Chapter 945

"Mom, you go to the hotel first. I have something to do here. I'll drive by myself later." After what happened yesterday, Xiaoqian doesn't want to hide from her father anymore.

"Then try not to miss the opening - or let Liumei accompany you?" Xiaoqian's mother knows that Liumei has practiced. If there is something wrong, she can kick people down.

Xiaoqian shook her head, "no need."

At this time the ball dad may be because of the lameness of the reason, looking at the first time did not have the air, the whole person is also very haggard.

Watching Xiaoqian family come out, father's lips move.

He can remember how Xiaoqian's mother fooled him that day. He stood upstairs and talked with the woman whose head was suspected of dementia for so long, until he fainted from heatstroke!

This big girl is very good at cheating

"Dr. Chen, I came here specially to see you! May I have a chat? " Qiu Qiu's father smiles at Xiao Qian.

"Find a place where I'll get married tomorrow and set the table at my mother's house today, so I can give you half an hour."

Hearing that Xiaoqian is going to get married and set the table, Qiu Qiu's father was surprised first, and then he wanted to take out his wallet.

"Dr. Chen, look at this. I don't know if I can find you. I don't even have anything with me today. I don't know if it's your big day. I'm --"

Xiaoqian reaches out to stop it.

"Mr. Xiao, if you take the money, we don't have to talk about it any more."

Qiu Qiu always says that his father is a nouveau riche with no culture, and that his work is indeed the style of a nouveau riche. He pays money when he comes up, and has no technical content at all.

Ball ball dad embarrassed smile, chat up the wallet back.

Xiaoqian chooses a coffee shop not too far from home and drives her dad with the ball.

"Come on, what can I do for you?" Xiaoqian ordered a glass of ice water and asked him.

In fact, they both know that the father of the ball came to her because of the ball, just a symbolic walk.

Dad rubbed his hands and sighed.

"I want to ask, is there any treatment for my daughter's condition? I know that you are one of the most outstanding psychologists in China. You must have a way, right?"

At the beginning, he only thought that Xiaoqian was a leading elder sister and a good friend with Qiuqiu. He took colored glasses to see her.

When Qiuqiu said Xiaoqian was a famous psychologist in the domestic upper class society, Qiuqiu's father didn't believe it at all and thought it was bragging.

But he did find out that there was a very good psychologist in Q City, who could only be contacted through layers of relationships.

When he finally found out that the doctor was Xiaoqian through all kinds of relationships, this shock was too exciting. Normally, he should not have any more contact with the younger generation who had integrity, but for the sake of the ball, he could only show his face.

When the ball dad said two words of his daughter, Xiaoqian taunted.

"You have a daughter? When will it be available? "

"Isn't that the ball? You are good friends

"No, you don't have a daughter. Your daughter was" killed "by you. Now you have only one ball. It's hard to say whether he recognizes you or not." Xiaoqian said to kill by hand, these four words are very light, but they fall in the ball dad's ear like a heavy hammer.

He covered his face in pain. "I didn't expect her to be like this!"

"From a medical point of view, gender identity disorder is related to physiological factors, congenital factors and postnatal education. I don't know whether there is congenital hormone inequality in Qiu Qiu's gene, but I can tell you that his current situation is directly related to postnatal education, and it's you who killed that girl?"

"I didn't want her to be like this." the father expressed his pain. Who could have expected that the carelessness at that time would become a situation that can't be saved now?

"You didn't say it directly, but you brought him into the world. Instead of giving him the paternal love he should have, you beat him and scolded him, and constantly instilled the idea that girls are useless. Many of the psychological problems caused by childhood that I came into contact with were basically caused by the divorce of parents at about 5 years old or the long-term absence of father. The role of father is very important in the process of parenting, But why did you do that to him? "

Qiu Qiu's father's tears are coming down when asked by Xiaoqian.

At the beginning, he was also under great pressure. His life was full of disappointments. He was beaten outside, and his wife left him, leaving only a little oil bottle ball. When she was a child, she looked like a boy, but she was a girl.

Father Qiu's hometown attaches great importance to his children. Outsiders sometimes make jokes about having no son. Those who have a son laugh off, but those who have no son feel that their self-esteem is seriously frustrated. There is no place to vent their depression. They can only vent it with young children.

Who ever thought the consequences would be so serious.

Xiaoqian ignores the pain of Qiuqiu's father. Instead, she turns around and looks at an ornamental plant planted in the coffee shop. She doesn't know the specific name of the plant. She only looks at the luxuriant branches and leaves and the scattered red fruit. It's very pleasing. She reaches for a small fruit to play with.

"Outsiders think that we psychologists are very good. No matter what psychological problems we have, we can analyze this person's childhood through only a few test scales. Isn't that amazing? Many patients feel that they have problems. We can even clearly infer the family situation of their childhood. Do you know why? "

Dad looked at her helplessly and shook his head.

Xiaoqian pushed the red fruit towards him.

"A large proportion of adults' psychological problems are related to their childhood experiences. For example, the adults with problems are the fruits you can see. Suppose that the mental diseases caused by congenital genetic problems are congenital defects and can't produce good results. Can you understand that?"

This metaphor is very vivid, the ball dad immediately nodded, Xiaoqian continued.

"Will the seed with normal gene produce fruit? No, in the process of growing up, there is still a certain probability that you will encounter problems, such as moisture, temperature, sunshine, etc. a good seedling will become abnormal in your hands. Do you blame Miao for not working hard, or the careless gardener who takes care of Miao? "

One of the biggest failures of being a parent is that your child has problems.

Because most of the children with problems are caused by their parents.

Xiaoqian's words hit the ball dad hard. He was pale and breathless. He took out a bottle of medicine from his pocket and put it in his mouth.

"According to my character, I should ignore you, because the result you see today is the cause you planted at the beginning. From a psychological point of view, except for the problems caused by congenital genes, any psychological abnormality can find a causal link. Our duty is to find that cause and solve the present result."