Want to find it?
If you don't find someone, you will regret.
But I can't find it all the time. I'm disappointed with hope. That feeling is even worse.
Tang Hongen is not sure what will happen if he tries his best to find someone. Maybe it's the worst result. It's confirmed that the person has died... It's better to have a little sister alive without knowing the result.
Tang Hongen has always been decisive, but he hesitated on this matter.
Xia Xiaolan and grandma Yu were right. Although brother Tang Hongen was buried, the relatives of the Tang family re contacted Tang Hongen through this matter. Nephews and nieces are not stupid. They don't gather together in front of Tang Hongen. They are booing Liu Fen.
Liu Fen:... Suddenly there are so many considerate and filial young people. I'm really not used to it!
Xia Xiaolan laughed when she knew:
"What are you afraid of? In terms of seniority, you are the elder. If they want to boo the cold and ask for warmth, you can go on."
Anyway, she and her mother didn't ask for anything from the Tang family. It was clear that the Tang family asked for something.
If you ask for help, you should lower your attitude. This is a common rule in society. Even Xia Xiaolan does things like this. If you don't bend down and stick your neck to achieve your goal, you must have the ability to never ask others!
Xia Xiaolan can bend and stretch herself. The Tang family booed her mother and asked for warmth. She doesn't think it's strange.
Lao Tang had a sister who had been lost, which attracted Xia Xiaolan's attention.
After hanging up, she poked Zhou Cheng's hard arm:
"Here's your chance to please your father-in-law. Do you want to seize it?"
Zhou Cheng grabbed her mischievous little hand, "what do you mean, let's secretly inquire about Uncle Tang's sister's whereabouts first, and then inform uncle Tang when we have a cable?"
Xia Xiaolan nodded, "let him know when you have good news."
If you hear bad news, you have to think about it carefully.
"OK, let's look for it together. We should first ask the details when we lost that year, which will help us find people."
Zhou Cheng is right.
Liu Fen doesn't have to ask Tang Hongen. The Tang family are happy to help, especially Tang Chunlei.
This is a "big nephew" who is actively seeking progress. His second Aunt Liu Fen wants to ask him about his little aunt's loss. Tang Chunlei is very excited.
Zhou Cheng is on vacation. He and Xia Xiaolan can get bored everywhere. They met Tang Chunlei without telling Tang Hongen.
"My little aunt was lost in Tiananmen Square. My parents took my little aunt to see the military parade in 1959. The vicinity of Tiananmen Square was crowded with people. When I put my little aunt on the ground to change hands, my little aunt disappeared. I was only one year old that year. My second uncle was sixteen. He was going to see the parade. He was born ill and had a high fever and couldn't get out of bed the day before the parade. He didn't go... My little aunt was born in 1952. She was just seven years old when she was lost. "
Before the implementation of the family planning policy, most Chinese families had more than one child.
There is a big age difference between some brothers and sisters. Not only does the mother get pregnant again after many years, but the child born in the middle years may die young, have no chance to grow up, and don't mention it when she is too young.
Like Tang Hongen's family, his brother is seven or eight years older than him. In 1959, he was not only married, but also his son Tang Chunlei was one year old.
Tang Hongen is also a young man. The youngest sister is only 7 years old, only six years older than Tang Chunlei, who is a nephew.
"Aunt Tang is 36 years old this year."
At the age of 36, she is neither old nor very young. If the lost aunt Tang grew up smoothly, she is now a wife and mother.
It's hard to say how old the child is. It depends on whether aunt Tang gets married sooner or later.
It doesn't matter whether life is hard or not. What matters is that people have to live. Living is the best result... A seven year old girl is lost. Even if she is adopted, she is afraid of falling ill and dying in the process of growing up, and the previous medical conditions are not good!
It's normal to take children to the parade.
Lose his 7-year-old sister Yao... Tang Chunlei's parents are also very worried. Children can't let go of crowded occasions.
But the loss of aunt Tang must not have been intentional. A moment of carelessness and negligence has caused the regret of the Tang family for many years.
Maybe Tang Hongen blamed himself. If he hadn't been ill that day and went to the military parade with him, if one more person looked at Aunt Tang, aunt Tang might not have lost it.
These are Xia Xiaolan's own guesses.
Tang Chunlei wiped his tears. "As soon as the little aunt was lost, our whole family, the whole village and the police station looked for her. But there were so many people watching the parade that I couldn't find out who took my little aunt home. The whole family looked for it for two months without any news. In winter, my grandmother died. I heard that she couldn't close her eyes before she died and talked about getting my little aunt back... My mother also blamed herself. When the family mentioned it, she felt that she was blaming her. Later, it became a taboo that the Tang family couldn't mention. "
Tang Chunlei also defended his mother.
It suggests that his mother's temper is not always like this. It's a past that can't be mentioned in the Tang family. Besides blaming himself, Tang Hongen said that he could not blame his brother and sister-in-law. Suspicion has long existed. The "report" in the turbulent era was used to bewitch, and the friction accumulated in the past broke out.
Tang Chunlei said that even if his sister-in-law was lost, he also mixed private goods and washed the floor for his own mother.
Xia Xiaolan secretly pinches Zhou Cheng's hand under the table.
Zhou Cheng touched her palm and told her not to show it.
Hum, who else can teach this.
The newlyweds filed a lawsuit.
The young couple have a consensus. Tang Chunlei is not very honest.
Of course, there are not many honest people in the world. Everyone has his own careful thinking. We can't treat Tang Chunlei as a bad person because of this. He is several years older than both Xia Xiaolan and Zhou Cheng. He may feel that he has more social experience, so he thinks carefully. He thinks that Xia Xiaolan and Zhou Cheng can't hear it - it's also unlucky. He meets Xia Xiaolan and Zhou Cheng. They are the strongest single soldiers separately. Together, ten Tang Chunlei are not enough for the newlyweds to sneak around!
Comrade Chunlei is so naive that he guesses Xia Xiaolan and Zhou Cheng by their age.
It was 29 years ago that Aunt Tang was lost. It was still the National Day parade.
No wonder Lao Tang can't find anyone in his current position.
Xia Xiaolan thinks that Tang Chunlei's mother is the only hope to find someone... One of the two parties has died, and Tang Chunlei's mother is still alive.
Tang Chunlei still remembers the details of that year.
But will she tell the truth?
Xia Xiaolan pretends not to understand Tang Chunlei's careful thinking:
"Brother Chunlei, I understand what you mean. It's fate to be a family. No matter how big the contradiction is, it's best to resolve it after so many years. Looking for Aunt Tang is not only to make up for regret, but also to ease the relationship between uncle Tang and his hometown through the process of looking for someone, right? "