"Son, my mother is expensive. If you don't support me and my brother, I'll have to let my father sell the singing hall, and my brother will have to have a dragon tattooed on his body to collect the protection fee. I don't know when he will be cut to death."
Xiaoqian's words made Jia Xiufang's face bloodless and her lips tremble.
"No, he can't. He's your father, father..."
"What about human nature? Mom, do you remember who's child in the back street, who smoked and sold his 4-year-old son? What's the difference between my father and him? "
It's called concept swapping. To say the right thing, and then bring people in and change the concept, it's called brainwashing!
"This heartless man, I should have suffered a lot from him, even if it's bad for me. How can I do evil to you and your brother?" Jia Xiufang cried.
Xiaoqian saw that she was crying, but she didn't worry. She slowly made Jia Xiufang cry. She knew that the time she was crying was a time for emotional catharsis. She said nothing, just wait a few minutes.
Sure enough, when Jia Xiufang had enough sobbing, she wiped her tears and said to herself, "what to do in the future, what to do..."
Xiaoqian destroyed slag dad almost destroyed, began to give Jia Xiufang a second hint.
"Mom, my father has been like this. Sooner or later, he will destroy the house. My brother and I are still so young. What do you say we should do?"
"Yes, what do you do..." Jia Xiufang shivered and held her daughter.
"Do you remember when we went to the night market at night and came back to see the women in miniskirts at the gate of the night singing hall in Shanghai, who were wearing heavy make-up and some of them were directly held by men, Ma, can you remember?" Bring in the scenery hint.
Sure enough, Jia Xiufang remembered, "I remember, I still Pooh them. What can I do if I have hands and feet?"
"Mom, you say my father is outside. If he owes a lot of money and can't afford it, take me to the singing hall. I'll wear a short skirt and let people hug me."
"Ah Jia Xiufang yelled. She was a conservative woman. She broke down when she thought of the girl she had raised for so many years.
Xiaoqian wants her to collapse like this. The more severe the collapse, the better the later effect.
"Even if this fire is not caused by my father outside, but he took the money and ran away, is it true? When he comes back, do you have any money with him? The savings of a few years will be exhausted in a few days. Will the next step be to sell girls? Sell out the girl and sell out the son. Look at Dalong. He's a little ruffian. "
"Absolutely not!" Jia Xiufang is burning with fighting spirit“ One day with mom, you two can't live like that! "
What I want is her words! Xiaoqian guide so long, finally succeeded!
She put her hand on Jia Xiufang's shoulder and hinted to her mother with stronger language.
"Mom, my father is finished, but you are still here! You have two children, my brother and I need you! Can you see, my brother and I are trapped by my father? "
"Unless I die!"
Jia Xiufang is now completely brainwashed by Xiaoqian.
"We need you!"
This sentence, very important, needs you.
Jia Xiufang has the tendency of dependent personality. Although she has no opinion and blindly listens to others, the contradiction is that people with dependent personality also lack the feeling of being needed. In order to pursue this feeling of "being needed", they even lower themselves and try to please others.
Like her mother, eating leftovers, doing dirty work, sacrificing herself for her family.
While over relying on her useless father, she constantly reduces her status in the family, courting her husband carefully, just for the feeling of "being needed".
Xiaoqian constantly weakens her father's status in her mother's heart, and suggests that her mother, in addition to marriage, Jia Xiufang can find a sense of being needed from other places, such as her children's "need" for her, which will help Jia Xiufang gradually become independent.
In particular, Xiaoqian is a very excellent child. She is a daughter who can be admitted to a key university. She has a strong need, and Jia Xiufang is energetic again.
"One day when my mother is here, no one can drag my daughter to that place and be an unruly woman!"
In addition to her love for her husband, a woman's greatest sustenance is her love for her children. In order to protect her children, she can give everything. Now Xiaoqian wants to transfer all her mother's love for her father to her and her dandy brother.
Obviously, it was a success.
"But mom, it's no use just shouting so hot. You said my father would continue to gamble so much and make so many broken shoes. You're tired to death and earn not enough money. If he sold me, what should I do?"
"I..." Jia Xiufang was asked.
She only knows how to protect her two children, but she hasn't figured out how to protect them.
"Mom, you divorce. After you divorce, you fight for the custody of me and my brother. I'll get the house for you. You hold the house and support our sister and brother. No problem. Even if you are in debt, you don't have to pay it back."
This is the ultimate goal, divorce!
"But, divorce, I, I..."
"What are you afraid of? Think about it. If you divorce him, he can't ask for money from you. You can open a dry cleaner and support my brother and me. We don't have to be sold
Jia Xiufang is really interested.
What Xiaoqian suggested to her before has already played a very important role. Today, what she said to her is all specially designed for her personality. Her intonation, content and expression all poke into Jia Xiufang's heart.
Speech is an art. The language of a psychologist is the key to the heart of a patient. No one knows more about it than Xiaoqian.
Jia Xiufang's weakness lies in her dependent personality and deep-rooted traditional ideas. Xiaoqian now attacks Jia Xiufang's little dependence on her husband with her unreasonable love for her children in traditional ideas, and makes her deeply feel "needed" in the process of protecting her children.
To satisfy her dependent personality.
In order to achieve her goal, Xiaoqian does not hesitate to weaken her strength, saying that she is a girl who is not aggressive and needs her mother's protection. Obviously, the effect is very good. Now Jia Xiufang has the idea of divorce.
Xiaoqian continues to add to the story.
"Mom, if you don't get divorced, I will be sold. Look, he can even make me marry an infectious disease for betrothal gifts. He can't do anything for money! Next time you owe money, you must sell me! Mom, if you're a few years younger, he'll sell you, too! "