Life will not become colorful just because you make a few more friends.
Friend, how could you be so friendly?
In my dream, Qiao Nan worked so hard. Apart from having a better relationship with her roommates in high school, she had the best relationship with Shi Qing. Later, when I went to university, I had another student sister. In her dream, Qiao Nan felt that she was very lucky and happy at that time, and could meet so many friends who were worth meeting.
"Mom and Dad, OK, why are you talking about this all the time? Is there another person who is passing on something
“……” Zhai Yaohui and Miao Liang are speechless, because Qiao Nan is right, that is what someone is saying.
Qiao Nan doesn't like to socialize with people very much. After living in the military and political compound of the capital for so long, Qiao Nan has little contact with his neighbors, making him like a lone ranger. If it wasn't for Zhai's family, Qiao Nan's style and style would not be different from that of a lone wolf.
Gossiping, how can I stop!
In the past, everyone hated Qiao Nan. When Qiao Nan was born unfit to be a neighbor with her, Qiao Nan seldom went out and didn't make friends with her family. Everyone thought Qiao Nan was a self-conscious way. I know that I am out of place with the people in this courtyard. I don't hang out together. I can only keep my face if I don't get out of the way.
Now it's a big difference. Many people wonder why Zhai's daughter-in-law doesn't show up in their compound and communicate with others. Qiao Nan is not willing to communicate with others, or what is the purpose of Zhai's family. Qiao Nan is not allowed to communicate with others.
In addition to the full moon, Qiao Nan, who never bubbled, was almost giving people the illusion that she was a special tool for Zhai's family to find the next child. This is not, after the child is born, Qiao Nan becomes the aunt with the child from the chance of having a child.
To this end, Zhai's family is helpless, especially Zhai Yaohui. We used to have a little old friendship. Under the premise of taking good care of one acre and three parts of our land, there are so many state affairs. Why not pay more attention to the development of our country? This is an old age, so also learn the woman's gossip set?
Zhai Yaohui asked Qiao nan to make friends, not to clarify this misunderstanding. He just felt that Qiao Nan had always been too cold. In the past, because of the Qiao family, there was no spare time except for working. After they got married to Zhai's family, they became pregnant in the shortest time and had to study with a stomach. For more than a year, Qiao Nan had little chance to spare. He naturally hoped that Joanne could have her own personal time and world.
After discussing with Miao Liang, the two decided to take care of Qiao Nan as much as possible while the three treasures were still small, so as to make Qiao Nan free from the world and expand her circle of friends.
Others misunderstood that it was not important for Zhai family to regard Qiao Nan as a tool to have children, but it also gave Qiao Nan such an illusion, which was a big problem.
B "no, nothing, nothing to say." Miao Liang smiled awkwardly. She didn't expect Qiao nan to guess. Without any preparation, Qiao Nan asked, and Miao Liang couldn't even smile naturally.
Well, seeing Miao Liang's reaction, Miao Liang said no, Qiao Nan can't believe it: "Dad, mom, I think it's time to close the door. Whether you are good or not, others can't see, and your heart is the most clear. I think it's good that I'm like this. Take three children at once. I'm absolutely busy. But you really let me out of the three children's business. Give me time to make friends. As a result, I feel flustered by the emptiness. Second, I don't think it's reliable to make friends in this situation. "
A friend is not one who makes friends with a special purpose. A friend who makes friends for the sake of making friends is not a friend in the real sense.
After so much thought and time, the goal has not been achieved. What's the point? I'm tired and half dead. As for making friends, Qiao Nan has no desire at all. This kind of thing can only go with the flow.
Qiao Nan has already said so well, Zhai Yaohui has put down his mind. His original meaning is that his own people are more important, not for the sake of human words. He has always felt that Qiao Nan's education is not high, but he is very transparent. The more he contacts, the more he affirms his idea.
After Qiao Nan went to school, he saw that Qiao Nan was in a state of semi suspension. Last year, he came back with a third place in the exam. Zhai Yaohui said that Qiao Nan is a child with high emotional intelligence, obvious intelligence and high intelligence.
Such an excellent child, born in the Qiao family, was wronged, and was delayed by the Qiao family. As long as Qiao Nan is given a chance to develop, she can definitely show her head and feet, rather than the outsider's "who is who's subordinate".
If Qiao Nan didn't grow up in a family like Qiao's, if Zhai Sheng married Qiao Nan at last. I'm not sure that when outsiders mention the couple, Qiao Nan is not saying "Oh, the woman Zhai Sheng married", but "Oh, the man Qiao Nan married".
Zhai Yaohui doesn't know that his thoughts at this time are real in Qiao Nan's dream, not that he thinks too much. Qiao Nan appears in front of people. People never think of her as "Zhai Sheng's wife". When they see Zhai Sheng, they say, "you are Qiao Nan's other half."."You two are really..." Seeing Zhai Yaohui's "compromise" so quickly, Miao Liang was not happy: "Nannan, you often go to school now, and you don't meet a girl who fits you?" Isn't it true that friends made in school are pure friends? Nan Nan is studying in school. Isn't it a good time to make friends?
Taking advantage of this time, Qiao Nan solved her lunch: "Mom, don't mention that I'm worried. The school I am studying in is different from the school in your concept. The kind of school you are talking about is the school that students enter and come into contact with. My kind of school is the place where students learn and improve themselves in a pure sense. "
Anyone who goes to an adult university is either for a diploma or for a broader purpose. The former is to pay for a diploma, the latter is to absorb knowledge or harvest results. It's not very realistic to make friends.
Of course, Qiao Nan didn't say too much, nothing was absolute. It's just that she didn't have any good luck from childhood, except for marrying Zhai Sheng and entering Zhai's house. So in the matter of making friends, Qiao Nan didn't mean to force anything.