"In fact, DINK is becoming more and more common now. Everyone's work pressure is great. It's not easy to take care of yourself. If you have children again, you will have more pressure on yourself. I estimate that many people will choose not to have children in the next few decades, which seems to have become an inevitable trend."
Jiang Chan, holding a walnut, concluded lazily.
"You're right. Now the cost of raising children is too high. In addition, now people are one family, so there is a lot of pressure on their children in the future. There are both parents to support them. If they have another child, young people will really be busy all over the world."
Shi Yue also agrees with Jiang Chan's statement: "in fact, people are selfish in nature. If they can choose an easy way of life, they will naturally choose an easy way of life."
"So, Ding Ke is really not your fault, but you and Yang Zijie are not passers-by." Jiang Chan patted Shi Yue on the shoulder: "go to bed early. I'll go to the study to deal with some documents."
Jiang Chan's new year's holiday is he shunshun. Although Shi Yue divorced Yang Zijie, she still has contact with her friends. Jiang Chan followed Shi Yue to visit relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, and received a pile of red envelopes.
Jiang Chan understood that Shi Yue was consciously bringing her to her own circle and broadening her contacts. Although Shi Yue didn't say it, all kinds of actions showed that he was a very soft person in his heart.
Once accepted by her, she will treat you very well. Such a good woman doesn't know why Yang Zijie is willing to abandon her? Jiang Chan took a sip of tea and listened to Shi Yue chatting with Yuan's mother Jin Yun.
They have been friends for decades, but usually everyone is busy, so they only get together during the new year's festival. Jiang Chan sat quietly aside and occasionally inserted a word.
When seeing yuan Xufeng on the single seat sofa, Jiang Chan raised the teacup at him. The two elders are chatting. They have nothing to say. They can only stare at each other.
Jin Yun looked at them and said, "Shi Yu came to our house for the first time. Xu Feng doesn't take Shi Yu around. You young people should have a common topic."
The meaning of matchmaking in this discourse should not be too obvious. Jiang Chan stood up as if nothing had happened and just didn't understand it. Yuan Xufeng smiled bitterly. How worried was his mother? The little girl is still young, so she can't wait to push him to others?
She's not afraid of people saying that her son's old cow eats tender grass? After thinking so much in his heart, yuan Xufeng could stand it: "does president Shen like reading? I can take you to the study."
Jiang Chan's favorite is reading. She is not interested in electronic products. It's better to take a book and sit there and read it slowly. Seeing that they entered the study one after another, Shi Yue narrowed his eyes: "what do you mean? Our little fish are still small."
"It's because I'm still young, so I have to pay more attention." Jin Yun's eyebrows danced: "I like small fish, but I can't like it. I know how to take care of people. Look at your look, I envy you."
"When you divorced, many people were watching jokes," Jin Yun snorted, "but now look, although you don't have your own children, little fish is no worse than your own daughter. No wonder they say that your daughter is a considerate little padded jacket."
Shi Yue was not happy: "so you decided on my little fish? Xufeng is good. I asked Xiaoyu's opinion last time. She didn't want to fall in love until she was at least 25 years old. Can your family wait so long?"
Jin Yun tut said, "if it were a small fish, I could accept it. In fact, I didn't force Xu Feng to get married now. I just saw that he had been busy working and didn't even have a talking companion around. If he could talk about a girlfriend, I wouldn't urge him so much."
"Little fish is still small. It's only 23 years old. Her company has just improved. I think she is a typical strong woman. Can your family accept it?"
Although she likes Jiang Chan very much, Shi Yue still wants to explain that men are not the only ones who focus on their career in the world. Many women are no worse than men when they start their career.
"It's good to focus on her career. Even if she has children in the future, won't there still be us?" Jin Yun accepted it well. "This is a personal pursuit. In addition, even if she and Xufeng really become one in the future, is it rare that the child is a small fish? It always needs the attention of both sides."
"Then I don't have any objection. It depends on what Xufeng does." with her best friend's words, Shi Yue is relieved, "I won't give Xufeng a chance. I just look at his own ideas. I don't think Xufeng means that to small fish."
"I can't insist on this. I really think Xiaoyu is very good." Jin Yun forked a small cake. "Our family doesn't have the concept of matching families. Besides, Xiaoyu is so excellent that she has surpassed those secular marriage rules."
"Don't be modest. You say that a little girl who hasn't graduated can break into this foundation with her bare hands, and her achievements will only be more unlimited in the future."
"Xiaoyu is really excellent. Of course, she has made great efforts." Shi Yue has a deep understanding of this: "young people always want to fight well now. I feel distressed when I see it."
"As long as they don't break their bodies, let her do everything else. Let's just watch behind the elders."
On the balcony, Shi Yue and Jin Yun drank afternoon tea comfortably, while Jiang Chan chose a famous book and sat down on the sofa by the study window. There is sunshine, very warm.
Yuan Xufeng took an economics book and sat down opposite Jiang Chan. When he was in the study, he fell into silence, and occasionally there was the sound of turning the pages of books.
Jiang Chan read carefully. Yuan Xufeng went out and came in again. She didn't notice until a cup of hot tea was pushed in front of her: "drink a cup of tea to warm up."
Jiang Chan shook her mind: "thank you. It's too much trouble for you."
Yuan Xufeng hooked his lips: "you're welcome."
Although the study was very quiet, yuan Xufeng didn't feel embarrassed, just like getting together with old friends who had been reunited for a long time. We didn't say anything, but we were very relaxed.
In Yuan Xufeng's opinion at the moment, Shen Shiyu is a friend worthy of communication. As for other feelings, he really doesn't have, so it seems that his mother's calculation has failed, and the little girl doesn't feel much about him.
Jiang Chan's new year passed, but Han Chenguang went back with all kinds of excitement. They belong to the third tier small cities with simple folk customs, but the opposite is that girls generally get married early.