Chapter 1174

The last John knew that.

As long as Xu rongxiao's ideas are determined, they will not be changed. If he still stays here and tells Xu rongxiao about his ideas, I'm afraid that even between the two people, there will be no way to get along with each other peacefully.

It is because John really knows all this, so now John did not let himself continue to say.

When looking at Lian Yun, he just gave a sigh with a bitter smile, and then said helplessly: "forget it, I think I know what you mean now, and I won't continue to say some words."

"It's just that I still mean that some seemingly simple things and things may not be what we need most or what we want most."

"Since this is the case, why don't you run away and let yourself face everything peacefully? Maybe everyone will be in a good mood when facing all this?"

John left with such a sentence.

Only Xu rongxiao sat there alone, feeling particularly depressed.

John made such two things, but also let Xu rongxiao understand a problem.

In the eyes of many people, Lianyun and muqingqing are different.

Only myself can think that Lianyun is more excellent, but in the eyes of more people, Mu Qingqing is the more excellent designer, just like John came here twice.

John knows the relationship between himself and Lian Yun. It's impossible that he doesn't know the relationship between himself and Mu Qingqing.

But

Muqingqing seems that all people feel that muqingqing must be able to go in with her own strength. She doesn't want to give muqingqing privileges at all, but when she comes to Lianyun, everything is different.

Xu rongxiao had never doubted his ability to bring his apprentice before, but now Xu rongxiao really began to doubt himself. Is it because he didn't do well enough that he would give more people such misunderstanding.

Let more people feel that the current Lianyun may not be so excellent?

Xu rongxiao doesn't know how to face such a situation.

This time John came, only he knew.

But next time, there will always be a need to meet Lianyun.

At that time, how to explain to Lian Yun? In the eyes of many people, Lian Yun's strength and Mu Qingqing are not at the same level. Now Xu rongxiao really can't figure out what went wrong.

When he took Lian Yun to the banquet the next day, Xu rongxiao also found a problem.

When most people go to talk to Lian Yun, they are in high spirits.

Although it's OK to chat with Lian Yun in the later stage, there's no nature of chatting at all. Only Lian Yun looks very happy there.

Think of before Mu Qingqing to participate in this time, almost became the focus of the banquet.

The social skills of these two people are not in the same position at all.

Seeing this, Xu rongxiao has a general answer in his mind.

Maybe that's why.

Although we are all designers and need to speak with our own works, we all attach great importance to social communication in any circle. If you do not participate in social communication all the time, you will feel that you are not gregarious.

But in the process of social intercourse, it is also the time for others to position you.

After thinking about it, Xu rongxiao went to Lian Yun.

Although most of the feelings are casually played by Lian Yun himself.

But now Xu rongxiao stands by Lian Yun's side with only one simple purpose, that is, he wants to know what happened to Lian Yun, so that when John comes to find himself, his reaction seems to be so intense.

"Master?"

At the beginning, Lianyun didn't have this feeling, but it doesn't mean that Lianyun himself is a slow witted person. Soon, Lianyun felt it.

Xu rongxiao seems to be especially around him.

But now Lianyun hasn't been very clear about what it is.

When Lian Yun looks at Xu rongxiao, his appearance is clear, but he is still a little timid.

Now Lianyun doesn't know what Xu rongxiao might do.

I don't know what Xu rongxiao is going to do.

What Lian Yun can let himself do is to let himself be timid.

It's hard to find some of the social feelings are beginning to disappear.

Xu rongxiao looks at Lian Yun's uneasy appearance.

In a trance, it seems that I really have some understanding of what is the cause of each other's uneasiness.

Xu rongxiao sighed with a bitter smile, and then said helplessly: "your attention now should not be on me at all, but those who come to have a word with you. I just want others to give you face when I stand here."Listen to what Xu rongxiao said, Lian Yun just found the state a little bit.

And with Lian Yun and others contact, Xu rongxiao is also a little bit to find the reason.

Compared with Mu Qingqing's skillful social interaction, Lian Yun is in a situation of awkward chatting when communicating with people.

I have to find something to say.

In this way, it's better not to say it at all. At least others won't think you look very superficial.

"By the way, I still have a question, which I particularly want to make clear. If you really don't mind, how about listening to my question now?"

Xu rongxiao's tone is relatively mild, when he gets along with Lian Yun.

"The man just now is frivolous. I can see that you don't want to deal with such people at all. Why do you have to force yourself to face such people with a smile? " Xu rongxiao sees everything in his eyes.

When Lian Yun looked at Xu rongxiao, he was a little surprised. "Shouldn't he be polite to everyone who comes to talk to him?"

Xu rongxiao looks at such Lian Yun.

Is also the person can't help but smile with a sigh, and then helplessly said: "at the beginning, when I think you have social problems, I don't quite understand, but now I understand what the problem is."

"Although you are also from a family background, you have never participated in many social activities because of your original identity. After you and Xia juexi are together, because Xia juexi is a person who hates social intercourse, so you don't have this opportunity. "

"Maybe that's why your design is almost the same, but in the eyes of many people, you are quite different from Mu Qingqing."

When Xu rongxiao talks.

Only think of their own depression.

Forget what you have hidden from Lianyun.

When Lian Yun looks at Xu rongxiao, his expression looks incredible.

It seems that I have never thought that I can still hear the answer here.

"Originally, in the eyes of many people, am I so much worse than Mu Qingqing?"

Xu rongxiao doesn't know how to hide Lian Yun, so at this time, the last Xu rongxiao just chooses to tell the truth.

Xu rongxiao nodded with a bitter smile, and then said, "although I don't want to tell you the answer now, in the eyes of many people, it's true that things are like this."

"In fact, if you simply talk about the works, I don't think there is much difference between you and Mu Qingqing, so I've been looking for the reasons for you. Only in this way can people feel that there is a gap between you. Now, it should be a social problem."

"A circle, no matter how much people in the circle recognize talent, but an association, after all, is a place where people get along with each other. Maybe, you can only go the same way as me. That's life. "

Every circle.

There will be some different people.

There are people like Mu Qingqing who are easy to be welcomed by others. There are also people like Xu rongxiao and Lian Yun who have many shortcomings in social communication.

"Can I go the same way as you?"

There are some things that Xu rongxiao really knows about his family, but for Lian Yun now, that's different. He always thinks that Xu rongxiao is worrying about his face.

I didn't say it badly.

At this time.

Xu rongxiao looks at Lian Yun's expression is very gentle.

He nodded with a smile, and then said, "yes, I remember at the beginning, the gap between me and you was not very big. I didn't like such occasions at all, and I didn't know how to communicate with people."

"However, our way of dealing with people like that just now is totally different. I think that people like that don't exist at all and ignore them in my own way. Later, in the circle, many people said that I was cold. "

"In fact, you and I have been abroad for such a long time, haven't we found out yet? Although there will be some people who have a good relationship, most of them are nodding friends. As long as you can really stand on a high level, then most people will definitely know you. "

When you talk.

Xu rongxiao's appearance is still very insipid.

"This..."

Some things, if Xu rongxiao didn't take the initiative to say, then even cloud really didn't feel a little bit, but now listen to Xu rongxiao say so, and then go to think about it, it seems that it's really the same as what Xu rongxiao said.

Some surprised eyes on shanglianyun.

Xu rongxiao nodded with a bitter smile, and then said: "if you really think that Mu Qingqing's social way is not suitable for you, then you just let yourself be independent, and more people will be willing to communicate with you.""When your identity reaches a high level, a person who most people can't communicate with, but is willing to communicate with a few people, then a few people will feel proud of themselves."

When Xu rongxiao talks.

Or use their own way to point to Lianyun.

But.

At present, every word Xu rongxiao says seems to have some effect.

At least what Xu rongxiao said now can be said to be unexpected to Lianyun before.

When Lian Yun looks at Xu rongxiao, the expression on his face has finally changed.

He just looked at Xu rongxiao and said, "master, if I didn't meet you, I don't know what I would be like now. How can I thank you?"

Lian Yun is sincere.

Of course, Lian Yun also knows that according to Xu rongxiao's personality, he will never let himself really do something.

Sure enough.

When Xu rongxiao looks at Lian Yun, he just smiles bitterly and sighs, then says helplessly: "there's basically nothing to do here. I'll take you to a new banquet tomorrow, and we'll go back the day after tomorrow."

"What's more, I hope you can make it clear now. I'm just giving you a suggestion now, but you still need to rely on yourself to decide how far you can go."

Xu rongxiao also knows that there are still many shortcomings in his own way.

The reason why he would tell Lian Yun such a method is that there is no way at present. But this is not a long-term solution after all.