Chapter 448

"My brother is also an expert here. I'm not alone. If you come here for no reason, do you want to live in seclusion The man asked tentatively.

Fang Tianxing quickly said: "although it's good to live in seclusion here, it's just that the big one is hidden in the city, the small one is hidden in the wild, and he deliberately goes back to the mountains. He seems indifferent to fame and wealth, but in fact he is inferior."

"I don't like to listen to you. You are far away from the hustle and bustle of the city and enjoy yourself here. In ancient times, Tao Yuanming picked chrysanthemums in the garden and saw Nanshan leisurely under the East fence. I was indifferent to golly and lived in seclusion in the wilderness The man said discontentedly.

"If you live in the world of mortals, you can't get rid of it all your life. You seem to be born, but you still cling to fame. Naturally, it's not a real seclusion." Fang Tianxing doesn't care.

The man sat up laughing. He felt very happy. He had not met such an interesting person for a long time. When he sat up, Fang Tianxing felt a strong breath fluctuation. The man in front of him was the number one reader and was named number one scholar.

This kind of person has already been regarded as the dragon and Phoenix among people. It's not a problem to be the director of a company in a big city. I didn't expect that I would come here to live in seclusion.

"Sang Rong, take out the top grade Pu'er tea I have collected. I want to have tea with my distinguished guests." The man said to the woman.

"There wasn't much tea. It took thousands of months to buy it." The woman named sang Rong said.

"It doesn't matter. We have to use the best tea with our bosom friend." The man said quickly.

Soon sang Rong went down to make tea, and Fang Tianxing continued to talk with the man. Only then did he know that his name was Tian Taoyou. He graduated from a famous school and had been a genius since childhood. He passed all the way and became the director of a big company when he was young.

But just when he was in high spirits, the sudden pain came. It was not another disease, but a strange lazy disease.

Unlike other diseases, lazy diseases are very difficult to treat, and they can't work hard. Although they are not like those manual workers, they have no food to eat if they don't work all day. But after all, he still has the foundation. Even if he quit his job, he can still live in seclusion here.

Lazy disease brings not only the slow metabolism of the body, but also Cheng Geng's weakness. The limbs are thin and weak, but the stomach is bulging.

"According to traditional Chinese medicine, this is the typical symptom of people with spleen deficiency, which is also described in western medicine." Fang Tianxing said to him.

"Is there any way to cure it?" Cheng Geng asked.

"The solutions of China and the West are both exterior and interior. Western medicine liberates viscera and finally recovers energy by keeping fit and strictly controlling diet to reduce fat content. Traditional Chinese medicine adopts the method of internal tonifying to nourish the spleen and stomach, enhance the transportation ability of the spleen and stomach, and then improve the overall metabolism, burn and dissolve excess internal fat, and then in turn liberate the viscera and improve energy. " Fang Tianxing said to Cheng Geng.

If you want to cure laziness, you must change your living habits, work and rest regularly. Of course, it is also very important to arrange your life reasonably.

Laziness is sometimes a double-edged sword, which improves productivity. To some extent, laziness is the source of all kinds of human inventions.

After the discovery of more efficient mode of production, so that very complex or severe tasks become simple, so that previously difficult to achieve the goal can be achieved. The source of all this is laziness.

The essence of laziness is to seek the maximum efficiency. Such lazy people tend to promote the development of society.

But this kind of physiological laziness is similar to the laziness when you can't lift your spirits and are unwilling to do anything, and the whole person is in a passive state. There are two reasons. One is purely physiological, the other is fear of difficulties.

Physiological laziness has always been ignored, but this happens to be the most important reason. Because the structure and operation of the brain has not been thoroughly studied, and there are great differences between people in the level of hormone secretion, it is likely that the different personalities of different people are the physiological manifestations of hormone levels in different states.

Furthermore, is Cheng Geng's personality directly related to his hormone secretion? My personal experience tells me that when I drink a cup of coffee, my mental state is much better, my fear of difficulties in the face of problems is much smaller, and my language expression has also stepped several steps.

When he was slightly drunk, Cheng Geng often couldn't concentrate. He was more impulsive, irritable and emotional than usual.

After strenuous exercise, the whole person is paralyzed and has no strength to do anything. At this time, the state is also the most consistent with the public definition of lazy moment.

These are all the different qualities of the same individual displayed by the brain in different reactions. Can Cheng Geng say that in the ordinary state, the signals received by the brain are actually the same as those of Cheng Geng after he has been exercising, drinking coffee and drinking wine?

If so, theoretically speaking, people's different personalities are actually the effects of different stress reactions. If a person is lazy, then Cheng Geng himself does not have the strength, does not want to do anything? Physiological laziness, in fact, can be equivalent to a disease.

The fear of difficulties refers to the loss of interest and confidence in continuing to conquer before the goal that is difficult to achieve. The nature of laziness is one of the deepest basic consciousness of human gene.

Imagine that in the era of no powerful weapons, an unarmed man has no interest in the easy to deal with hare, but to think about how to defeat the tiger, the outcome is nothing more than two, one is eaten by the tiger, the other is starved to death.

Therefore, those who are interested in things beyond their own level have been eliminated.

However, in today's human society, surpassing oneself is something that we should always do, so what people can do is to put their minds in order and face difficulties.

To put it more directly, there will be a strong sense of frustration after the action. Therefore, in order to avoid negative emotions, Cheng Geng's laziness will make him refuse to take action, which is a psychological defense mechanism.

"After the action, there will be a strong sense of frustration, which makes me feel incompetent and have no confidence to continue." Cheng Geng said to Tianxing.

In Fang Tianxing's current cognition, this situation tends to be attributed to Cheng Geng's lack of unconditional recognition and recognition from others and unconditional acceptance and love from others in his past experience.

Therefore, Cheng Geng is eager to prove that he is better than others and to get others' attention. But this demand is usually not met.

Cheng Geng would try his best to promote his ideal self when his real self could not be realized.

Cheng Geng was obsessed with creating the illusion that he was superior to others. Cheng Geng could not accept the idea that he was inferior to others. Any person or thing that reminds Cheng Geng that he is inferior to others will be rejected by Cheng Geng.