"Okay...Yang Ming...Then let's find a place to chat?" Yang Dashan inquired. Yang Dashan was originally a man of power, seeing how Bao Sanli respected Yang Ming, he didn't dare to shout loudly anymore.
"No problem." Yang Ming nodded: "I'm not familiar with this area, so tell me where to go, uncle."
"There's a nice coffee shop in front. I often go there to discuss business." Yang Dashan opened the car's co-driver's door and let Yang Ming go in first. This made Yang Ming a little flattered.
Uncle has never been so humble to himself before! Sometimes Yang Ming does things very strongly, but that's when he treats his enemies or people who stink with him! Strictly speaking, the uncle also belongs to this kind of person, but Yang Ming can't show too much dissatisfaction with him. In the final analysis, this is because the uncle has a relative by the name of his father's brother. So even if it was because of his father's face, Yang Ming couldn't do anything to his uncle.
If he likes to pretend to be x, let him pretend, what does it have to do with me?
Seeing that his uncle's attitude suddenly took a 180-degree turn today, Yang Ming was really helpless.
Uncle's car is a Toyota Camry, a new model just bought last year, but this is Yang Ming's first time riding it.
"Yang Ming, Uncle has neglected you children in the past few years in business. You don't blame Uncle, do you?" Yang Dashan asked while driving.
"En?" Yang Ming was taken aback, what happened to Uncle today? Why do you speak so strangely? But Yang Ming didn't have any opinion at all. The uncle is not his father, so what if he is left out in the cold? Yang Ming didn't think there was anything wrong.
"Yang Ming, do you think Uncle is a philistine?" Seeing that Yang Ming didn't speak, Yang Dashan gave a wry smile in embarrassment.
"Uncle, I don't want to comment. Everyone has their own way of life, right?" Yang Ming shook his head: "How you do it is your business, there is nothing wrong with it."
"Yang Ming, you really are still angry with Uncle..." Yang Dashan sighed, "Actually, Uncle has no other choice..."
Yang Ming didn't say anything, and he didn't want to say anything. After all, the uncle's attitude towards his relatives is a matter of his own character, and Yang Ming is not qualified to point fingers.
"Uncle, you came to me just to tell me these things?" Yang Ming became a little impatient. If it's just that these things are not nutritious, then it's better not to say them.
"When we get to the place, let's talk about it..." Yang Dashan laughed dryly twice.
The car drove to the entrance of a classic coffee house, and Yang Ming and Yang Dashan got out of the car together. The receptionist at the door was obviously very familiar with Yang Dashan. Yang Dashan didn't speak, and the receptionist led them to a small table with a more elegant environment.
"What would you like to drink?" Yang Dashan took the order from the waiter and handed it to Yang Ming.
"Whatever, juice is fine." Yang Ming said casually without looking at the order. He didn't come here to drink, but to talk to uncle
"Is freshly squeezed orange juice okay?" the waiter asked.
Yang Ming nodded, while Yang Dashan ordered a cup of coffee. After the waiter left, Yang Ming looked at Yang Dashan, hesitated for a moment and asked, "Uncle, are you going to tell my parents about today's matter?"
Yang Dashan is not a troublesome person, and he just vented his anger on Yang Ming just because he got angry with Bao Sanli. When he knew the relationship between Yang Ming and Bao Sanli, he stopped immediately.
"What's the matter?" Yang Dashan asked back, pretending to be puzzled.
Yang Ming smiled and understood what he meant. It seemed that Yang Dashan was not going to tell his parents anymore, and Yang Ming's heart sank. He originally planned to threaten and lure him when he really couldn't, but he didn't expect his uncle to be so forthright.
"Okay, since uncle doesn't want to mention it, then just pretend I didn't ask." Yang Ming said, "I don't know what business uncle wants from me?"
"Yang Ming, over the years, Uncle has admitted that Uncle has been indifferent to you. You may despise Uncle and say that Uncle is cold-blooded, but in fact, Uncle is holding on to you!" Yang Dashan said helplessly. .
"Hold on? What do you mean?" Yang Ming was a little confused: "Uncle, there are some things you don't need to explain, and I don't blame you for anything. Although you are my uncle, you don't owe me anything. I don't care if you treat me good or bad. .”
"No, Yang Ming, listen to uncle first..." Yang Dashan interrupted Yang Ming and continued: "Back then, your uncle and I were also workers in the Songjiang Bus Factory. At that time, an old director of our workshop retired , I was the apprentice brought out by the old director at the time, and in terms of seniority, this position should also be mine, but the brother-in-law of the factory director at the time came out and inserted a bar, and squeezed me out.
At that time, I was disheartened and wanted to leave Songjiang Bus Factory, but both your father and Yang Xiaobo's father persuaded me to stay in the factory... At the beginning, the two brothers only persuaded me, but I I made up my mind and wanted to venture out alone. Your father and Yang Xiaobo's father were very angry at that time, accusing me of saying that I would not get a fixed job and insisted on being self-employed. Isn't this uncomfortable? It's just blowing my mind!
And the relationship between our three brothers also became tense because of this incident. Later, your father and Yang Xiaobo's father threatened me that if I dare to resign, I will not recognize me as a big brother! I was also young and energetic at the time, and said angrily, if I, Yang Dashan, become prosperous one day, you two should not come to ask me to do things!
And your father and Yang Xiaobo's father laughed at me at the time, saying how much development can a self-employed person develop? No matter how awesome it is, it's just a trainer.
Just like that, I resigned from the factory and came out to work on my own. I didn't expect this to make a name for myself! Although I have been in touch with your father and Yang Xiaobo's father these years, the relationship between the brothers has weakened a lot because of that incident at that time.
I am the boss of the family, the boss of the Yang family! I let my two younger brothers look down on me, do you know how uncomfortable I was at that time? I also know that I am not young anymore, and I can no longer be as angry as a child, but I still can't get rid of the knot in my heart..."
"Ah?" Yang Ming opened his mouth wide when he heard it, and looked at his uncle a little at a loss: "Uncle, why don't I know what you said?"
"How old were you in 1995? How could you know about these old sesame seeds and rotten millet?" Yang Dashan said with a wry smile, "You should also know what kind of person your father is. His thinking is very old-fashioned. Just because he looked down on me back then, that's why he has been lukewarm to you these few years!
Because of this matter, your aunt has persuaded me many times! I was ignorant when I was young, but now that I am so old, why do I still hold on to it? It may be that your uncle and I are relatively small-minded, so we have never eased the relationship with your father and the others.
But your aunt persuaded me again a few days ago. Your uncle and I are nearly forty years old, and half of our life has passed. It’s meaningless to go on like this. That’s why I invited your dad and the others out yesterday. You should have already noticed Now my attitude has changed a bit..."
Yang Ming didn't expect that there would be so many twists and turns. Did he misunderstand his uncle all the time? Reminiscent of his parents' attitude towards his uncle, Yang Ming finally understood why his father didn't have any opinion on his uncle's attitude. It turned out that it was because of such a thing!
Yang Ming is quite familiar with his father's thinking, he is old-fashioned and doesn't like taking risks, so he and his uncle must have had conflicts back then! Thinking of this, Yang Ming couldn't help but smile wryly. It turns out that the truth is often not what he imagined!
"Yang Ming, you may think that Yang Li's attitude towards you is not very good, but I am used to it. She didn't know about my relationship with your father when she was a child, and she thought I looked down on you guys from the bottom of my heart. Relatives, so it is normal for her to have prejudice against you." Yang Dashan continued: "I will tell her, Yang Ming, uncle told you all his stories, can you tell uncle about your affairs? ?”
"Uncle, maybe I misunderstood you, but do you know how much confusion Yang Xiaobo and I have caused by your indifferent attitude towards our family and Yang Xiaobo's family? People with no feelings..." Yang Ming said helplessly: "Many things in that era were hard to explain. In the 1990s, it was normal for people to be very conservative in their thinking. They thought that business was not as good as an iron rice bowl. Back then, it was also for your own good, and you yourself had your own ideas..."