Chapter 297

Then, the group fell into a silence, slowly, and a few more red packets.

Xu fan doesn't have much money. She can only go to school by means of financial aid and her own work. When she was a poor student, her tuition was subsidized by others. She is very aware of the feeling of being in a desperate situation.

Some people say that the world has no empathy, only warm and cold. So they choose indifference, yearn for the red wine, for their own interests can hurt others at will.

Some people feel that only by comparing their hearts can they feel the same. So they choose kindness, try to warm the world, and will not grudge helping others with their own kindness. They all feel that they are right, and no one can convince each other. That's why they have this complicated world, all living beings, all suffering.

When I want to study, my roommates are playing games. Anyway, I have done a lot of homework today. Play for a while. In class, wow, the guys next to me are looking at their cell phones. Anyway, I understand. Play for a while.

At the weekend, I want to go to the library, but when I wake up, I find that it's already nine o'clock. No one's up yet, so go to sleep.

When you go to the mountains to cut firewood, you meet someone who is herding sheep and have a happy chat with him for a long time. As a result, other people's sheep are full, and you haven't even cut a log.

After going to college, I understand that the original family limits one's development. Children from ordinary families do not have outstanding talents and strong minds. Some of them just accept the arrangement of their parents and walk all the way into this ordinary university from primary school to high school.

After going to university, my vision has been broadened, and I know that if I want to get more development, it's all up to me. I have nothing to rely on. There is really no one to help you.

But in front of many students, it is superior psychology, compared with themselves and others, to see those who are not as good as their own people, will feel superior, peace of mind.

But people are not the same. Will a male student who has failed in a major be a rich second generation and not have to worry about his livelihood long ago? Will this girl go to her parents' company as soon as she graduates?

The future of ordinary people is very vague. All roads lead to Rome, but some people were born in Rome. Ridiculous to say, if you really want to do something, how can you be fascinated by foreign things.

It's just that Xu fan can't take care of the flesh eyed ordinary people in the world. So leave these words to remind them, of course, also for those students.

You become who you spend your time with. I hope you find what you want and face up to what you can't see. May you be spotless. Peace of mind is fragile and weak, but if you really need it, you should find it from yourself. On the road of life, we are all alone, and we bear our own blessings and misfortunes.

Xu Fan has changed. Now he is more willing to face others with his sincere kindness than he used to encourage others for the sake of interests.

But the world will not be gentle to you because you are kind. Those who depend on the distorted rules will not allow the original members to easily break away from the rules.

This is a great blow to their group, and it will make them lose the soil for their survival. This is fatal to them, not only for their face, but also for their belief in life.

Wei Wuji knew that Yan Hua would never let Xu Fan go, but he didn't know when the other party would fight. The enemy was in the dark and he was in the light, just in case.

Xu Fan goes to school with Xu Fan every day. Wei Wuji goes to the place where he works outside. He doesn't find anything suspicious.

Just when Xu Fan relaxed his vigilance, he suddenly found that Xu Fan didn't come out after entering the toilet. Xu Fan quickly found an aunt and asked him to go in to help him see the situation. The aunt came out soon after she went in.

He told Wei Wuji that there was no one in the women's toilet at all. Wei Wuji realized that the event was bad and Xu Fan had been taken away by them.

In an abandoned building in the suburb, Xu Fan lies on the ground and is tied up with ropes. It's very cold. Xu Fan had been in a coma, but now he soon woke up.

He opened his eyes and found that he was in a completely strange place. He only remembered that he was dazed by a woman when he went to the toilet. It seemed that someone had brought him.

Xu Fan tried to shout, but it was so remote that no one could hear her.

Xu Fan didn't give up crying for help. Her voice was sore, but no one came to save her. She just felt that she was hopeless. At this time, a sound of feet appeared in Xu Fan's ear.

Xu Fan opened his eyes and gradually saw the figure of that person. It was a person she knew very well. Xu Fan was surprised and said, "it's you. Are you Xiaohong?"

Xiao Hong was a loyal fan of Xu Fan before. She almost worshipped Xu Fan fanatically. In Xiao Hong's eyes, Xu Fan at that time was a real fighter, fighting for the rights and status of her sisters.

Xu Fan's speech made Xiaohong feel that the world owes her a lot, so he felt at ease and asked her male colleagues to help her with things. He didn't even thank her, so he took it for granted. When she met a male colleague who didn't want to work, she strongly retorted, "are you a man?"

Go out to do anything to want the boyfriend to pay, bossy to the boyfriend, after breaking up has been scolding the boyfriend scum. Always feel that their life is not good enough, because the men owe her.

In fact, her so-called feminism refers to letting men do things for her. But Xu Fan's withdrawal makes her belief collapse, and she can't support her life with her previous theory.

"You used to lead us lonely girls to fight for our own interests and avoid being bullied by men. But today you betrayed your ideals and beliefs. How can I get you back to us? " Xiao Hong said to Xu Fan.

Xu Fan said to him: "before we were wrong, the world is just cruel and cold, but it is not men who owe us.

In the farming society dominated by physical labor, women's social labor productivity was generally lower than men's because of their low muscle content and different body structure. In addition, their material needs were relatively limited at that time. At this time, the deprivation of women's social attributes did not bring great pressure to men. Women chose to transfer their rights and rely on men to survive.

However, in the modern society where mental work has become the main body of social production, when work consumes more energy than physical strength, patriarchy's suppression of women requires men to pay double energy to fill this vacancy.

When patriarchy gives more social and economic resources to men, it also forces men to bear the social and economic responsibilities of buying houses and supporting their families.

Patriarchy defines women as weak, crying, passive and incompetent images, at the same time, it also forces men to become strong, brave to bear the image. For men who are unable or unwilling to bear such an image, society will give them low evaluation.