Chapter 21

At the beginning, Mingming laoding said that there was only one Son Jin in his family who was too lonely and wanted to have a second child. Because of the conflict with family planning, laoding said that if he wanted to have another child, the future of his work would not be important.

Qiao Dongliang doesn't deny that he is a traditional Chinese man. He thinks that he can inherit his family only if he has a son, but he doesn't demand it either.

Later, after listening to his wife's proposal, he lost his job and future in order to have a son.

Qiao Dongliang regrets not having Qiao Nan, the little daughter, but not having to sacrifice all that for a son.

If not for this, the wife would not be able to count Nannan's failure to have a son and work.

"Laoding, there are some things I don't say, which doesn't mean I don't know. What's the situation of your Ding family and how you grew up? You should know. Are you ready to let Nannan suffer the pain you have tasted? Nannan owes you, or you owe Nannan. "

Ding Jiayi has been living in a patriarchal family since she was a child. The reason why the old cadre of Qiao's father and friend introduced Ding Jiayi to Qiao Dongliang at the beginning is to find a way out for both of them.

Qiao Dongliang's parents are gone, and he has almost broken off his relatives.

It's hard for people like this to find a daughter-in-law.

When he was in the army, Qiao Dongliang was just a platoon leader, only a little better than ordinary soldiers. His future was not obvious, so he couldn't go up and down when he was looking for a target. He couldn't go up and down again when he was good.

In this way, Qiao Dongliang's choice to marry his daughter-in-law is even more awkward and hard to find.

As for Ding Jiayi, the living conditions of the Ding family are not bad. However, there are three younger brothers under Ding Jiayi.

Father Ding and mother Ding calculated to marry their three sons with a daughter-in-law. The house must be well built. The money in the house is not enough.

Therefore, Ding's father and mother put their ideas on her eldest daughter, Ding Jiayi.

The three younger brothers are all brought up by Ding Jiayi. Even so, Ding Jiayi's position in the Ding family is like the little servant girl of the Ding family. She works the most and eats the least, so she has to be scolded.

Ding Jiayi is also smart. When her brother learns knowledge, she always reads his books by taking care of him.

Sometimes, Ding Jiayi can teach the students what they don't understand.

In this way, Ding Jiayi stumbled and intermittently completed her primary school self-study, at least recognizing a lot of Chinese characters.

In Ding Jiayi's time, she was of a high level of education.

When Ding Jiayi grows up to be a big girl, Ding's father and mother don't want to keep her eldest daughter at home all the time, so that the money for her work can be taken home.

The idea of Ding Fu and Ding Mu is to find a "nice family" and ask each other more about the bride price, and then marry the eldest daughter.

At that time, father Ding and mother Ding not only found a good family, but also discussed the money for the bride price. They said they were marrying their daughter. In fact, many people understood that they were selling their daughter.

Ding Jiayi wants to marry a man who is short and frustrated. He is more than forty, a little older than Ding's father.

But the problem is, after that red age, this man will be noisy, pioneer, with good ingredients and a little power in his hand.

Father Ding is to find an official son-in-law.

The man is old and ugly. The worst thing is that the man has a bad temper. No one can tell how the daughter-in-law died.

Hearing that she was going to marry such a man, Ding Jiayi was so scared that she didn't want to die.

It's spread from left to right, and it's spread to the ears of the old cadres. As soon as the old cadres sum up, their old friends' sons are soldiers in the army, but the old friends are framed. On the surface, the ingredients are not good. There are no other relatives at home. They are worried about finding their daughter-in-law.

This girl has a good appearance and is literate. Her family is not reliable. If they want to, they can make do with it.

The old cadres didn't want to mess with each other, so they told each other about the situation and let Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi think about it for themselves.

As soon as Ding Jiayi heard about Qiao Dongliang, she nodded.

At that time, I didn't work as a soldier.

No elders at home? Well, if she married in the past, she would be in charge of her family. She would be in charge of two less elders and serve two less people.

There is no brother without a brother. As long as one's own men strive, they are better than anything else.

Ding Jiayi promised quickly. Qiao Dongliang hesitated for a moment. Finally, they agreed. They got married and became a family.

Relying on the relationship between Qiao Dongliang and Ding Jiayi, with the help of the old cadres, she not only got married and had a new life, but also had a good and decent new job. Her life was a qualitative leap.

At that time, Ding Jiayi thought that marrying Qiao Dongliang was the right decision she had made in her life.

Ding Jia Yi has been a baby sitter since she was a child. Her three younger brothers have been brought up one by one, and they take care of each other at home and abroad.

With her eldest daughter, Ding Jiayi was very kind to her eldest daughter before she was disappointed. She wanted to make up for her lost happy childhood with her eldest daughter.It's also a daughter. When it's Qiao Nan's turn, the treatment will be from heaven to earth.

"At the beginning, you said that you could not work in order to have a second child. You did not mean that I had this second child. For this, I left my favorite army. Laoding, for the sake of this child, my sacrifice is greater than yours. Nannan is not a son but a daughter. Who can blame her? Do you have a disheartened stomach and a face to rely on your daughter? "

Speaking of the back, Qiao Dongliang couldn't help but get angry.

With his eldest daughter, Qiao Dongliang is not easy to understand. He tells his son and daughter that they are just as good. He really likes life in the army. He likes to be a soldier. His father always says that he is a soldier by nature.

Even in order to be able to stay in the army, Qiao Dongliang has figured out how to train his daughter honestly.

Don't think, Qiao Dongliang stopped thinking, Ding Jiayi began to make a living to want a son.

"You blame me now?!" Ding Jiayi is like a hedgehog. She has bristles all over her body: "who said that your son and daughter are as good as you are? I don't blame you for letting Qiao's family have no children and become a pauper. Old Joe, you are too backward in your thinking! "

What Ding Jiayi can't hear most is that her stomach doesn't fight, because she gave birth to two daughters in a row and also lost their jobs.

For this reason, Ding's mother once came to find the daughter who had been married far away. Holding her grandson, she ridiculed Ding Jiayi for being heartless, so God opened her eyes and made her unable to have a son.