Chapter 1432

Xiaoqian after a night of thinking, finally organized the language, since Xiaoqiang let her speak directly, she is not polite.

"Guo Jing in the biography of the archery hero is a controversial person. Some people think that he is a great chivalrous man who jumped out of the national category and chose the common people. Others think that he was ungrateful and adopted by Mongolia. He finally helped the Song Dynasty fight against Mongolia and killed many Mongolians. Different standpoints lead to different results. Another example is the ungrateful story of the metaphor of the farmer and the snake. Let's put aside the moral, we only analyze it from a scientific point of view. The farmer saves the snake out of goodwill, but the first reaction of the hibernating snake after being awakened is to look for food. Biting is only instinct. Both of them are instinctive reactions. Why is it a tragedy? "

As a result, the snake's instinctive reaction has still been rejected by people. From the human point of view, the snake is very responsive. What about the snake's point of view? What psychology studies is human instinct. If we jump out of moral constraints and look at instinct, many of the instincts brought by evolution are contrary to ethics.

"Isn't the second brother's Panpan very good?" Yu Mingming understands why she is insinuating.

His words have already made Xiaoqian tremble in her heart. Her intuition is right.

Xiaoqiang may not have thought that adoption would be so far away, but he blurted out the metaphor of Panpan, which proves that he still has a subconscious tendency to adopt Chaha.

Intercountry adoption is really not easy, but Yu Qingming's family connections are there. If yu Qingming really has this heart, it's not impossible. Xiaoqian is afraid that things will come to that stage and she will be passive before she says it in advance.

Xiaoqian and Yu Mingming didn't avoid Xiaowei when they discussed this matter. After all, this is just a baby who hasn't been weaned. Even though she has always been very clever, Xiaoqian and her husband don't think that a baby can understand this conversation across a layer of paper, so no one can see Xiaowei's eyes are wide open when they hear Pan Pan's name.

"The situation of Panpan is different. First of all, Panpan's intelligence quotient is very high and he is sensible early. Second, Panpan was raised by his second brother since childhood. What he was influenced by is your values of being old at home. The most important reason is that Panpan is a big one with good autonomy, and the emotional fetters between mother and son can not be understood by others."

After Xiaoqian finished, she observed Yu Mingming's expression. She was watching his reaction. If he blurted out, you can give it to Chaha, then she would be disappointed with this man.

Fortunately, Yu Mingming didn't say that. He just signaled Xiaoqian to continue. This is a detailed expression of respecting Xiaoqian and putting Xiaoqian's feelings in the first place.

Xiaoqian continued with satisfaction.

"Life is like a game of constantly touching the switch to get different endings. If you touch the switch, it will lead to a series of chain reactions. If you don't touch it, it may not trigger the result. Let's go back to Guo Jing. If the Mongols didn't adopt Guo Jing then, would there be such a controversial view now? Will the farmer be bitten if he doesn't disturb the hibernating snake? In order to emphasize that dramatic conflicts will be dealt with in an extreme way, we clearly have a better way to deal with them in reality. Why do we have to become dramatic? "

From a human point of view, the snake seems to be frozen. It's a "take it for granted" behavior to warm the snake with human pity. I think it's good for you. Why don't you appreciate the feeling of the snake!

People hibernate well there. You have to wake them up in your arms. You are bitten as food. You are also made into a fable to warn future generations. Is this bullying snake that can't speak and can't avenge? Who told you to do this to snakes?

Similarly, this problem can also be used between Qingming and Chaha. If yu Qingming insists on adopting Chaha with his compassion, he himself is busy with his work, and finally Qian always takes care of his children. Qian always has a lot of work, and she also has to take care of her daughter. A little negligence will be criticized by thousands of people. There is no shortage of moral bitches who stand and speak without backache in the world, For Chaha himself, being adopted by the man who killed his father is certainly not a good experience.

Major issues should never be like the farmer's "I want to do it for you", but should take the overall situation into consideration from an all-round perspective“ I'll find a place for him to take care of his adoptive parents. I won't adopt him. "

Stupid good than deliberate evil is also terrible, this truth in the clear, even if don't come over for a while, Xiaoqian a little bit, he understood everything.

Xiaoqian is relieved to get his promise of no adoption. Xiaoqiang is a man of no choice. He dares to promise that he will do it.

Xiaoqian blinked, "I didn't say anything. You said it yourself!"

The holy father was enlightened, and this consciousness came up in a rocket.

"What else do you need to say, smart boy?" In the bright point under the small Qian's head, doting said.

"I will arrange someone to deal with Miao Lun's affairs later. We will donate her medical expenses in the name of the international assistance fund, so as not to cause too much psychological pressure and burden on her mother and son, and we will not doubt the source of the expenses later."

Xiaoqian is very comprehensive, after listening to the bright is very warm heart, kiss her with emotion.

"There is a family, if there is a treasure."

Xiaoqian pushed him, "you don't come here, do you dislike me for being old?"

The original saying is that an old man is as good as a treasure!

"I'll go wash and take you two back to play. It's not easy to have a few days off. Let's not waste it."

In bright and energetic to the bathroom, Xiaoqian look at his back, smile, hold her daughter earnestly.

"I'm constantly troubled by it. Being a man, especially a woman, can't just take things for granted. We should learn to deal with problems rationally. If my mother weeps like those shrews and says that your father doesn't love me any more and doesn't think about things from my point of view, it won't be over. In fact, it's just a matter of a few words. My little Wei will also learn to think rationally when he grows up, You know what? "

If Xiaoqian doesn't plan ahead and Yu Mingming wants to adopt, what's the thinking of normal people?

I'm so tired working every day and taking care of my children. You are busy working all the year round. No matter what you are, have you considered my feelings? You just don't love me, you're selfish. How did I pay balabalabala for you at the beginning? You're also doing this to me now. Balabala, you just don't love me

Standard couple quarrel sublimation mode, this template can apply to more than 50% of the couple quarrel.

How does a loving couple separate themselves? It's just that she takes too much for granted in the failed communication time after time. Qian always refuses to do that. She is also imperceptibly taking care of her daughter with her own behavior. As for whether Xiaowei will become a woman who knows the heart and the wrist as well as her mother when she grows up, we can only let time give the answer.

Xiaoqian's response to her family is to prepare for a rainy day. Lacquer Yuxuan, who is far away in China, frowns with the survey results of Miao Lun he got. She thought it was a simple little help, but she didn't think there was anything behind it.

It's time to prepare for a rainy day for your daughter. If you can't wait for the rain, it will be too late.