"Now that you understand it, you can do things and talk more with your brain. Don't be as impulsive as last time. Now you turn around and think, for a man, it's right to quarrel with your parents? If this man is really the one who can give you a lifetime of happiness, I think it's worth a little. If it's not, how do you feel about pissing off your parents? "
Well, the mood eased, Qiao Nan immediately criticized Fang Fang's willfulness.
Fang Fang said with a smile, "isn't it because I'm in a hurry? Otherwise, you say, what else can I do? If I come across such a situation in the future, how can I deal with it better? "
Fang Fang likes her boyfriend very much. She thinks that he is very considerate and gentle. He is very kind to her. She is not like the "good son-in-law" in her parents' mouth. She always bullies her.
However, when it comes to getting married for a lifetime, Fang Fang has no confidence in her boyfriend.
"Stupid, quarrel useful words, that day you still use to run to my mother-in-law's house, come to me to spit bitter water, beg support? On that day, you can speak plainly. Why do you have to quarrel. The louder you are, the more your parents feel that you are acting on purpose, not a rational decision. "
"It's no use being calm. They won't believe it." Fang Fang cried. She was angry and quarreled.
Qiao Nan drinks saliva and moistens her voice. She will have no other way out. I'm not sure she can open a psychological consulting company, or someone who specializes in listening to people's complaints and chatting with them. No matter how bad it is, being a matchmaker will become: "you're angry, and no one believes you? No matter what, no one believes you. You hurt yourself and your parents' hearts. You clearly explain your ideas, and then stick to what you believe, flash. In this case, if you receive today's call again, you will feel a lot less guilty to your parents. "
“……” Fang Fang could not speak, but had to acquiesce to Qiao Nan's words.
This time back to school, she often thought of that day.
At that time, mother's eyes were red with anger, and her father's growing old body quivered faintly. Fang Fang, as a dutiful daughter, blamed herself. Reason has been pulling and tearing between filial piety and striving for her own happiness. After she returned to school, she couldn't sleep for several nights. Even her boyfriend asked her out for dinner, she refused three times.
In this way, people on both sides of her seem to be hurt: "what should I do in the future?"
"I still think about the future. Didn't your parents compromise? I know I'm sorry. When I get back to my parents at the end of the semester, I'll spend more time with your parents, talk with them, walk with them and go to the park. Also, it's OK. Call home two or three times a week to talk to your parents, or talk about your life in school. You're unhappy and what's the matter. Talk a lot. Your parents understand you. They won't quarrel with you for an "outsider" in the future. "
Qiao Nan's tone was full of coaxing: "your parents like Gao Yan so much because there is a point that you can't compare with Gao Yan. Gao Yan's mouth is sweet in front of your parents, making him look like your parents' son. The problem is that you are dear. Gao Yan can do it better than Gao Yan. Take your parents' heart back from Gao Yan's hand. Without the support of your parents, who do you love to marry, can Gao Yan manage it? "
The more Fang Fang listened, the more reasonable she was. The reason why she almost gave in was because of her parents' attitude.
If later her parents are inclined to her and don't pay so much attention to Gao Yan, then Gao Yan is a fart. What is she worried about.
The key is her parents' heart to whom!
All in one, Fang Fang seems to have got through the two channels of Ren and Du. She is full of energy. She is as despondent as a rooster with high morale before the first day of the war: "Nannan, you are really my best friend. I wake up the dreamer in a word and listen to your words. I understand everything. You can rest assured that I will know what to do in the future and will not let Gao Yan take advantage of me again. "
According to the phone call from her father today, even if her parents say that Gao Yan is the best, she is the model of all the children, but she is the only daughter of her parents. Her parents' heart is towards themselves, not towards Gao Yan.
She is born to take advantage of the blood relationship. How inferior it must be for her to lose to Gao Yan again.
With Qiao Nan as the military adviser behind her, Fang Fang, who has never talked a lot, has more contact with her family, and occasionally talks with them.
At first, Fang's father and mother were not used to it and did not understand why Qiao Nan asked her daughter to do so. But it's always a good thing that parents and children communicate more.
Slowly, Fang Mu understood Qiao Nan's meaning and knew the use of these phones: "Oh, it's so late, it's not very safe. You'd better not go out. I really want to date. It's daylight. "
"In this way, it's not to let you experience life. You are still a student, focusing on learning. When you graduate, if you want to stay at home and let me raise your father, I won't agree. "
"You want to live outside? I'm still thinking about it. What do I think? What I think doesn't matter. What matters is what you think. OK, let me tell you something. You just listen. You can make your own decision. Fangfang, you are an adult. Mom believes in your judgment. Let's talk about it. It doesn't matter how much it costs to rent a house outside. Mom's biggest worry is about safety. When you live at school, there are several roommates in a dormitory. Mom can also rest assured. Otherwise, I'm afraid my mother will be too worried to fall asleep. "As a student, even if he went to university, such as Fang Fang, who is a bully, his life is still very monotonous, in addition to studying or studying.
Fang Fang has more communication with her parents and more conversation, but there is too little to talk about.
After talking about her studies, Fang Fang occasionally mentioned her boyfriend. She was thinking of boiling frogs in warm water. Unfortunately, the frog that was finally cooked in the pot became her.
It was also Fang Fang's mother who found a way. She didn't speak in a rush, let alone say a word about the boy. From the beginning to the end, she started from caring about her daughter's role, and let Fang Fang slowly accept her "opinions".
A midnight date? What if that stinky boy takes advantage of Fang Fang?
Working outside? She and her husband just said a few more good words about Gao Yan. Fang Fang was so sour that she went to the society to experience life. She must be angry. In this way, isn't it a chance to comfort Fang Fang?
Move out?! you must be dreaming!