"Slow down. Isn't the water hot? Grandpa is not in a hurry. He is not thirsty. "
His son died early. He didn't marry a daughter-in-law. He gave birth to a grandson or granddaughter.
Apart from his son's sacrifice, his other brothers and sisters all have their own homes. After his son died, the old man thought that his old age would probably fall into the bridge. Who can think of it? He still has today. He can enjoy it.
Thinking of those brothers and sisters who don't have much contact with themselves and are afraid of dragging them down, the old man said that those brothers and sisters who have children and women may not have a better life than he has now.
I remember that he had no one to take care of him. The government department looked for other relatives to take care of him for the sake of the martyr's family members. What were the faces and faces of those people when they refused him: "I advised you, how good a soldier is. He was a filial character when he was in the past. We've already said what's good about being a soldier? There's not much money and it's dangerous. You see, when Bingzi went, he didn't come back. He didn't even leave a child. You are the only one left. If you had listened to us earlier, instead of letting Bingzi go to work, would you be like this today? What's the name of Bingzi? I think when you named Bingzi, you got it wrong. It's unlucky. "
The old man felt aggrieved at the thought of those words.
What's wrong with being a soldier.
If no one is a soldier, can the country have today and everyone have a peaceful life now? Think he just wants to send his soldiers to be soldiers? When Bingzi was in school, how good his grades were. When he was in the college entrance examination, he could get a good one. But he didn't have any money. Bingzi's mother was not in good health. The money in the family had already been spent on the doctor for Bingzi's mother.
There is no money at home. He wants to borrow it. He wants his son to become a college student. After graduation, he can find a better job. When he makes money, he will return the debt he owes.
What do you think of those relatives? They are in poor condition. None of them is willing to help Bingzi. They also introduce Bingzi to work and say don't continue to study. What are those jobs? That's the dishwasher.
It's not that the old man looks down upon the dishwasher. He thinks his son has good grades and is smart. What's more, the person who opens the shop is his own aunt. Don't want to borrow money even if, to be able to go to a key university nephew so low wages, to wash dishes for themselves, the old man doesn't want to let his own sister so abuse their excellent son. If the work is really done, our relatives will not be able to do it in the future.
At this point, the elderly are absolutely not confused.
Finally, Bingzi decides to become a soldier himself. He thinks that he should call Bingzi to be a soldier. Otherwise, he's sorry for his father's name.
The son is gone. It's an unforgettable pain for the old man. However, those relatives still say those unpleasant words. Even if relatives are forced to take care of themselves, the old man refuses.
The old people are ready to sleep in the bridge and cave. Unexpectedly, they are received by a beautiful girl. Since then, the old man has been taken care of. He eats and dresses well. Compared with his previous life, after he lived in, he had no words.
Later, the old man learned that most of the old people who lived in the old house were the same as themselves. This old house was built for the old people like them. Living in the new room, lying on the bed, covered with quilt, looking at the white ceiling, the first night, the old man cried.
Who said it was a wrong decision for him to send his soldiers to join the army. Who said that the soldier died, and he should have no son to support the old and die? Who said it was foolish for soldiers to sacrifice for the country. Who said that the country and the people have forgotten the contribution and life that his family and soldiers made to them?
No, not all.
Remember, someone still remember!
The old man felt that he got this kind of care without asking for half a day's return, which was the affirmation and commemoration of his son's sacrifice and his contribution to the people of the country. At the beginning, he agreed that his son would become a soldier, which was a correct decision. What his relatives said was all fake, all farting.
The nurses in the old people's home are very good at taking care of people and have a good attitude. What makes the old man happy is that from time to time, some college students who do volunteer work come to the old man's home. What those college students like most is to listen to the old people talk about their dead children's life. Often see these college students worship their son's eyes, the old man's heart special comfort and pride.
His son is a hero, even if he has paid his life for it. If there is a next life, he believes that he will still make such a decision to let his son go the same way.
The old man felt that his life in his old age was getting better and better, and more and more delicious. As long as he thinks that all these are the blessings of his own son, which the country and the people have not forgotten, the old man laughs every day. Knowing his current life, Qiao Nan really brought it to him, and the three children are from Qiao Nan's family. The old man's eyes at Sanbao are no different from his grandson's and granddaughter's.
"Drink." Sanbao put the water in front of the old man: "Grandpa, drink water, drink more water, OK."Qiao Nan often said this to three children. The original saying is: drinking more water is good for your health.
The three children are learning Chinese. After they understand the meaning of adults' language more and more, their favorite thing is to imitate what adults say and do. At home, the three children were managed by Qiao Nan. When they came out, Sanbao stood up and said, "good water, these grandparents have to listen to her.".
"Good, Grandpa. Good health." The old man held the cup from Sanbao's hand and took a sip. It was more like drinking honey water: "ah, how can the water poured by Sanbao be so good and sweet. Sanbao, did you put sugar in the water for Grandpa
Sanbao knew that grandpa was boasting about herself, so she grinned and showed a row of neat white millet teeth, which made a lovely red face like an apple, and a bright smile like a sun flower.
The old man saw the hot eyes, and at last he just reached out and touched the small pull on Sanbao's head: "Sanbao, will grandpa buy you flowers to wear later?"
Sanbao cleverly points his head, chuckles and doesn't talk.