Chapter 438

The third daughter also said: "although our conditions are not good, we will try our best to take care of you. If we need nursing, I will ask for leave to take care of you."

Soon the doctor told them to go in. When they came out, the old man looked very sad. It seemed that he had some incurable disease, which made the whole family feel very uneasy.

The second son is on the phone. The vice president of the company tells him that the company's capital chain is tight recently, and it is difficult to withdraw funds. Once the funds are forcibly withdrawn, it will endanger the normal operation of the company. The company is his painstaking effort. He worked hard for most of his life to open such a company.

In order to treat the elderly, the company may be in danger, which naturally met the strong opposition of the second son's wife. The second son had to give in, while the third daughter's family condition was so poor that she couldn't afford the money. As a result, no one was willing to pay for the treatment of the old man.

The old man was very angry and complained that his children were unfilial, but his complaint also attracted two people's dissatisfaction. The eldest son and the third daughter also began to fight back. They felt that the old man was responsible for himself. When he was young, he played around and was irresponsible to the family, resulting in the children didn't get much help.

Moreover, the eldest son was also very dissatisfied. When he was a child, he was in poor health, but his father spent a lot of time outside. Even if the child was sick, he would not come to see him. Because there was no line at home, he dropped out of school very early. He went out to work and suffered a lot. He made money for his younger brother and sister. His elder brother was like a father, leaving only a whole body of pain.

The third daughter was also very dissatisfied. When she was a child, she saw other people wearing new clothes, and she wanted new clothes like that, but the family couldn't afford them at all. She had to take the second place. Like her elder brother, she had good grades, but she didn't go to University. She was looking for an ordinary person.

He has been living in poverty these years, but his father has never supported him. He always talks about the water thrown by his married daughter, and it has nothing to do with him after he gets married.

After a long discussion, several children decided to give the old man conservative treatment and let him go home to recuperate and be taken care of by his third daughter, while his eldest son's second son paid for his living expenses.

For this reason, the old man can only scold unfilial, so that many medical staff are embarrassed. The crowd came to watch, wondering what had happened. His children all feel embarrassed. If they do what he wants this time, they don't know what will happen next time, and they don't know how to deal with it.

The onlookers who didn't know the truth all felt that some of their children were unfilial, refused to treat the old people and were too indifferent to them.

Soon the old man looked at Fang Tianxing and saw that he was bringing his mother with him. He immediately ran to Fang Tianxing and said, "little brother, you are going to judge. Are they unfilial?"

Fang Tianxing said to them: "ordinary people just care about whether others are filial or not, but whether they love or not, because love is decided by themselves, is completely free will, and can't be controlled by others. It's not wrong to love or not."

The filial piety demanded by others is forced and necessary. Unfilial is wrong.

But no matter whether other people's filial piety is from the heart or not, no matter how extravagant and reasonable it seems, it's something that goes against the laws of nature. The best way to be children is to obey them and depend on them all their lives so that they can enjoy the desire for power all the time. So these rulers like parents are very stingy in giving their children love, a little care is like charity, they can always control the children Fang Tianxing said quickly.

"What do you mean, I don't deserve the benefit of raising them so much?" The old man said discontentedly.

"In fact, love is passed on to each other. You get it from your parents and continue to pass it on to your next generation. No generation suffers. People who always hold that they will get back what they pay for are completely selfish. Sometimes, to teach parents to take responsibility for their life and to teach them spiritual independence is the biggest reward for them. On the contrary, it will make their later life healthier and happier. Children can't be used to it, so can parents. " Fang Tianxing said to the old man's children.

Fang Tianxing knew that it was not easy to reverse their ideas. After living in a world full of shackles for a long time, even their souls were bound and could not be freed.

Soon, he took his mother to the hospital for treatment. The doctor told his mother that the lumbar muscle strain was caused by overwork. In fact, it could be cured. After taking the medicine prescribed by the doctor, Fang Tianxing took his mother home.

When her mother came home, she still wanted to cook hot food for Fang Tianxing. Fang Tianxing stopped her and said to her, "Mom, you need to have more rest. I'll do the housework during this period. You can rest assured."

Fang Tianxing helps his mother mop the floor, wash clothes, boil water and cook. There are a lot of odd chores. Although they are not serious, they will consume a lot of energy.

Fang Tianxing also felt his mother's hard work. He decided to surprise his mother. He bought a whole set of intelligent devices for doing housework from what he earned during this period.

Robot sweeper, dishwasher, automatic washing machine, he has just entered the shelf level, earning little money, mostly school subsidies, full attendance awards and state subsidies, in order to buy these things, Fang Tianxing spent all he had, but he thought it was worth it.

When these things arrived, his mother was also surprised. He blamed Fang Tianxing for spending money on them.

Fang Tianxing said to her, "if you buy everything, you can't refund it. Just make do with it."

With that, Fang Tianxing unpacked these things, set them up for her mother, and took her to be familiar with them. Her mother also understood that Fang Tianxing bought these for her to do housework more easily.

She knows that Fang Tianxing is an Internet writer. She can't stay at home. She has to keep accumulating outside to improve. Although she missed her son very much and wanted to spend more time with him, she couldn't drag him down. She gave Fang Tianxing a stack of what she had saved and said to him, "good man, you are ambitious. You should practice well outside. Don't suffer yourself. You are my mother's heart and soul. You should take good care of yourself."

Fang Tianxing is very moved. Children are born to love their parents, not only because of their upbringing, but because no one can hate a person who loves them all.

As long as the parents don't trample on this love, it is impossible for children not to love their parents. If children don't love their parents, it's better not to rush to kidnap them with filial piety, but to reflect on what they have done.

If children really love their parents, they need the external constraint of filial piety? If he does not love, just out of filial piety to do things, not hypocrisy, what is it?

In fact, that kind of superficial filial piety has no love at all, it's just a repressed behavior. The law of nature is that when children are mature, they have to separate from their parents psychologically, release themselves and start their own life.

To develop your life doesn't mean you don't love your parents. Love is equal, and adults are responsible for themselves. Fang Tianxing hopes that they will have a good life and believes that they have the ability to do well. Respect their own way of life.