough.