"Dr. Chen, I'll tell you. You're an authority on psychology. Do you think there's any kind of mental disease in the world that likes to abuse others and is happy to see others' misfortune? Our squadron leader especially likes to watch us bask in the hot sun. He drinks soda water fans and doesn't let us sleep when he does anti fatigue training for us. He makes a reclining chair to lie down with earphones and sunglasses on it. I don't know whether he is asleep or not. But if we cheat, he will get up immediately and be energetic. "
It is not too pleasant to make complaints about Wang Yafei's "bad deeds".
Yu Mingming smiles and gives him chicken wings and drinks. Snipers are usually in a state of war readiness and can't drink.
Although Wang Yafei has excellent shooting talent, he can never reach the height of clarity, and the difference is in the sixth sense.
Yu Guangming's sixth sense is comparable to that of an animal. He is very clever to everyone except Xiaoqian. Wang Yafei is much more insensitive. The squadron leader's murderous spirit behind his friendly smile is not obvious at all. He still finds common language with Xiaoqian.
"Come on, eat more!" Yu Qingming hands over a few more bunches of meat, and Wang Yafei is flattered. How do you know that Yu Qingming's real feeling at the moment is to eat more. When you get back to the team, you can't eat anything. I want to add food to you to the end!
"From a psychological point of view, people have an aggressive instinct, but most people's aggression is not obvious under normal conditions. If they are stimulated by the outside world, they may amplify this instinct and produce psychological diseases. The aggressive instinct can be divided into external and internal. External means attacking others, such as depression, mania, violent tendency, borderline personality disorder and so on, Internal attack is suicide, self abuse, depression and so on
"What kind of people will be aggressive?"
"Although everyone's situation is different, and it is also affected by genetic and hormonal disorders, most of the aggressive tendencies are closely related to the environment. If a baby is growing up, if society over affirms violence, or if he is in a more aggressive environment, he will take aggression as his behavior benchmark, The proportion of people with aggressive personality tendency in society is not low, which is inseparable from family education. "
Xiaoqian can always explain very complicated theories in the shallowest way. When chatting with her, even people who have no foundation can easily understand the truth she wants to express. It's totally different from ordinary scholars who can't understand the book of heaven.
"What kind of situation does our squadron leader belong to?" Wang Yafei has a long experience.
"He ah" Xiaoqian looks at Yu Qingming and feels that his leg has been touched by him from under the table. This is he reminding her that she should be responsible for speaking. When she goes back, she will also "add food" to you.
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As a professional psychologist, how can you be scared by someone's shameless threat?
Xiaoqian didn't feel that he was doing something bad. She asked Wang Yafei as if nothing had happened.
"What do you think of your squadron leader?"
"Hey, to be honest, I think our squadron leader --"
"Young man, eat vegetables, eat vegetables!" Yu Ming Ming begins to serve food attentively again and warns Wang Yafei with his eyes that if he dares to blubber in front of his future daughter-in-law, his skin will be strained!
"Captain, don't give it to me. I can't finish it." Wang Yafei didn't feel that he was in danger.
It's too spicy to stop you! Yu Ming Ming's heart is roaring like this.
"Dr. Chen, I was just joking. In fact, we all know that Captain Yu is good for us. Although we all secretly call him to harm others, we are all glad that we have such a leader. You don't know how strong our combat effectiveness is. Our failure rate is the lowest in the six armies. This is because the squadron leader is strict with us in peacetime, trains more in peacetime, and bleeds less in wartime, He's a hero in our hearts. " Wang Yafei took this opportunity to say what many people thought.
Usually also embarrassed to say face to face, this will be in front of the future leader's wife, say a few words.
Yu Mingming does not want others to say that he is not good in front of his future daughter-in-law.
But I'm sorry to be praised by others.
"You drink too much, come and eat more food and talk less!" Yu Ming Ming put all the food in Wang Yafei's mouth.
"Leader, I can't drink even if I have a rest. Have you forgotten?" Wang Yafei asked in doubt.
There is no tacit understanding at all. Yu Mingming thinks that after he goes back, maybe he should hold a meeting for several team leaders to study how to increase tacit understanding training among his comrades in arms.
Xiaoqian looks at this scene and feels funny. Xiaoqiang always says that she looks like a Mahua. Isn't he the same?
"Yes, you're right. Your squadron leader really doesn't belong to psychological problems. Although he thinks of many ways to toss you, he is different from those who have extrovert aggression. Although every person with extrovert aggression has various reasons, they have something in common, that is, stubborn and suspicious, lack of self-confidence and self-esteem, Your squadron leader doesn't have any of these
He's just very cheeky. Xiaoqian pulled the more and more shameful paw from her leg and twisted it on the back of his hand.
Half way through the meal, Xiaoqian's phone rings.
It's almost 1:00 in the morning. Who's calling her?
At the moment when Xiaoqian answers the phone, Yu Mingming quickly glances at the caller ID and sees that it's Tang Shuixian.
Xiaoqian said sorry, go out to answer the phone, in clear and silent with go out, not because want to eavesdrop on what she said, but not at ease, now is very late.
"Narcissus, what can I do for you so late?"
"It's OK. I'm on holiday abroad. I forget it's midnight at home now. I have jet lag." The voice of Narcissus came from the other end of the phone.
"Hu said," will your computing power degenerate like this? I bet a dollar, you are deliberately disturbing me
Narcissus is also Xiaoqian's patient. After showing friendship with Xiaoqian, she is now Xiaoqian's dry sister.
"Just a moment --" Narcissus said after a moment, turned to his father Tang Daye said, "she saw through, you lost dad, you owe me a bag."
"Chen Xiaoqian, you two are not colluding to blackmail me?" Tang Daye's voice came from the phone.
Xiaoqian sneer, very good, father and daughter tease son to bet her!
"Don't tease with you to play, Qian son has a living, do you accept?" In addition to learning to do business with her father, Tang Shuixian has seen many people over the years. If she needs psychological counseling, she introduces them to Xiaoqian. The local tyrant knows people who are also local tyrants. The price is arbitrary. Xiaoqian's house comes from this way.
"What's the problem?" Xiaoqian asked.
Can borderline personality disorder be treated