"I will come tomorrow!" Ji Yulan is an idea, did not pick up her candy, directly looked at her, said with her.
Sudan put the candy in her hand and laughed: "so trust me?"
"If my sister-in-law wants to introduce me, it's not bad!" Ji Yulan said.
If it's not good, she won't introduce it.
"Now that you can trust me and call me sister-in-law, I'll tell you that Xu Heshan, Dawa village, who I want to introduce to you, has got his driver's license. He often helps to drive and does other jobs. He's a hardworking man. I've heard that he always divides his family when he gets married. So if you look at him in the right eye, you will separate them after you get married The salary in the years to come will also be raised to 40 yuan, and it will be raised again in the future. This is his ability to support his family, and the rest of his family is personal. So far, I think it's good. Jianyun also thinks it's good, so he will help to look at others. "
That's what Sudan told her.
Ji Yulan blushed a little. That's why she married. That's what she meant to be the master of her own country. It sounds very good.
"But..." Ji Yulan hesitated.
"But what?" Sudan asked her.
"My dad keeps up with the family. Three hundred yuan for the bride price." Ji Yulan pursed her mouth and bit her lip.
"So much?" Sudan red did not hide surprise, said.
Ji Yulan's face was a little pale and nodded.
Three hundred yuan, that's quite a lot. Ordinary, tens of yuan, hundreds of yuan more, that's a lot. But her family is so poor that I expect her dowry to make the family more relaxed.
Sudan said nothing.
The betrothal gift is really high. You know, Li Zhi married Ji yunyun a lot, but it's only about 70 yuan.
But the stepfather and stepmother must confiscate a cent and exchange it all for goods and materials, and then give a lot of dowry.
If you look at Ji Yulan like this, you won't have half a cent of dowry. You still need so much money. Where is it to marry a daughter? It's clearly selling a daughter!
"I don't like to talk about other people's family affairs, but if it costs 300 yuan, you have to show me some attitude." Su Danhong looked at her and said, "you can't let the man marry a daughter-in-law and lose his fortune. In the future, you have to bear the life of the daughter-in-law's family, right?"
"My sister-in-law doesn't need to worry about these. As I said before, the 300 yuan dowry, the water splashed by my married daughter, is almost the same as selling me out. In the future, at most, I will come back to have a look after the new year. There is no other thing, and there is no reason for me to come back with my mother-in-law's things to subsidize my mother's family." Ji Yulan Road.
"Well, I see." Sudan nodded.
In the morning, she met Ji Yulan. In the afternoon, she met aunt Yang's cousin.
Her name is Li Xiaoyu. She was born in a poor family. She looks similar to Ji Yulan, but her eyebrows and eyes are more delicate than Ji Yulan. However, because she has to do a lot of work at home and abroad, her skin is tanned, and she can't see any beauty.
Su Danhong believed that Li Xiaoyu had heard aunt Yang say it before she came, so she didn't hesitate and went straight in.
Like Ji Yulan, Li Xiaoyu is also an old girl. How can such a girl have no idea about her marriage?
It's just like Ji Yulan, and her family's situation is not optimistic, but Li Xiaoyu is obviously not as straightforward as Ji Yulan. There's a lot of dowry required, 200 yuan, 100 yuan less than Ji Yulan. But Sudan laughs, gives her a few White Rabbit candy and leaves.
Aunt Yang looked at it and sighed: "you girl, the old lady has told you that you can take care of yourself when you get married. What do you want to do with your mother's family?"
Li Xiaoyu is still a little bit unable to recover, Leng way: "old aunt, sister-in-law, what does she mean?"
"Don't think about it. Go back. Take this Jin of pork and make dumplings for your nephew." Aunt Yang handed her a piece of pork tied with straw.
Ji Jianyun sent the pork to her.
Li Xiaoyu felt that she was still very good. She didn't understand.
"It's not that you're bad, it's just that you're not suitable." Aunt Yang said with a smile.
Wait for someone to leave, aunt Yang's smile also faded down, thanks to her in front of Dan Hong said big words, but did not expect this cousin grandniece was taught like this.
It's a good thing to miss your mother's family, but is 200 yuan dowry a small thing? If it's not enough, I'll marry you in the future. There are still brothers in your mother's family!
I don't have a happy life.
Aunt Yang thought so, so she came to find Su Danhong. Su Danhong said with a smile, "I've packed a lot of wonton. What's done in the south, aunt, you'll take some back later."
"That's fine." Aunt Yang laughed and said, "don't worry about Xiaoyu, Danhong. Yulan is good. She can take good care of her husband's family."
"Well." Sudan is not polite, nodded.
She is not satisfied with Li Xiaoyu, but it doesn't mean that she is not good. It's just that Li Xiaoyu is not the kind of woman she is looking for. She is looking for the kind of woman who can keep her husband's family stable, not the kind with both sides of her heart.It's not that she doesn't show filial piety to her mother's family, but her attitude shows that you can live your own life well, and your mother's family can show filial piety, which is considered filial piety.
Because they all have the tradition of preferring boys over girls. Since childhood, in their mother's family, their daughters have suffered a lot. If they can grow up with food and study for another two or three years, they will be the best. Most of them have never been to school. For example, Ji Yulan has never been to school for a year.
But boys are not the same, they can read at will, unless they really do not want to read, or else the basic will for.
So we can't blame our daughters for their filial piety. They are all devoted to running their own small family when they get married. In their mother's family, they are naturally taken care of by the elder brother or younger brother who has taken advantage of them since childhood. Otherwise, what's the use of them?
Ji Yulan obviously has this idea. She has two younger brothers. They are not small. She has not been married. She has worked in her mother's home for so many years. Is that enough? The bride price is still 300 yuan, and the bottom of my husband's family has been taken out. What else do you want from her?
Li Xiaoyu has another elder brother over there, and another younger brother is 18 years old, but she doesn't have that consciousness, so Su Danhong doesn't want to protect the media.
When Ji Jianyun comes back, Su Danhong tells him about it.
Ji Jianyun said with a smile, "well, I'll let Xu Heshan come and meet her."
"Why don't you go to see the pig's hair, Sue?" Said Su Danhong.
Su Zhumao is from her village. She wanted to introduce Li Xiaoyu, but now she has changed her mind.
"OK, let's go and ask mom for the new year, but if Xu Heshan and Ji Yulan become friends, we have to lend him the bride price first." Ji Jianyun said.
"Lend him 400 yuan, and let him settle down for another 100 yuan, and then let him pay it back slowly." Sudan said directly.